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Archived questions from: January, 2010 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

Please help me, I'm so confused...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - I met my ex on a dating site after a few months of chatting. We decided to meet our first date went very and end up dating. For nearly a year all was going well until I went out one night I was raped was a virgin. After that I went through ...

Would I be wise to take another chance with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - hello, i split with my boyfriend of three years, almost three months ago. The desicion was his, i tried all ways for us to stay together but at the time he was having none of it. we stopped seeing each other all together, as he lives a 1hr and ...

Bad relationship with my husbands kids! How can I change things?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - Several years ago I got involved with an older, married man. At the time I thought it was simply a short fling, but it developed into a relationship that eventually led to him leaving his wife. I do not feel the need to go into the 'gritty' ...

Broke up with my ex and he says he still loves me, but how can he if he isnt with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - Me and my ex slpit 5 months ago. he admitted he had feelings for someone else so we broke up. We had been together a year. Shortly after that he got together with this girl and they're still together now. Thing is, we've pretty much spoken every day ...

Should I take police advise and sue my ex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - I have an awful ex - he abused me emotionally and sexually for years (physically only right at the end, when I was finally getting out). I'm wondering if revenge is worth it at all? I could either do nothing and continue working through my issues, ...

What option do I choose?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - Me and my long tearm boyfriend have recently split up and we have a 2 month old baby. I have recently declared my self homless and I will need to put my name down for a new home. I have 2 opptions, 1/ stay in the same area code as my x because he ...

My ex sexually assaulted me and I don't know what to do

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - Okay, so im sorry if this gets long, and i know that im more in the wrong than any of these guys! I just really dont know what to do anymore, ive been with my amazing boyfriend Richard now, for 11 months, everythings being going great, hes so kind ...

We broke up after 15 months, a few days later I'm interested in someone else! Am I crazy?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - Ok heres a pickle, my boyfriend and I broke up 4 days ago. I was totally ok with it, we were together for 15 months, but had been good friends first. We just couldn't make it work, we kept having arguments and the break up wasn't messy. I thought I ...

I feel I have been pushed into child access arrangements

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - Me and my long tearm boyfriend split up this week. We have a 2 month old baby and we both agreed that, he would have are daughter for 3 day at his home and 1 night. This means that I would be takeing care of her for 4 days and 6 nights. Their is ...

My ex just wont take a hint!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - Well, i broke up with this guy because i didnt like him as much any more(actually he got boring lol) but he still thinks i like him and like stares, flirts, and talks about these weird subjects with me. its so annoying! at my school dance he came up ...

I don't know how to tell b/f of previous relationship problems

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - I was in a relationship for 7 years. I was very young when we started dating, I ws 16. He ended up being very mentally abusive. Were no longer together, but due to him my self esteem has taken a huge hit, and I no longer feel pretty, and worth ...

After he told me his plans for our future I am just dazed

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am white 25 year old Christian girl. My boyfriend is 31 year old Muslim man. I want to convert to Islam and plan to do so soon. I split with my ex-boyfriend (a university 5 year romance) just before I started dating my curren...

She is so shy she might run if I approach her

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

28 January 2010 (M) - Slightly confused as to make a move on this girl or not ? She's in her early 30's and slightly older than me, we've been working at the same place for about 6 months, she's spot on, ticks all the boxes but i'm getting mixed signals, when she'...

Am I obsessed, crazy or just confused?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5414 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - four years ago, I dated a guy who I was head over heals about. In other words who I was very obssessed with but not in a crazy way. Just in a weird way that I could never understand. We broke up because of peer pressure. I was a kid and he was more ...

I have a major problem, he's my best friend's ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - Here's background knowledge: I've known this boy for several years, though i''ve only met him a few times. He's an ex of the dear friend i'm going to talk about. However, he went out twice with her before he quit it, saying that exams were far m...

I feel very insecure with my boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5403 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, My boyfriend has been known for never being single for long. After a breakup, it doesn't take him long to get someone new. We have a history so I sure as hell hope I'm something special. Whenever I hear one of his ex-girlfriends' ...

Am I obsessed, insane, confused or just stupid?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

Help! In love and confused...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5416 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - Alright, so my ex and I have broken up about 5 months ago. But during the beginning that time, we've been flirting and said I miss you, sweetie and stuff, but never seemed to have gotten back together. We talk constantly nonstop nowadays! Well ...

