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Archived questions from: October, 2010 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

Can a gift get an ex back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - Do men really care if you put a lot of thought into a gift for them or not? i bought my then boyfriend a vintage concert t-shirt to replace the one he got destroyed and had to give it to him after we broke up cause i don't need it... He was ...

The thought of infertility scares me as I'm desperate to have children when I'm older.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - Around four months ago I found out my now ex boyfriend was sleeping with my best friend, and soon after she announced she was pregnant. However, although I believe it is his baby, she has told me herself that she 'thinks' the baby is his, but she's ...

Ex says he can't trust me but I want him back.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend were very close friends for 3 years before we started going out, i thought he was amazing, then suddenly there was just no trust in the relationship. He constantly went through my phone and I admit, I don't really have ...

He says he really likes me but doesn't want a girlfriend.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - I have been seeing this guy for a few months now (I have not been sleeping with him) ... He comes down basicully every night after work and college and we watch some t.v and chat. We do sleep in the same bed, although we are not having sex. He seems ...

Should I never accept calls from him again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - Hey, I was dating a married man a few years ago. Not trying to break up a maarriage but because he said she cheated and they were getting a divorce. Well, the divorce never came so of course I tryed dating someone else after some years passed. ...

Do you ever get over someone you've been with for years?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - So my question is about love. After you have been with someone for a long time (years) and things don't work out between you two and you both move on what can you do to get yourself to stop loving, thinking about, and caring for the person that you ...

I found out he's got someone else and I went into shut down mode

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - I have a broken heart. And I need advise to get over him. See I like this boy and I thought he liked me. I went on his Facebook to add him to be my friend and I see he's in a relationship. I went into shut down mode. How do I get over him? Thanks...

My brother is married to my ex's sister, so trying to avoid him his very difficult. Help!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5172 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - Okay. How can I get over my ex when we have to be around each other and be friends. See, My brother Is married to his Sister. Its crazy I know. But since this is the way it is. We have to be friends, which I don't mind I love being his friend. But ...

How to open communications with an ex when you want her as a friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

31 October 2010 (M) - So my LDR girlfriend, of 10 months, and I have been broken up now for about 2 months now. She was the one who decided to end things and at first I didn't agree with the breakup but over time I've come to realize that maybe it was for the best ...

He's jealous because of the sexual things I did with my ex!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - i have a question... my boyfriend of 3 years is jealous of the fact that i gave my ex boyfriend oral sex and he ejaculated in my mouth, and ive been with him for 3 years and he has not done it 2 me. first of all my ex boyfriend treated me like a ...

I just lost the love of my life... how do I get over him?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - I just lost the love of my life I'm so sad. I can't believe he said we should go our own way. I feel dead, my heart is broken. I really love him. How do I get over him? ...

Did I deserve this treatment?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - I have to admit that Im fuming at the moment. I broke up with my boyfriend of a year and a half because of many reasons, but a few of them is his anger-issues and that he could never give me what I needed. So, I want it settled once and for all, if ...

My boyfriend is flirting with his ex girlfriend... what do I do here?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - hi this is my first time using this and it's probably because I want to hear other people's opinion on this and might help me. okay so here it goes. I've caught him (boyfriend) before during valentines day, he gave his ex girlfriend the same cake ...

What should be my next move in order to restore some sort of sanity in my life because I feel myself breaking apart in anger and distrust?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5172 days ago

30 October 2010 (M) - Alright I am not really sure where to begin because I feel that it is truly lost forever due to the fact that I have put forth a valiant effort in rekindling a four year relationship and my two year old daughter's future of mommy and daddy being ...

Ex boyfriend advice needed!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - Hey, Well, a couple months ago, i lost my virginity to my boyfriend of 7 months and a couple days after i lost my virginity to my ex, I found out that he had pregnant his ex girlfriend of 1 year. How did i found this out you might ask.. ? Through ...

I wouldn't know who to chose if I had to?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5172 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - So i have a boyfriend that ive been dating for 2 years and 2 months now and im living with him, and a roommate. (He has brown hair and brown eyes) We have been living together for about 4 months now. I think the reason was because my mom can trust ...

Getting over my ex is hard!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - We've been broken up for 3 months now. We only went out for two months (he was my first boyfriend) and that might mean it isn't that big of a deal to others who've experienced longer relationships...but I still felt for him. That should account for ...

