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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hiya everyone,Ok i now this sounds really wrong but im best friends with my ex bf,His gf is pregnent, and went in2 hospital last yesterday to be induced anyway he got sent home as no baby, and he rang me up and asked if i could get him some food, anyway i did, and he asked me what i was doing i said nothing and he said 2 come in2 there house, which i did and didnt think of anything as just mates, anyway i ended up staying there till 2 this morning we where watching telly, having a good chat, everything we did when we where together, he even started playing the songs that we used to listen to when we where together, and to be honest i felt a bit like we where bk with each other, Anyway thats that, and she had it today and he seems happy, But my main worry is, when he got off the phone 2 his gf last nite who didnt no i was with him, he said lvs ya 2 her which i thought to myself he never said that to me,But then worse happened he got his bits out and well u kinda can guess what happened next,And im not sure what i should do now, i feel really guilty and said to myself i would never do this to girl, and then again i did it to this poor girl, who doesnt no anything was going on far as she knew he was waiting by the phone for her to ring him Its been on my mind all dau and really not sure what to doPart me thinks he does like me still, and part of me thinks he cant love her that much to cheat on his gf who was in hospital waiting to give birth to his baby Please please please help me on this what should i do????????
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (26 January 2010):
Well you've just become the walking female cliché. He used you for sex, and will continue to do so. Say goodbye and end contact.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2010): how could you do that to another woman? how completely selfish of you.. they have a baby. YOU could have stopped it but you let is happen. Bad karma, girl
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2010): You have to stop being friends with this guy, it sounds like he wanted this to happen, i don't believe it was a spur of the moment thing on his part. Make it clear that you never wanted to have sex and you feel guity now and explain it would be better if you stopped seeing one another for his partner and their baby's sake.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (26 January 2010):
 He is using you and I hope you used protection. If you got pregnant he would be going to his ex or a new girlfriend because he got blue balls, and then call you on the phone to say I love you.
You do whatever you want to do. If there are more than one answers here it would be for you to move on. Just know that 5 years from now you would be a different person and you won't be holding on to people when they don't derserve it.
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