New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login245057 questions, 1084625 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!Search
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap

I wouldn't know who to chose if I had to?

Tagged as: Dating, The ex-factor<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (30 October 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 30 October 2010)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

So i have a boyfriend that ive been dating for 2 years and 2 months now and im living with him, and a roommate. (He has brown hair and brown eyes) We have been living together for about 4 months now. I think the reason was because my mom can trust me with him and that i dont have a curfew even though im 21 when i was living with the parents. But lately ive been feeling like i should be having fun going to bars, drinking with friends, having sleepovers with my best friend but the boyfriend doesn't want me to. He says oh i guess im have to sleep alone or why cant you do it anytime. He doesn't like me staying out like its like i didnt even move out..and we never have sex, maybe like 2 a month. Never party, he use to drink so i guess that's why i was like oh he party's that good. yea no.

So about a week ago my ex random just started talking to me. He has blonde hair blue eyes :) After a year of not talking. We hung out last Friday, Saturday and saw him for like 20mins this past Wednesday. He makes me feel so good, happy when he talks to me, when he hugs me im like in heaven. i think the only reason he broke up with me because i was 18 and he was 16. his parents didnt approve of me but let his son date some 19 then idk i guess they didnt like me. So anyway he is 19 now! he has a girlfriend but his girlfriends dont usually last night lol..and i wish we went back out. but then again idk since everyone was like he cheated on you. he'll do it again. and thats the only thing im worried about.

but i cant really decide anything now until August 6,2011 when the lease is up. But im just been thinking about it now. i never knew who to choice if i had to.

View related questions: best friend, broke up, has a girlfriend, my ex, roommate

<-- Rate this Question

Reply to this Question


Share

Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question!

A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2010):

you dont love any man yet. You treat men like a convenience. Your current partner just represents the co leaser of the property you are in until 2011. You dont know what you want. You dont want to be controlled. In a word you are not ready for any relationship until you have more inner peace, more self control and a lot more maturity and considerations for others than you have now.

<-- Rate this answer

Add your answer to the question "I wouldn't know who to chose if I had to?"

Already have an account? Login first
Don't have an account? Register in under one minute and get your own agony aunt column - recommended!

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft

0.0156663000016124!