Jealous over my ex and his new girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5173 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - right guys, i'm totally confused here! I'm 17 almost 18. and i had a relationship last year november time, with this guy.. who i thought i actually loved. and i (out of my own decision) had sex with him, and lost my virginity too him, and he lost ...

My ex hates me! How do I deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

29 October 2010 (M) - I broke up with my girlfriend on my birthday almost 3 weeks ago. We haven't talked since and she feels strongly about the no contact rule. But I feel really confused about a couple of things. For a while there our relationship wasn't the best....

I've lost all the men in my life, but I have realised I really care about boyfriend number 2. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5173 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - hello dear cupid, well this is my story. when i left high school i met a guy during the holiday, i usually hear about him but i rarely saw him before. he is my friend's nephew. one night at their family's wedding he asked his aunt about me, and told ...

How can I stop myself wishing the worst on my ex and his new wife?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5173 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - My ex broke up with me about a year ago,we had been together two years.I had no idea he was planning to leave me.We had a child together she was around 15 mounths.So me and my daughter had to find somewhere else to live.It was really confusing,and ...

Why should I sit and watch another woman run his life when I can't?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5174 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - Ok, so I have been dating my boyfriend for 9 months. We love one another and we are unseparable. I am 19 and he is 24. He has a 4 year old daughter who I have learned to love very much. I hate his ex girlfriend because sometimes I feel like she only ...

I cant shake this feeling that he is still in love with his ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5173 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - my b/f and i hav been dating for 6 months and its been hard because we both have sons with our exs. my problem is that i cant get over the fact he says he doesnt have feelings for his ex but i still think he still does.his ex g/f and him went on a ...

What should I do about my Ex LDR?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5173 days ago

29 October 2010 (M) - I think Im still in love with my Ex ldr. And she wrote me back on msn last night and saying that she was sry about some thing I wrote her on there. And she wrote me back on msn but she still wont call me still but she called me 3 weeks ago ...

Torn between my ex and new dude

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5173 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - I was with my boyfriend for four yrs and we have a 4 yr old son. unfortunately he moved abroad (not by choice)and we were separated for two yrs. In that two yrs, he found a new girlfriend abroad and messed everything up. My heart was broken and I ...

Am I still grieving the loss of my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5175 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - If you know that you have meet an amazing man who you are happy with and treats you well,how come i cant help but sometimes think how i miss an ex?I have a child with him do you think this is why i think about him?i never understood the breakup as ...

Torn between what is and what could be

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5174 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - It’s long, but the depth is needed. First I would like to start with a back history.. My current boyfriend and I have dated once before about 3 years ago. We lived together for about a year and one night he kicked me out due to a phone call from ...

Does she want to work things out or is she stringing me along?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5174 days ago

28 October 2010 (M) - I hope someone can give me some advice, i have a real problem going on in my life right now. me and my ex fiance have not been together for about 5 months since we broke off our 6 year relationship. i moved out here from chicago to los angeles to be ...

I want to regain my husbands trust and confidence

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - My husband and I dated for three years and were sexually active. When we got married, I just stopped wanting sex at all, but I did continue to masturbate. I dreaded sex and just had no interest. And when I say dreaded I mean I would just pray I ...

Should I take him back or just let go?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - First off, I love him and he loves me. It's totally a proven fact. So here's what happend. I'm 19. He's alot older then me, and we broke up the first time because he did not have a job and I was paying rent and all the expenses. I freaked out. He ...

This situation is so confusing, I don't know what to think anymore!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5174 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - hi, i'm a bit confused on how to put this because it's got my head spinning really. i apollogize in advance if i sound a little stupid. for almost a year, myself and my ex from 2 years ago would occassionally meet up and do 'stuff' together...

My life is a reflection of the movie "The Notebook"...I'm torn between my ex and my husband

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - My ex and I had a child together and were together for 10 years. We divorced for stupid reasons and neither of us felt right about it but for some reason we went through with it anyhow. We were on again off again for 3 years until he finally married ...

Does ex-wife of 13 years want to try again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5174 days ago

27 October 2010 (M) - Does ex-wife of 13 years want to try again? We both remarried and divorced. The first time we had a few drinks buzzed then 3 days later again..she said she was feeling vunerable becuase of a problem we have since resolved with our son. A month later ...

