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Should I flirt with my Ex-girlfriend's best friend?

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Question - (23 April 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 24 April 2011)
A male India age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I broke with my Girlfriend dumped me few months back. My girlfriend left me saying that I didn't have secured future by doing small job. I think I have been hard done by her for leaving me for such a small reason. Now I want taking revenge on her by flirting with her best friend for whom I had no feeling until recently. Will it be ethical or not? What you guys suggest should I do?

Thanking you all in anticipation !

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A female reader, Smileypants United States +, writes (24 April 2011):

Smileypants agony auntNo, its not ethical..it could ruin their friendship, not to mention it's not very fair to the friend to be used in that way for you to get your petty revenge. Grow up, and just pick a sweeter girl next time. You moving on and being happier without her will be the best revenge. And you won't have to feel like a jerk!!

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A male reader, the_phoenic United Kingdom +, writes (24 April 2011):

she didnt think ethical when dumping you and breaking your heart infact if you had a good looking wealthy friend she might have dupmed you srtaight forward to be with him

so why on earth would you have empathy on her ?

if you like her friend simply continue flirting

infact her friend might a better GF then your ex

Good Luck

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A male reader, krit India +, writes (24 April 2011):

krit agony auntIt is not a small reason because women from centuries search for a PROVIDER in the form of a MAN. But in todays time most of the women are educated , have jobs, and are more independent than ever before. So now they like to go with their instincts and be with the man who's a LOVER first.

The ultimate pakage would be the man who can be both the lover and provider. But first a lover than a provider.

Your gf was harsh on you and you deserve an apology from her.

But if she didn't apologize uptill now then go on and try your luck with her bestfriend. This would be big slap on her face for not treating you the right way. But be careful that you don't hurt her friend in the process with NO fault of hers. Keep it simple and straight forward and make sure that your gf gets updated about it from any source regularly. Keep it short and move on with your life. She doesn't deserves you.

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