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Archived questions from: April, 2011 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

He had thoughts of his ex, and a missed call from her, should I worry??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - my boyfriend just told me that he thought of an ex girlfrend whom he dint talk to for many years this morning,then when he got home today he received a missed call,he called back the person and it was her...he says it was spooky...y is this ...

Still love my ex, but not sure whether to believe that he's falling for me again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4958 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - Me and my ex split up around 10 months ago as i found out he cheaated on me. I really loved him, so obviously i was heart broken. The problem is, i still love him even though i shouldnt i cant throw the feelings away. We recently started talking ...

Should I stick by my GF despite her attitude or should I not bother and go with a relationship that I feel could work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

30 April 2011 (M) - Dear Cupid, First off let me set up the situation for you. I have been with my girlfriend now for over 4 years. It has been a rather rocky relationship. a few years back i broke up with her because i felt it wasn't what i wanted. I didnt do anyth...

Why can't I form a connection? any tips on how to get past my last relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4959 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - Just wondering if anyone has had a difficult time forming a connection with someone (a significant other) after ending a bad relationship with a first love? My bf and I were together for 2.5 years, all the while he was cheating on me with other wo...

I heard she's dating a married man... but I want her back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4953 days ago

30 April 2011 (M) - i had a relationship with a woman older than me 4 years. she is my boss. she helped me get into that job. she is divorced with a kid of 7 years old. i dammed her 8 months ago. we still work together. i made a move on her 3 weeks ago and i took a big ...

Please help me to move on...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4959 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - When i was 17 i got pregnent with a baby girl. At first her father and i were still together. But sooner or later he started to stray from me. He started talking to other girls. Once we broke up he dated and had sex with another girl. I fought to be ...

I miss him like crazy...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4959 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - I was in a relationship for over a year with a guy who I was deeply in love with. I knew he was the one for me and we talked about some day getting married and stuff like that. But jealously that was getting built up inside of me and I lied to him. ...

Wife's ex-boyfriend calls her. Should I intervene?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

29 April 2011 (M) - My wife's ex-boyfriend (one she dated for three months twenty years ago!) sought her out on Facebook. She wanted to catch up with him and she also felt badly for dumping him back when and wanted to apologize to him. They exchanged about a dozen e-...

I am seeing both my boyfriend AND my ex husband and don't want to give up either one!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4959 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - Please help I have been in a dilemma for many years. I was married for 25 years but somehow I felt my husband did not love me. To make story short, I got really closed to a colleague and his love for me felt so strong. In parallel my husband was ...

I'm dating my sister's ex and hiding it from her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - so my sister was with this guy for a year. She cheated on him and he broke up with her. She moved on, as did he. I always liked this guy while they were together. I told him i liked him and he said he liked me2. A year AFTER they broke up, (she ...

My wife went behind my back and loaned her ex money

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - I am a 43 year old guy. My wife gave (she says loaned) some money to her ex to enable him to purchase some real estate. He had purchased on option on the land which was about to expire. If his option expired, I was going to buy the property. She ...

I love her, but she runs hot and cold

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4960 days ago

28 April 2011 (M) - Please help! We have been seeing each other for about 8 months. I am 27 and she is 22. We had a good relationship, no arguing, made sure we went out places regular together, had lots of laughs and everything seemed fine. We had a few issues, her ex ...

Why do I keep dreaming this lovely dream? Is it simply because I wish that would happen?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - So my ex dumped me 3 weeks ago. He got depressed about things in his life and as a result said love and relationships are hard work and told me that he no longer wants it. But he wants us to be friends. Im quite devastated I love him so much and ...

Seeking: one agony aunt to help with complicated relationship problem

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4961 days ago

27 April 2011 (M) - ok i have a few problems with an ex girlfriend becuase we want to get back together but a few things have happened and now im reconsidering everything and i would like some input from a different point of view (not friends or family). the prob...

I want to be happy since our breakup but I'm not sure how to be!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

27 April 2011 (F) - My ex broke up with me on mid Dec. It has been truly hard for me because I do love her. She has acted like a royal c*nt because i refused to stay friends. I mantained no contact for a while... recently, I have picked up the phone when she calls, all ...

Is it really over and how to heal a heartbreak?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

27 April 2011 (F) - I have been seriously dating this guy for a while. We started off with me still being in a relationship with my ex. Within a month or two, I broke things off with my ex and had full intentions of being committed to this new guy. I've always had ...

How do you know if your boyfriend is over their ex-wife for good?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

27 April 2011 (F) - I am having a baby with my bf of 1 year. He is at the end of a divorce - the last part - third final papers. Before I fell pregnant I thought he was already divorced. Turns out they were separated for four years and as soon as he got with me he ...

