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Archived questions from: 1 October, 2010 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

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The ex-factor: Help and advice

Should I be concerned that she dreams of her exes, so much?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

1 October 2010 (M) - My wife of three months keeps informing me of dreams she is having of ex's. I would say in an average week she dreams of them five or six times. They vary in content; some are sexual, some are not. First off, why is she telling me about these drea...

I've reeled her back in but how do I talk to her again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

1 October 2010 (M) - me and my ex recently broke up on good terms. i saw online that when u stop communicating with her u cud draw her back in...i tried and its working...but now wat? i want us to start back talking regularly but i dont know how to initiate ...

I have so many questions after the break up

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5202 days ago

1 October 2010 (M) - Looking for advice from females here. As you can see, I'm a bit younger than most of the people asking questions on here so if you could take that into account, I'd appreciate it a lot After a break up(6 month relationship) if a girl says things...

I became too dependent on my ex, and now we have broken up I am really lonely!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

1 October 2010 (F) - After a really bad breakup 3 months ago, I'm now really really lonely. I made a huge mistake because I relied too much on my ex. I became friends with his friends and now I've got only a couple of friends. Most of my friends from school all went ...

What can I do to get her back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

1 October 2010 (M) - I need a bit of help. My girlfriend broke up with me a few days back because we had been a bit iffy and hand't seen each other for a while, I got drunk and upset her, saying if shes not going to be in my life then she should leave now instead of ...

I'm having second thoughts about marriage.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

1 October 2010 (M) - Is it normal to have some second thoughts while planning a wedding? I am smitten with my girl, and have been in love for almost a year now. We have talked about marriage openly and longingly, but now that we are actually planning it, I find myself ...

My girlfriend says she needs to take a break...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

1 October 2010 (M) - So, i've been with my girlfriend for a little over 9 months. We hang out a couple days a week and really enjoy spending time with each other. However, a few days ago she invites me over to her house and tells me that she wants to take a break. She ...

Does he still like me? How can I move on. Please help

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

1 October 2010 (F) - Hi All, Please can you advise!! I have recently split with a short term BF. I really really loved him, and am finding it very hard to get over him. He had to change his number, and when I asked he gave me the new one, also, I have been very foolish, ...

I am worried he is still in love with her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5202 days ago

1 October 2010 (F) - Hey everyone.. I know this is going to be on the lengthy side but I would appreciate your thoughts as this is really important to me. I started dating a man in the Navy a few months ago. We had been friends all throughout high school and I sen...

I don't know if I should or shouldn't tell

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

1 October 2010 (F) - I just read a guy's recent post about losing trust and respect for his girlfriend after finding out she's been in contact with her ex a lot. It got me wondering if I should tell my boyfriend that before I met him, I was briefly dating a guy who's ...

I've been through the emotional wringer

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5202 days ago

1 October 2010 (M) - Hey everyone: My ex-girlfriend broke up with me last Friday night. Prior to that, it was a long month whereby she first wanted a break, proceeded by us breaking up for a a couple days, then getting back to "try" (she wanted to try), me not giv...

Is she just keeping me around because I help with her child so much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

1 October 2010 (M) - I had been dating someone for about 6 months, she had a 2 year old from a previous relationship. things were going great then out of the blue she decided that she was feeling too much pressure being in this serious of a relationship. A few weeks ...

Boyfriend met up with his ex and I'm still not over it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

1 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend met up with his ex without telling me and the only reason I found out is because I had a gut feeling and asked him a month later and he can't lie. It's been almost a year since and we're still together. And I still kinda don't feel I ...

He says lets take it slow but I don't see much effort

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5202 days ago

1 October 2010 (F) - i moved outfrom my husband last year,because someone told me he was messing with their sister. during that time i started daing someone from my past. my husband tried to come back and i wouldn't let.then the girl told me 3 mths ago that she lied an ...

He was dating a friend of mine before, she was his first love, her body is still perfect and mine isn't

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5203 days ago

1 October 2010 (F) - I think I am making myself crazy with this, and I can't really find anyone to talk to about it or help me with it. Here is the story: I have been with this guy for almost 2 years, and I love him dearly, we live together etc. Before me he was ...

Having issues with his past affair.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5202 days ago

1 October 2010 (F) - Long story short, my boyfriend's "ex girlfriend" (he calls her "friends with benefits but with emotional attachment" aka girlfriend but he refuses to call her that) of three years is just really an unattractive person physically and personality wise ...