My girlfriend's ex is stalking her and I don't know what to do

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5175 days ago

27 October 2010 (M) - So I'm dating my ex-girlfriend again. We broke up about 2 and a half years ago and she dated this other guy for about 2 years. They broke up about 9 months ago, I dated other girls but none of them really fit the bill so I decided to try again with ...

Why am I feeling like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - why am i feeling like this,i split with my partner of 15 years then after 2 years we got back together again,it was good in the beginning,now i dont feel happy again i dont know why,he is a good man.i keep having panic attacks and anxiety.an ex ...

How to stay friends with an ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - How can I stay friends with my ex? I'm still not over him, but he seems to be very much over me. When he mentions other girls, it bothers me. Or when he flirts with other girls. Since we're over, it shouldn't matter that much to me. We go to the ...

Why wont my ex return my belongings?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I split up about two weeks ago, and he still has some of my stuff at his place. I have asked for these things to be retuned, and a week ago I got some of them, but not the most important ones. Last meeting ended up with a fight as ...

How do I get their father to take an interest?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5175 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - I got married and had two kids with my husband. After five years i quit due to some misunderstandings with my husband. I left with my two kids whom i am still taking care of all by myself.My peers and relatives advices me to fall in love again an...

We broke up, but now she is cheating on new b/f with me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5173 days ago

27 October 2010 (M) - Ok ill start off by saying that i dated my ex for 2 and a half years and we were friends for like 6 months before that. We took everything slow and we fell in love with each other. we had some problems at the end and she started ignoring me and ...

I'm a virgin but my new boyfriend really likes anal sex, and his ex liked it too! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend of 5 days and 8.5 hours is the love of my life. We have known each other for almost a month now and never go anywhere without each other! I'm a virgin and my boyfriend likes anal sex a lot. Should I just tell him I don't want it.. He ...

3 months later still crying over a 10 month relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - My ex broke up with me about 3 months ago and I'm still not over it. The relationship only lasted about 10 months, but I know I really loved him and still do. 3 months seems like too long to be crying over a 10 month relationship. I see him almost ...

Why am I suddenly thinking of my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5176 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - Hey, so I had a bf ~5 years when I was 17. We went out for just over a year and then broke up-we have hardly spoken since. I thought I had got over him and in fact I hadn't thought about him for a number of years. However, just recently I've started ...

I begged him not to break up with me

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27 October 2010 (F) - Hi,My boyfriend and been together for three years. He and I was in love but lately we been arguing and we broke up. He told me we have to be friends because he says he is scared. I beged himm but he wants to be friends with me and still talk to me. ...

Dating a week and his already in love ...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5174 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - my boyfriend and i havent been dating for very long (one week) and hes already told me he loves me. my problem with that is..i dont feel the same way. i care about him and love hanging out with him and our friend who for now im going to name c. also ...

He dumped me. Why doesn't he move on?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5000 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend dumped me not too long ago. (2 months) Im still hurt but moved in with dignity and havent looked back. However he is contacting everyone we know mutually and making childish stories up such as Im harassing him. It isnt just the ...

Should I go for the long distance guy or overlook my feelings for him and try harder on my relationship with my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5176 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - Okay, so i have a boyfriend who i have been with for 2 weeks, but weve liked each other for a while. i really like him and want to be with him and all my friends and my family likes him. he helped me through my last relationship with my cheating ...

Yikes, do I rekindle the old flame or cultivate the new one?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5176 days ago

26 October 2010 (F) - I have an old love (over 20 years) that I reacquainted with this summer after finally ending a messy divorce last year. My old boyfriend lives far far away and works in remote jobsites so he is rarely available. In the months since I last seen ...

I treated her bad so her famly came and took her away from me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5176 days ago

26 October 2010 (M) - my problem is as follows, me and my gf have been dating for almost 10 months, she just turned 20 and im 22, i was a jerk in our relationship, did some terrible things which iam truly sorry for. Her family was concerned about her and just over a ...

I need help. I don't want to give up on us, I just don't know what to do...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5176 days ago

26 October 2010 (F) - I promise to make this as short as possible. Me and my (ex) boyfriend were together not that long but 6 months. We were not together 3 months out of the 6 and basically lived together a month and a half out of the other 3. THe months we were apart ...

He won't stay and he won't let me move on

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

26 October 2010 (F) - im currently 26 weeks pregnant and my bd walked out on me so he could concentrate on being a good dad to his 2 children from a previous relationship and our soon to be born son but the problem is his ex is stating that he isnt to have anything to do ...