What do his actions mean in guy terms?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

27 January 2010 (F) - I'm On a break with my ex boyfriend. He wanted the break because he couldn't handle a gf and wanted to get back on his feet, which is ok i guess. But Im getting confused he says he wants me and he wants back together again. last Saturday we hung out ...

Hot, then cold?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

27 January 2010 (M) - I recently started a new job, and i was working late i was speaking to a new female colleague, who i found attractive, anyway earlier in the day i had to send her an email work related. Just before she finished work we got talking about excercise ...

What does his behaviour mean? Does he miss me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5417 days ago

27 January 2010 (F) - My ex and I dated for almost 7 months until he broke up with me 3 months ago (via text messaging, very cowardly). He said that he felt like it was more of a friendship than a relationship, but he said it could be because he was moving in a month, ...

Will his children ever forgive me for breaking up their family?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - About a year ago I broke up with my boyfriend of 5 years. Well, shortly after that, a family member of his (whom I've always been attracted to but never thought anything would ever happen because he was married) contacted me to consol me for my ...

His ex is causing trouble! Is he telling the truth?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - i`m having a bit of trouble i talked to a girl who claimed to be my boyfriends ex girlfriend and she told me that he asked her out a few weeks ago when we have been going out for 5 months he has already been out with her and she went out with him ...

How can I handle having this baby on my own?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5417 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - Hi I am in such a bind and I would like someone to help me please! I am currently pregnant with my 2nd child with the same guy I had my first child with. Well me and him have been broke up for a year now and he does not want nothing to do with me. ...

How do you stop talking to an ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5415 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - What is the best way to cut contact from an ex? I am in a very toxic relationship right now and I know that cutting contact is the best thing to do. But how? What if you can't resist yourself but you have to cut contact? I wish it would be that ea...

My ex won't talk to me and he's seeing other people and I can't let it go!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - I feel like I am about to explode this minute. I don't know why but I have been broken up with my ex for a year and I never can seem to let it go. I know he's an asshole as he left me for another girl. I know guys like him don't deserve a single...

I cant have the girl I want because she is with another guy and is afraid that she will be blamed for my break-up with my ex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

26 January 2010 (M) - Hello, there is one girl called H that i loved for 1 year. And H loves me too. But right now H has a boyfriend called J and she is afraid to hurt her boyfriend J. And second thing H is afraid of is that other people will think that the reason for ...

Obsessed with my wife's past...

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

26 January 2010 (?) - I have been married to my wife for 14 years,we have three children and on the whole we are happy. I was 19 when i met my wife and she was 23 and we got married two years later. Before i met her i'd only slept with one other woman and my wife tells ...

She reads old sexual emails from past boyfriends and says I have no reason to be upset. What do you think?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

26 January 2010 (M) - I've been dating my girlfriend for almost two years now, and for most of that time I've known she finds sexual literature a huge turn-on. I don't have any problem with her buying sexy fiction to read, but some time ago she started looking up erotic ...

I want my ex back in my life ...............

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - I'm wondering whats up.My ex and I hung out. Everything was super good - no awkwardness, we laughed alot/flirted and yet nothing came of it.I thought atleast friends..but I havent heard from him much.Then I thought maybe he just wanted to fool ...

Can you be friends with an ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - Nothing's stranger than breaking up with someone you've known for a long time. Why is it that your new partner has issues with you still being friends with an ex? see someone every day and then suddenly stop all contact... it's unnatural. i ha...

My ex cheated on his pregnant girl with me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - Hiya everyone, Ok i now this sounds really wrong but im best friends with my ex bf, His gf is pregnent, and went in2 hospital last yesterday to be induced anyway he got sent home as no baby, and he rang me up and asked if i could get him some foo...

She avoids me now that she has a new bf! What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

25 January 2010 (M) - My gf avoids me what to do...? I love her more then myself but she hates me. Now she is in love with a new bf....

What kind of heart can you have to mistreat someone the way he has?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - Recently broke up with a young man i had been dating for about 4 months. When we started dating he was all I thought I wanted an exclusive relationship. However, as time past I learned that his break up with his ex was more recent than he had ...

