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Archived questions from: 11 January, 2010 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

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The ex-factor: Help and advice

Should I tell guy 1 how I feel? I don't expect to break up with guy 2 and get with guy 1.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5429 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - hello, i am here to ask for some advice and please, i do not want judgemental replys. please. if you are going to say something nasty, please restrain yourself and read another question and do not reply. Thankyou. Okay well long story short, it...

I have my ex on a pedestal!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5431 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - Last year my ex cheated on me with two of my best friends I still liked him so after 5 months we started scoring again (going out without the titles eg. bf and gf) its been awhile now since i ended it and hes had 2 other girlfriends since. I keep ...

I don't want him to get bored with me. How can we spice up our sex life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5433 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - I'm finally in a relationship after 4 years. I decided just to take y'alls advice and just let my hurt and frustration, from my ex's cheating on me, go and now i think i've found someone i feel that i can trust 100% and i'm quite happy... Howe...

Is it unreasonable to ask that this friendship ends now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5433 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - so my boyfriend saw his ex and kept it a secret from me and recently saved some photos of her in her underwear. we've talked it through. he said he wants me and me only. he wants us to work and I am willing to try and give it this relationshi...

What can I do or say to get my ex-gf to give me another chance???? I love her and need her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5433 days ago

11 January 2010 (M) - Ok so I am 18 and my ex gf is 17. She broke up with me the day after Thanksgiving (a little over a month ago). I deserved to be dumped b/c I treated her like complete sh*t. I mainly did this b/c I was hurting so bad inside. I went to the Doctor ...

Should I just keep it to myself or should I tell her how I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5433 days ago

11 January 2010 (M) - 2002 was a rough time for me. I had just had gotten laid off, and I had sank into a deep depression. During this depression, I had become very insecure and this manifested into me developing serious trust issues with my ex, and in the process I said ...

PLEASE! I need an outsider's perspective about this relationship.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - I had a bf almost a year ago whom I had broken up with because I found out he was cheating on me. This had hurt me so severely I was depressed for months, had nightmares and developed a phobia on certain things and places. For some reason, my ...

I don't want to lose my b/f but things can't go on like this either!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5433 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - I have had problems with my ex boyfriend for 2 years now. He said that wants to try and work things out with me, but as soon i do something wrong he says 'i was going to ask if you wanted to get back together but im reconsidering it now'. i told him ...

Every night I think of my ex but I don't want to leave my boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5433 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid I have been in a relationship with my ex bf for 4 years and i end up calling our relationship quits... i found a new bf and he is everything i wanted except he is not working and does'nt help me with nothing but he is trying his hardest ...

I want to know what its like to feel safe in my own home

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5433 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - I was with this guy for seven years, we have been split up for one year exactly. During that seven years I lost myself completely - he was abusive, controlling, manipulative, obsessive...you get the picture. If I went to the store that normally ...

Was he just using me to get over her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5434 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend chased after me for four months. I was never really sure whether I truely liked him or not and was still trying to figure things out so when he asked me out during those months. I said no, three times. I wanted to be fair to him and ...

Am I just the rebound girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5434 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - So after months of asking to see me again, I decided to go on another date with a guy I saw over the summer. We were only seeing each other (not serious), but he ended things when an ex came back in the picture. I knew he liked me (and still does). ...

It seems my ex has moved on...its been a year and I can't seem to...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5325 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - hi im 20 years old and i'm at university i dated this girl a year ago and we were very close we only went out for 5 months or so but we were friends before that. We broke up because -quote ' you just don't have time for a girlfriend' so she left me ...

She's become very defensive about the way she conducts herself!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5434 days ago

11 January 2010 (M) - hi, I have a problem, im not sure if its myself, the way my gf behaves or a combination of the two? she says i have been getting more insecure recently, i have not really noticed this in myself, what i have noticed is that shes being more defen...

I know she's had sex with others in the past and it makes me sad.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5433 days ago

11 January 2010 (M) - i have been dating this girl for a few months now and ive loved her for along time and she has loved me for along time to a few years i think like 8 or 9 years and i know shes had sex with other people before we got together anyway i know it souldnt ...