Do you think he had me in mind at all when he started writing such things on his page?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

27 April 2011 (F) - After a year I finally had to walk away from my boyfriend who I was in love with. He was addicted to weed, verbally abusive and had severe mood swings and manipulated me. He is very spiteful and hurt me so much through the relationship, but I did ...

Why does my ex keep contacting me, when he's the one who ended it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

27 April 2011 (F) - As I've posted before, I dated a guy for a short time last year. He ended things as he wasn't ready to be in a relationship and wanted to be single. I'm 24 and he's 22. I was disappointed but let him go, but you can't force someone to be with you. I ...

How can I get my ex and his friend to leave me alone? Do I need to change my number?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

27 April 2011 (F) - This is kind of ridiculous and annoying to me and don't know what to do. I am dating someone right now. And my ex and his friend that has had a crush on me, won't leave me alone. My ex keeps calling me and sending messages about how much he loves me ...

I moved on from my ex, but I think he left something that's interfering with my relationships with other guys!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - I had a boyfriend for year and a half, I really believed it was true love and that we would marry someday. He broke up with me the day I lied to him when he asked me if I had cheated on him when he went away to Israel for six months (by that time, I ...

Why did my boyfriend feel guilty after his ex left, even though she was the one who cheated?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - My partner said he felt guilty after he left his ex even though she was the one who cheated. He said when he found out, he left her but spent months afterwards feeling guilty and as if he had 'not acted like a man'. What does this mean? ...

My ex wants his wife back for a Visa, so why is he still wanting to see me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - I split up with my boyfriend after 5 months as i was not happy. My intutition kept telling me something was very wrong. I eventually found out he was married, still trying to get back with his wife - he has cheated on her since their honeymoon and ...

I've been stuck in limbo with my ex for 5 years now! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - I have a problem w/ my ex here. It may sound weird, but we broke up 5 years ago and I still can't get over him. We were in junior high school and just got introduced to each other for one week before we made up for a relationship. In fact, I wasn't ...

My ex has a new guy and it makes me feel inferior. Why do I feel like a failure?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

26 April 2011 (M) - My ex girlfriend has a new guy. We split up a couple of months ago because she's moving away from university next month and now she has already found someone in her hometown. I don't mind, because she's moving on and that's what I've been trying to ...

Dating my best friends ex, and she doesn't know about it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - One of my best friends has an ex boyfriend that she dated for about 2 years. Everyone kept telling me that me and her ex would make a good couple and i considered it becaise i like him. I brought it up to her and she said that she dont think she ...

It really hurts watching my ex flirt in front of me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

26 April 2011 (M) - My (ex) girlfriend and I broke up in February after dating for two and a half years. She said she just needed some time to find herself and I was willing to let her have it. All most as soon as I broke up with her a guy, we'll call him James, ...

Is it possible that you meet the right person and they're immature and damaged, but they're still the right person?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4962 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - I was dating my Ex and then he dumped me, like 2 days after Valentine's day. We said we loved each other, we've both said being together just felt right. Ex contacted me after the breakup and we tried hanging out as friends but ended sleeping t...

Should I put on the online dating site that I am looking so my ex gets the hint?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4941 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - What do you think? would it be weird if I did this? ? My ex boyfriend and I met on a dating site. He lied, cheated and dumped me but I loved him and was really hurt. I wanna go back on the dating site but he's on there. Should I put look...

Why did my ex tell his current girlfriend that he still likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4962 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - I ended up going to prom with my ex b/c my real date stood me up 20 min before prom started and I didn't want to waste his prom ticket. My ex has a gf and she was fine with us going to prom together. (Nothing happened although it was kinda awkward ...

I check on partner's ex and he broke up with her 10 years ago!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

25 April 2011 (F) - I am obsessed with my partners ex. I just constantly check her facebook page and look at pictures of her and her husband. My partner and her broke up almost 10 years ago! I think I am going mad, can someone please give me some tips to stop!...

Boyfriend has no feelings toward his ex at all, is this normal?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4271 days ago

25 April 2011 (F) - My partner says he is over his ex. He has no photos. no mementos, does not speak to her, does not email her, and he has often said (on me asking) that he never thinks about her. Also, when she does come up (I bring her up btw) he is usually negative ...

I can't stop thinking of him inside her, especially as he's bigger than me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

25 April 2011 (M) - So my ex gf and i broke up a few months ago and we both went our separate ways. I only dated a few girls but i never went as far as touching them. Now my ex gf and i started talking again and we are thinking about getting together again. the problem ...

My ex has a new guy and it makes me feel inferior. Why do I feel like a failure?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

25 April 2011 (M) - My ex girlfriend has a new guy. We split up a couple of months ago because she's moving away from university next month and now she has already found someone in her hometown. I don't mind, because she's moving on and that's what I've been trying to ...

