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female
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30-35,
*pendy
writes:what does it mean when a guy goes out with girls for only few weeks?? or months??what does that say about him?? and the girls dont ever speak to him again?? deletes him off msn and face book??what does that say about the guy?? and why would the exes delete him??thnx...xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2010): I think I know what you mean. Women by nature, are quite often willing to remain friends after a breakup. I'm sure there are some out there who can move on without giving a hoot and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that, either. But, I know a lot of nice women who break up with a guy but they leave him on Facebook. When woman breaks it off with a guy, who was fairly nice to her but she didn't feel the connection...will quite often stick him in the friend zone, as to not hurt him further. Thus he stays in her FB friend list.
If his exes are dumping him and taking him off FB, it might mean 1) he dates only women who can easily move onor 2) he has some personality problems that can pissed them off these females and they want him to go away.
So I do understand why you see this as a possible red flag. Just be on the lookout for any problematic issues he has.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (24 January 2010):
It may be that he's been unlucky. He just hasn't found the right girl and knows to quit if it's not right.
As for deleting him off facebook, why on earth would you want you keep your ex ON facebook?
It could also be signs that he's a complete psycho though so keep an open mind and if he does anything really creepy then dump him sooner rather than later.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, old-spinstah +, writes (24 January 2010):
I can't speak for everyone but I cut contact with my exes because it helps me move on. I find that, if I was really into the guy, any attempt at maintaining contact is actually an effort to keep things going in the hope that he will come back. Cutting contact lessens that pain. Some people live their lives on Facebook - I deleted my ex recently because I couldn't bear to see what he was up to.
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