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writes: In july i started texin this lad, it was all going well we would speak 24/7 either texin or on the phone and we were at each others house every weekend, it was just like being in a relationship but then in November i decided to tell me he didn't want a relationship and suddenly started ignoring me and not texin or ringin me when he said he would. so basically it was kind of a waste of time. The weekend after new years i saw him at a party we said hi but thats it,later that night on my way back to a friends house he texed me saying sorry for what he did and saying that i didnt deserve it. he just kept saying sorry over and over again, he was even calling me babe, he not once ever called me babe. the next day he told me he still liked me abit but didnt want a relationship and i told him i still liked him abit. Everyday since then we've been texing. I've told him i dont think we should because i will send up liking him and getting hurt again. He didnt tex me the next day so i thought it was because i said we shouldt. i deleted his number so i wouldnt want to tex him but he just ended up texing me again. I'm not really sure what to do i really like him, i dont know how he feels but i do know he doesnt want a relationship with anyone. please help, thank you xxx
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reader, girl from bristol +, writes (24 January 2010):
hi just keep him as a text buddy or you could just be friends and meet up but thats it if he does not want a relationship then thats all u can do good luck
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reader, janniepeg +, writes (24 January 2010):
Treat him as a text buddy and nothing else. I hate texting. It's a waste of time and money. The most you could do with him is say "Hi, honey," "Bye, Honey," "Want to hang out? Sure!" He is mostly in your cell phone and if he happens to see you in real life, it's too much! He could only handle text messages, just leave it at that and to like him is silly. I bet there are people texting each other saying "I'm pregnant!" because to talk to people in real life is just too much.
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