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Archived questions from: February, 2015 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

Why do I keep dreaming about this man I dated in the past when I have no real interest in him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3558 days ago

28 February 2015 (F) - Sometime back last year i was dating a dutch Man 28 years of age. He was doing his internship in India and came back home and found a job but he said after living some where else,he really does not like living in Holland. The first time we met he w...

He said it's not me and not personal.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3560 days ago

28 February 2015 (F) - My 38 year old boyfriend of a year is a bit introvert and was dyslexic and I suspect slightly ADD. He gets very focused on work and projects at his house. He shows me he cares with practical things. I'm struggling to feel wanted and cherished wh...

Sleeping with the ex but I'm demanding more respect

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3559 days ago

28 February 2015 (F) - Just to start off, I'm a 30 yr old female and single. For the past two years I've been sleeping with my ex (37). He took my virginity exactly 15 yrs ago and we always been hooking up on and off. I have been celibate since 2008 due to low self esteem ...

I think anything I did while we were broken up is none of his business!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3557 days ago

28 February 2015 (F) - I broke up with my BF for 5 months. He's married by the way and we had an affair for 2 1/2 years. We have started talking again and want to pursue a relationship but only if he leaves his wife. I refuse to get back to that stressful, wrong mess. ...

How can I stop these urges to be with a woman?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3556 days ago

28 February 2015 (F) - This is kind of an odd question. My husband I are happily married. We have three preciousness little ones. I am bi sexual, I've known since I was young, my husband knows, but lately I've been having urges to be with a woman. I wouldnt act on it, I ...

He hates sex, I stopped trying to initiate, now he says I neglect him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3560 days ago

27 February 2015 (F) - MOD NOTE: Question asker is aged 60. Hi there. Any help/suggestions for my situation? My man is almost completely impotent....very affectionate, lots of pecks and hugs, but no passionate kissing, and a real fear of sex...whether he's afrai...

My wife misled me with her sexual past

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 3558 days ago

27 February 2015 (M) - We got married 16 years ago and i had to ask her parents for permission to marry her since we were both brought up the old fashioned way, so at that time we got to know each other for about a year before we got married. before I met her I had two ...

Bondage and bringing it up to my partner?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3557 days ago

25 February 2015 (F) - hello i always fantasized about bondage sex and now since i watched the 50 shades of grey movie it made me want it even more. how can i bring this subject to my partner? thank u ...

Man I started talking to online won't stop sexting me! Opinions?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3563 days ago

25 February 2015 (F) - Right, hi everyone. :) So I'm hoping to throw this out there and see if I'm overreacting. The other day I started chatting with a guy online and we seemed to hit it off. We exchanged numbers and the next day we decided - quite spontaneously...

Sexually attracted to girl, emotionally attracted to guys. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3562 days ago

24 February 2015 (F) - Sexually, I'm more attracted to girls, but emotionally, I'm more attracted to guys. I'm so confused about what to do. Anyone got any advice or help?...

What sexual skills do men look for in a woman?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3563 days ago

24 February 2015 (F) - Hello, all! You know how they say curiosity kills the cat? Well,I'm afraid I'm the cat in this situation. One of the recent topics on this forum really got me thinking:http://www.dearcupid.or...

He chooses to masturbate while looking at pictures of women. Will this only get worse? What can I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3563 days ago

24 February 2015 (F) - My partner of seven years just admitted to using pictures of females .. Not porn. Just pictures of their bodies so he can masturbate. So it's not the action of sex - it's strictly their boobs and butts he wants to see. My major concern is that ...

Does the volume of semen a man ejaculates matter to a woman?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3559 days ago

23 February 2015 (M) - I was talking with a female friend of mine and she called herself a "slug girl." I asked her what she meant by that and she said she she gets very wet when she gets turned on. She was quite embarrassed to admit that. However, I think most men thin...

He's a good man but I miss having cuddles and sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3565 days ago

23 February 2015 (F) - hi, i have been in a relationship for just over 9yrs. i love my partner very much. we used to have a very healthy sex life but over the last 3/4 yrs we hardly have any sexual relations at all, nothing. no kisses,cuddles,touching etc. i have tri...

I havent had sex in 2 years . Will it hurt when I have it again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3564 days ago

23 February 2015 (F) - Dear cupid it been two years since I had sex with,and this is because my man is far away but he is coming by in three weeks time. I will like to know if it is going to be painful when we have sex again and is dere any possibility that I can become ...

When it comes to sex, what is considered appropriate for my age?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3565 days ago

22 February 2015 (F) - Hi, So recently me and my boyfriend have become really close and have started to try new things. Whenever he comes over we make out and we gotten to the point where he's sucked my breasts. We get close and do lots of touchy feely things and yes, ...

I found my partner had been looking at gay men on the internet!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3566 days ago

22 February 2015 (F) - I found my partner had been looking at gay men on the internet he said he is not gay but doesn't know why he does it he feels his body is not good and like looking we have great sex life and have been together 5 years i don't know what to do...