Is it fair that I should down my ex to my new boyfriend in orde to make him feel good?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - I'm female - when a relationship ends and a new one begins is it okay to say bad stuff about the man you have just came out of the relationship with to the new man in your life? Not vindictive stuff, just stuff that makes the new person in you life ...

15 and pregnant, please help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - im 15 and pregnant. im 5 weeks in and when i told my mum and dad they were furious. and they said they wouldn't support me. my boyfriend dumped me and said he wouldn't help either. so im thriving on my own and i am deciding whether to keep or not ...

Do you have any suggestions for me, or for my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - I am in a very confusing situation. Firstly, after a one year relationship, my partner and I decided to separate. The problems we had were actually external to our relationship, but had a huge affect on our relationship. So we thought it was just ...

I'm happily married so why cant I stop thinking about an old flame?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - Hi everyone! I'm 22 yrs old and married.there was a guy who really really loved me back when i was in school!but i didnt have feelings for him at all.i was not attracted to him.lets call him Ash. At that time, my ex wanted another chance as...

How do I deal with his excess baggage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - Hi, i need help my partner and i have been together for 4 years now i feel like i am at my wits end and need help urgently. I feel as if i shouldnt have to deal with this anymore and i know that hes so over this issue too. The problem is that im soo ...

How do I make her see that I can be more that just her best friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

25 January 2010 (M) - well im at my wits end.. I just don't know what to do I feel so blind and like I'm on a dark road that I cant see whats in front of me. I shall startfrom the start you see I moved into a house and a girl moved in with me (shes japanese) and well...

After our fight she is now worried that I will leave her! What can I do to make this better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5418 days ago

25 January 2010 (M) - Alright. I messed up and need help to fix it. The other night I messed up. My fiancé and I got home from a night out with my friends. Had a good time, we were both a little buzzed still. We hadn't had sex in two days. All day I was kissing her,...

Was I just a rebound? Did he really love me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5413 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - Ok so my ex and I were together for almost 2 years. We had our ups and downs but I can truly say he was my first love. Being my first what I considered "real" relationship, the first year I think my expectations were high and when we had the ...

.....i know what I should do- but why cant I do it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - I really don't know where to start...i met a guy a year back- he has just broken up with his girlfriend at the time..he made me feel good (i am a very pretty girl- he is also good looking- but we connected at a different level), the first guy who i ...

Why don't people think about the new dating partner, before undertaking a 'rebound' relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

24 January 2010 (F) - I now know that I was involved in a rebound relationship. It was about 4 months long started off as if it could really be a good investment. As time went on and now with thinking about my ex's behavior it was only a rebound relationship. He ...

I'm not really sure what to do with my text buddy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

24 January 2010 (F) - In july i started texin this lad, it was all going well we would speak 24/7 either texin or on the phone and we were at each others house every weekend, it was just like being in a relationship but then in November i decided to tell me he didn't ...

Why did she go out with me in the first place if she still had feelings for her ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

24 January 2010 (M) - ok my ex just dumped me today because she had not gotten over her ex. we went out for 4 days and i really loved her. when she dumped me i asked her if she would go back out with me but she replied maybe but also she said she does not know if she ...

How can my ex's rebound last when he's already cheated?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

24 January 2010 (F) - Hi, so my boyfriend got into a "rebound" 1 month later after we broke up maybe even before then. So two months into his new relationship we became friends and he just made out with me. So hes already cheated on this new girl only 2 months in, do ...

How can someone take advantage of a person who showed complete loyalty?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

24 January 2010 (F) - My question is how can someone take advantage of someone who has shown true loyalty and love towards them and they trample all over you like a doormat? We had been dating for about 4 months, initially things were really good. Then I would say ...

Why do his exes delete him off Facebook?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

24 January 2010 (F) - what does it mean when a guy goes out with girls for only few weeks?? or months?? what does that say about him?? and the girls dont ever speak to him again?? deletes him off msn and face book?? what does that say about the guy?? and w...

I don't want to hurt this lovely girl who is crazy about me...but I cant forget my ex...what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

24 January 2010 (M) - a few years ago i broke up with the love of my life, and meet a lovely girl within weeks. i chased my ex for over a year and finally we got back together. during this time i was seriusly ill and told my ex to leave me cause she was too young to deal ...