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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hey,Well, a couple months ago, i lost my virginity to my boyfriend of 7 months and a couple days after i lost my virginity to my ex, I found out that he had pregnant his ex girlfriend of 1 year. How did i found this out you might ask.. ? Through facebook! I was so upset and I cryed for weeks just because I gave all my trust and giving my virginity away to him and that he lied to me and never confront about it to me. Just letting you, My ex is 21 years old and I was 18 when I lost it and before I lost my virginity he never mentioned nothing about sex and was always buying me clothes and flowers and presents everytime we hang out or takes me out to dinner. So I had no choice but to leave him. Ever since I left him, he has been texting me and calling me non stop, telling me he misses me and wants me and stuff. Till this day, his ex girlfriend or " girlfriend" is 6 months pregnant and he still texts me all the time. I'm so confuse. Why you think he still texts me but then again cheats on me and lies to me when we were together ?
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reader, largentsgirl89 +, writes (31 October 2010):
 He wants his cake and he wants to eat it too. I was dooped like that as well, as soon as I slept with my son's father, the next day he was cheating and broke up with me for someone else. He wine and dined me to get down my pants cause I was an eighteen year old virgin. Men, sorry, boys just suck. He sounds really immature, like he doesn't know what he wants. I would let him go, change your phone number if you have to.
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reader, Ask and you shall receive..(well,ill try my best) +, writes (30 October 2010):
 Excuse my language but this guy sounds like a real butt wipe! With that being said well done for having the strength to let him go!it couldn't have been easy for you, but its something you should be proud of!
Anyways, it sounds like he wants what he now can't have anymore! when you guys were together all those things he was doing for you, he must have loved you or felt very strong feelings towards you and then cheated cos he's stupid! and now that he got this other girl pregnant he realised what he did, and how wrong he is for hurting you and making such an idiotic mistake! But i believe you should talk to him- not in person cos you won't b able to think properly if you see him, on msn/facebook chat- and tell him simply to leave you alone- he's had his chance with you- he blew it, and now hes got other responsibilities to his unborn baby. And you don't wanna get between that. You're still young, and it's his problem and his mistake- he made his bed, now he has to lay in it.
Good luck and take care :)
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