Orgasm clarification please!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3565 days ago

21 February 2015 (F) - I'm not sure if I've ever had an orgasm. Everything I read and everyone I talk to always says "you'll just know if you have one." I'm sick of hearing that because it doesn't help me at all. I'd like to know for sure if I'm having one. I'm genuinely ...

Boyfriend has gone off sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3565 days ago

20 February 2015 (F) - Hi! I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now, living together for over a year. I have to say I had always have more sex drive than him, I am 36 yr, he is 42. But in recent times, I have became very aware of the frequency of sex...

Newly married, but I've lost my sex drive completely. What can I do? What could cause this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3568 days ago

20 February 2015 (F) - Hello, I just recently got married literally about a week ago. However, I've lived with my husband for a little over a year. For about 9-10 months now, I've not wanted sex at all. I'm on birth control pills, and on anxiety medication so I'...

How can I stop cum leaking out after sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3568 days ago

19 February 2015 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now, but there is this thing thats been annoying me for some time now... Whenever my boyfriend cums in me after sex, it never like stays in me. Whenever I stand up I can feel it leak out, especial...

Literally out of options with sex life. Help?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3569 days ago

19 February 2015 (M) - Hello, I would like to ask for any insight possible on a big problem that's been lingering for quite some time. I've been dating a girl for about 6 months now. We've managed to enjoy our time together, seeing each other and everything's bee...

Can open relationships work?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3568 days ago

19 February 2015 (F) - Hi aunts. I was wondering if anyone had any experience with open relationships -- can they work, is it a viable option? How do you approach the subject? My partner and I have been together over 3 years, living together for 2 and a half years. We...

What happened to 'getting to know you' first?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3567 days ago

18 February 2015 (F) - Since I broke up with my boyfriend of 4 years, I started dating and the situation is that guys that I meet only want sex immediately. I hardly have any dates though I give my phone number. I don't understand what changed during these 4 years. ...

Sex with my bf is bad. how can I tell him he isn't pleasing me ??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3570 days ago

18 February 2015 (F) - I've been with my bf for over a year now. And I love him, which is why I haven't left. But the sex with him is horrible. When he tries it, he doesn't make sure I'm wet enough before he tries to slide it in. Then, he had to use his finger to guide it ...

My Bf wanted to pay for a private lap dancer. For me. Should I be worried by his actions during the lap dance?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3570 days ago

18 February 2015 (F) - My boyfriend and I just went to Mexico and decided to hit up one of the local strip joints. He wanted to pay for a lap dance for me in a private room. It began with him just watching to the stripper asking him to join in. While it was hot and heav...

He wants me to be exclusive with him. But there is another woman in his life. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3570 days ago

18 February 2015 (F) - i met this guy i been having sex with him the last mouth he has been helping me in so many ways. he talks to my kids he tells me he wish he met me fours years ago before he met the women he is with now he wants me to wait for him for me to have no ...

My friend and I are keen to have some fun with my fiancee!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3570 days ago

17 February 2015 (F) - Hi there, i am in a long term, committed relationship and i love my fiance with all of my being. I have told him openly and honestly, regarding the fact that i would love for us to have a threesome, after we're married, not because he do...

We are separated but trying to work it out, I'm worried that he's not attracted to me or prefers to watch younger women in porn! Help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3550 days ago

17 February 2015 (F) - My husband and I have been seperated a year and living in different houses. We mainly seperated because we had drifted apart and I felt the love wasn't there or at least that he never expressed it. He has always had a major problem with e pressing ...

My wife wont talk about our sexless marriage and thinks everything is ok!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3570 days ago

17 February 2015 (M) - Hi I'm been married 27 years After my wife had breast cancer 20 years ago she as gone completely of sex when I try to touch her she just turns around I've tryed talking to her but she's not interested I still love her but ate being regected all ...

I have trouble having an orgasm during sex. Can this be fixed?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3570 days ago

17 February 2015 (F) - My problem is with climaxing, Ive only ever orgasm-ed with my ex of five years, we broke up a few years ago, I havent been able to with any men before or after him regardless of what they did oral or hands, by myself I have no issue but I always ...

I walked in on my 15 year old cousin masturbating

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3554 days ago

17 February 2015 (F) - I walked in on my 15 year old cousin masturbating. My mom told me to go see if he was sleeping and if not tell him breakfast was ready. It was silent and I thought he was sleeping so I peeked in to look and forgot to knock (worst mistake ever) I ...

Wife and I fought over circumcision

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3568 days ago

16 February 2015 (M) - My wife and I recently found out she is pregnant. We don't know the sex of the baby yet and probably will let it surprise us anyway. We were talking about baby names when my wife asked me about circumcision. This wasn't a topic we had ever disc...

How can I get over my current beliefs and accept my partner's past?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 3567 days ago

16 February 2015 (M) - Hey guys, I am in a relationship with someone of "20...30... i lost count" sexual partners and past bursts of casual sex with a casual view on sex, in comparison to my 4 partners, including her and conservative values. I love this person and thin...

