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22-25,
anonymous
writes:Hi,So recently me and my boyfriend have become really close and have started to try new things. Whenever he comes over we make out and we gotten to the point where he's sucked my breasts. We get close and do lots of touchy feely things and yes, it makes me feel amazing and I really do love it.I'm just worried that we are doing everything so fast, I'm not saying I regret it, I don't one bit but I worry alot about what other people think about me. I get labelled "innocent" because I've never done this sort of thing before and its only really just happening now but I know it has to happen eventually, I'm just worried that the eventually is too soon! I don't share my dirty thoughts with anyone other that my boyfriend when we are together and when I do, he tells me he feels the same and it all escalates from there. My friends don't do anything like this and I'm scared that if they found out they would think of me like a slut or something but I really can't help it because my boyfriend makes me feel good about myself in a new way which boosts my confidence which has been low for a while.I understand that when you're a teen you start trying out new things but I don't know what's appropriate and what isn't. I hope this all makes sense and doesn't put me in bad light, I'm not a slut, when I do these things with my boyfriend there is feeling behind it.please help if you can!Thank you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2015): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you so much for the help! I've decided to talk to my boyfriend about it and hopefully he will understand and support my choices.
Thanks again!
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (23 February 2015):
 Both of you have to keep your pants on and you should be fine.
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reader, Midnight Shadow +, writes (22 February 2015):
 I think that anything involving a penis or vagina is too much for your age - reason being that you may not regret this bit, but oral(mouth)/manual(hands/fingers)/penetrative sex should be left until you're of legal age. That said, I think the legal age should be 17/18, but that wouldn't stop people.
Just take it slow; you may be going too fast if you're worried what people think and it's okay to wait for anything further than the breast touching. I think a lot of young people rush it and you can always do things later on, but can't undo them if you do them now and regret it in a few months/years.
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