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writes:Alright I am not really sure where to begin because I feel that it is truly lost forever due to the fact that I have put forth a valiant effort in rekindling a four year relationship and my two year old daughter's future of mommy and daddy being together. She left me back in the beginning of August due to our first true argument about how things were going between us. Of course as a guy I was defensive and said things that I wish I could take back but I can't. She left with our daughter and within two weeks time had moved all of her belongings out, taken her name off of every bill, and filled for child support. Within those two weeks of time I tried as an emotional wreck to fight to keep what I know and still know I love and want to spend the rest of my life with but in the same time it's hard to want, hell hard to trust after being drug through that form of hell like that. I am hard working individual that has supported this family financially alone for two years of the relationship. I am by no means saying that I did it alone I had the support of my wife and my daughter to wake up to support and cherish. I am not saying I did no wrong to cause what happened between us but it hurts as person to know that being the soul provider for everything within the household to be stripped away with unanswered questions. The main thing that I got out of her as to why she was leaving me was that she had been unhappy for three years. That honestly left me clueless as to where I went wrong because we had only been together for four years. Maybe it's not me and it's all her I don't know. I guess where I am going with this is what should be my next move in order to restore some sort of sanity in my life because I feel myself breaking apart in anger and distrust. This is more than less a rant in a condensed nutshell from august till now and our relationship as a whole. Any feedback or opinions would greatly be appreciated. If you would like to know more or have questions yourself I am more than willing explain. Reply to this Question
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (30 October 2010):
 If you still love her, ask her where you went wrong and then tell her that you are willing to change for her because you want to spend the rest of your life making her happy. Then ask her if she is willing to give you another chance. Swear to her (Only if you mean it) that you will try your best to change because you want to make her happy. If she says no, then there is no chance, offer your friendship but that is all you can do.
I hope that helps.
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