I'm feeling resentful towards my wife for her lies about her sexual past. Has this permanently changed our relationship?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3487 days ago

14 February 2015 (M) - I will make this simple short and sweet. My wife lied to me about her sexual past and was not honest about it. She had made herrself sound innocent and I knew she wasn't a virgin when we met. Being dumb and naïve I didn't press the issue further....

Do women really regret their sexual past?

This question has 67 answers - newest was posted 2620 days ago

14 February 2015 (M) - This question goes out to the ladies and girls out there. Do you regret your sexual past especially when you've only dated losers then finally one day meet the man of your dreams and you wished he was your first or that you had met him in the past?...

How do I tell my boyfriend what I want?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3574 days ago

14 February 2015 (F) - Hi (please no negative words) I've been with my boyfriend for 5 months now and things are amazing between us but....I want to give him head, want to sleep without underwear on, want to also bring him out of his "close the door and get dressed" thi...

What did I do wrong, she knows I love and want to marry her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3575 days ago

14 February 2015 (M) - Hi all, I'd like to share my problem and I need your help. I'm not going to tell the 8 years worth of story so I'll try to keep this very short. Okay so me and my ex got back together after 6 years. I broke it off due to unavoidable circumsta...

How Can I Lose My Virginity

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3575 days ago

13 February 2015 (M) - I'm 25 years old and I'm still a male virgin. I've never even kissed a girl and I've never even been on a date. Since girls probably prefer a guy who knows what he's doing, how can I lose my virginity? Do I lie about it? ...

Had a massive and intense sleep orgasm. Should I worry?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3575 days ago

13 February 2015 (F) - Okay, this is the first time I've actually BEEN an OP, but something happened a couple of days ago that I'm wondering if it's normal or not. I'm not complaining about it, but it's never happened to me before in my life. Background - I...

My Boyfriend Thinks I'm Faking Orgasm's!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3575 days ago

13 February 2015 (F) - My boyfriend thinks I'm faking orgasm's! We have been together for just over a year and I have never faked an orgasm with him. I don't even think I would be very good at faking one! First of all, why does he think that? My downstairs tenses and ...

Was my husband being inconsiderate?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3576 days ago

12 February 2015 (F) - I have an question. I want to know if my husband was being inconsiderate or am i just tripping. Since yesterday i have been battling a major toothache where as my jaw is swollen and half my tooth is gone. All day yesterday i stayed in bed due to the ...

She insisted on condoms but should I still get checked out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3576 days ago

12 February 2015 (M) - I had a fling with a girl ssix months ago, and we only had sex three times. We always used a condom, she was very insistent on this and even had them with her. Lately ive learned she has a bad reputation and has slept with a lot of people. I am ...

3 years, 3 visits in LDR and we have never had sex yet she always talks about it when we aren't together!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3577 days ago

11 February 2015 (M) - Hi guys I just want some advice as to what is right. i've been in a long distance relationship for 3 years. She was studying in the USA at my uni and we grew very close and decided to start dating just as she went home again, in the hope she...

How can I stop being so self conscious of my body in the bedroom?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3575 days ago

11 February 2015 (F) - I was diagnosed with PCOS about a year ago after years of weird symptoms. I gain weight very easily, I have skin issues such as acne on certain areas of my body, hyper pigmentation and discoloration in certain areas... I get skin tags on my breasts, ...

Pleaseee help me I want to die,my boyfriend of 7 yrs is leaving me because I told him about my past.?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3574 days ago

11 February 2015 (F) - my boyfriend of 7 yrs has a long sexual history including gangbangs,orgys, etc with 50+ girls. he done drugs. he neve r lied n we go to church and we are very in love. i trust he doesnt hide anything and loves me. we started off as f.buddya ...

My boyfriend has to fight the urge to shag every woman he sees!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3577 days ago

11 February 2015 (F) - My boyfriend of over two Years just admitted something to me that shocked me. He said it felt like coming out in a way and he's confused. Sex is important to him. He basically said that he finds nearly every woman he sees sexually attractive. He ...

My friend told me she loves me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3577 days ago

11 February 2015 (M) - I have a female friend that I have known for about a year. Even though we haven't known each other long we are pretty close. She lives hours away so I don't see her often, but we text and instant message each other almost every day if it is just ...

Why is my partner of one year suddenly interested in performing cunnilingus?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3577 days ago

10 February 2015 (F) - I have been a relationship with this man for a year. He never performed cunnilingus on me until about a month ago. It was not a big deal for me as he was great at everything and it did not make a difference. but WOW I was so surprised and he is ...

My boyfriend broke my hymen but we did not have sex. Am I still a virgin?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1072 days ago

10 February 2015 (F) - please i am a virgin but my boyfriend put his penis on the tip of my virginal. it did not hurt me but suddenly my hymen broken and bleed but we did not have sex. please am i a virgin?...