Everyone is so against our relationship... help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4963 days ago

25 April 2011 (F) - I went out with my ex for a year and a half and we had some great times, however looking back we saw way too much of each other and things got stale. during our relationship he lied a few times and was very secretive about things. his mother gave ...

How do I make her feel the way she used to feel about wanting to date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

25 April 2011 (M) - I am 18, and so is my ex girlfriend. We dated for a year, having been friends first for a few months, and split mutually two months ago. The reason we split was because the relationship had become 'complicated'. This was mainly because she went to a ...

He no longer sees her but talks and texts every day...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

25 April 2011 (F) - I started a relationship in a horrible way. Although I am now separated, I was married and he was in a relationship with a 19 year old (he is 40). He has feelings for her, but knows it would never go anywhere. So after realizing he would lose me if ...

Why did my ex message me on a dating website?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

25 April 2011 (F) - HI All, Some insights would be welcome please!!I split up with my ex sometime back, but we have still kept contact. I went out with someone new for around 7 weeks, and did not contact my ex, then called him up to see how he was after I ended it with ...

Why does my ex boyfriend brag about his new girlfriend to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4963 days ago

25 April 2011 (F) - My ex texted me out of the blue about 3 days ago. He said hey what are you doing i just wanted to see how you were doing and then i didnt text back and an hour later he said i love you. and then i didnt text back to that. 3 days later he texted ...

How can I move on in a respectful way?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

25 April 2011 (F) - I've always defended my other half, when friends and family have always told me I could do so much better. I've been with a man who drinks too much but won't get help, who has let me down many times over the year and and really I know, underneath ...

Should I feel guilty for loving him but getting over him?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

25 April 2011 (F) - I need to get over a guy and stop feeling guilty. When I was almost 15 pretty much my bestfriend who was 20 asked me out. I was stupid and naïve and said yes. Things progressed out in our relationship and when I was almost 16 I ran away to live with ...

My boyfriend's buddies now give me the cold shoulder since I made him stop hanging around with his ex!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

25 April 2011 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for a year. Things were going very smoothly until two months ago. I told him how uncomfortable I was with his friendship with his ex from college(who happens to be the center of his social universe). This woman was ...

Can I win him back? Or should I not try? My ex flirts more with me than his Gf

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

24 April 2011 (F) - My best friend is also my ex boyfriend and we are still in love with each other. He has a girlfriend, but he sees, talks, and flirts with me more than her. As a matter of fact, they NEVER see each other... well, today I told her that I think I ...

He will not pay child support, but does not want me to move. What should I do? I still care about him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4964 days ago

24 April 2011 (F) - my long term boyfriend broke it off with me ten months ago when i told him i was pregnant. i was desvasted. i had a melt down really coping with the fact i was dumped, later to find out he had been cheating, and that i was pregnant. well anyways ...

He as done a terrible thing to me so why can't I just hate him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

24 April 2011 (F) - My husband had an affair with my best friend and is now in a relationship with her. I am absolutely devastated not only for myself but for my baby boy who as only been seeing his daddy for an hour or so a week. He say's he wasn't happy and he ...

My ex never gives me the answer that I want!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

24 April 2011 (F) - Why does he always do this? am really hurt:(? ? ? Whenever I speak to my ex boyfriend and I ask him why he cheated on me, lied to me and dumped me, he gets defensive and angry and never give me the answer that I want. He gets angry and makes me feel...

Why can my fiance invite his ex wife to our wedding but I cant invite my ex husband?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

24 April 2011 (F) - Hi there, Aunts and Uncles. I'm currently in the process of planning a second wedding for myself (this will be my fiance's third). We both have children from our previous marriages and have successfully included them all in the festivities. We have ...

I wanna prove to my ex that Iv changed but how can I when I don't know how to reach him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4964 days ago

24 April 2011 (F) - Im really down in the dumps. I feel like I have no one to talk to and people who im there for arent there for me. Ive tried talking to people but its like they dont want to deal with any of my problems. And lately I been thinking about my ex ...

I need to get over him to move on, but I just cant!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4965 days ago

23 April 2011 (F) - Me and my ex split up in august 2010 and we was together for 16 months. We split up as I found out he cheated on me. I'm always hanging out with my girl friends to try and take my mind off him, and everything that happened but it doesnt work. I t...

Should I flirt with my Ex-girlfriend's best friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

23 April 2011 (M) - I broke with my Girlfriend dumped me few months back. My girlfriend left me saying that I didn't have secured future by doing small job. I think I have been hard done by her for leaving me for such a small reason. Now I want taking revenge on her ...