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Archived questions from: 16 January, 2010 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

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The ex-factor: Help and advice

Why the sudden interest in me again by the ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5428 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - my ex started to talk to me all of a sudden, its been almost a month since ive seen him really. He has talked to me before and basically telling me to contact him any time, text him, and to see each other real soon. But then he just disappea...

Why am I so hurt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5427 days ago

16 January 2010 (M) - I dated a girl on and of for 3 years or so. When we broke up it was always my doing and when we last broke up a year ago, I told myself and her that it would be the last time. We had just moved in together in a new city and the relationship was not ...

Do you think my ex will think of me at all...?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5427 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - When your ex is in a rebound, I read generally they start doing extravagent(sp) things together and making big plans usually and spending all there time together. I just found out my ex is going snowboarding with his new girl and her family...

My ex is playing with my feelings, how do I go back to no contact?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5427 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - My ex boyfriend dumped me at the beginning of December because, in his own words, he didn't have time for a girlfriend. Straight after he dumped me I applied the No Contact rule, and was doing great until he text me at New Year asking how every...

Trying to be friendly to my ex but he just acts so rude, no contact...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5428 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - I havent talked to my ex in about 3 weeks after he made out with me (while with his new girlfriend) he asked if we could just be friends and i said no and he said he understood. I tried to keep my distance hoping it would drive him crazy that i...

Can you point me in the right direction here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5428 days ago

16 January 2010 (M) - Just before the new year I went through a really bad phase of my life. I just didn't feel the point of being around, nothing was going right then. Now however I am the happiest person alive (even though my A-level exams are currently going on but ...

He is my ex and I am his... so why should I care?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5428 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - so my problem is that im too shy and too scared to call up my ex, and totally depend on msn. It's been a a while and he's nowhere to be found. I feel like he doesnt want to ever talk to me. But he was the one who wanted to be friends in the first ...

How do I completely cut guys out of my life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5428 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - I am so done with lying, cheating, good for nothing guys. My ex boyfriend was enough to turn me into a nun, and the two guys I've met since being with him have made me want to reconsider my sexuality completely lol. Seriously, I'm still youn...

Participating in my ex's life - how?

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16 January 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend of 2 years broke up over a month ago and he has a new girlfriend. He wants to remain friends which I accepted. However I don't want to interfere in their relationship but I want to be present and not disappear alltogether. How ...

His behaviour seems to be opposite to what he is saying

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5428 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - Oki, here's the problem, iv been with my bf or about 7 months and I love him so much but there's a major problem which is bothering me . I was left really hearbroken by my ex doing some online cheating stuff, and one day this came around into the ...

My boyfriend's life has gone pearshaped and there is no room in it for me right now

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5424 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend who's now my ex just broke up with me two weeks ago. He used the line " I think we should take a break" I"m trying to move on but can't help but wonder, what if. Were both young I'm 20 and he's 22. He says he has alot on his plate and ...

I told a girl I loved her, and she said she has feelings for her ex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5428 days ago

16 January 2010 (M) - i told a girl i loved her n her reply was "oh rite" the following day she told me still has feelings for her ex but she cant go with him..... was i right to till her to stay out my life forever?...

My ex lives in my house and its not working

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - Hello: This may sound crazy I have lived with my ex boyfriend for 2 months he uses drugs okay I have a small apartment and of course he sleeps when he has sometimes I think the walls are going to close in around me I can get so bored I have a 16 ...

Is this bipolar... or something else?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5429 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - I think my ex has bipolar disorder but im not very sure. His sister is bipolar, and his dad died about 2 years ago. He hasnt been the same ever since, and goes through these phases of changes it seems like even if he is in a relationship, usually he ...

Accidental message!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5429 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - my ex and i were together for over 3 years and broke up over a year ago but no one did anything so wrong..no cheating or anything..just arguments over silly things i contacted him a year later leaving a v-mail and he called me back a few minut...