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Archived questions from: October, 2011 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

Lovers for 5 years. Both married, but not to each other. How can I deal with this much pain? He said he loved me but where is he now?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

31 October 2011 (F) - I starting having an affair with a man since 2006. We both are married and I lived a distance from him so I wasnt worried to get attached. Well I thought it would be just a short period this would last. We were together for almost 5 years. ...

Am I just a convenient arrangement for him? Or am I being over-sensitive and too demanding?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4759 days ago

31 October 2011 (F) - Am I just convenient? I have been dating a man for just over three months. He is 36, I am 34. At first everything seemed brilliant - he was attentive, complimentary and in constant contact. We were seeing each other for about two months before w...

Are my concerns about her past justified?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

31 October 2011 (M) - I have been going out with a woman for a few weeks and i feel a big connection with her. Everything feels easy and we get along great. The only thing that concerns me is her past. She has told me she was very flirtatious when she was in her late...

I'm feeling badly because husband missed his "Friday Night Special"

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

31 October 2011 (F) - Hello, I am a 31 year old married woman. I have gotten great advice from this board in the past. With three kids by birth and an adoption of a 4th in process, my husband and I have to take advanages of opportunities for sex. My hubby is something ...

Is he more interested in sex than me? now all he seems concerned about is how soon we can become a couple and start having sex

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

31 October 2011 (?) - Hey guys would love an outsiders opinion to this... Long story short I've met this amazing guy two weeks ago who is sweet, cute, funny and matched and rivalled my humour and we got on really well. We've been talking non stop over this time and al...

Are my concerns about my daughter's mental health valid? How do I suggest she get help? She wants a sex change for vocational reasons

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

31 October 2011 (F) - My 16 yr old daughter told us she wants a sex-change. She said it's the solution to all her problems - she wants to work in the motor industry or the logistics industry, and said both those industries aren't really accepting of women working ...

Early stages of ED, what can I do to combat it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

31 October 2011 (?) - for the past one week my penis doesn't get erected,i was very much worried about it,i consulted my doctor he says it is a starting stage of ED, what exercises will help me to eradicate my problem, i have discussed with my girl friend , she ...

She's my first everything, I'm her seconds....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

31 October 2011 (M) - I'm 26 and had never dated or anything up until a year and a half ago (not a lot of confidence in that department). I've been with the same girl now for that time frame. She's amazing. She told me early on she wasn't a virgin (I am). She has only ...

I really need a male's perspective on this question...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4757 days ago

31 October 2011 (F) - This has been bothering me for months now... I am in a great relationship with this guy for almost 6 months now ( we are both in our 30's) and we are very happy together. We were on our first vacation together and it had been only 2 months that ...

Shall I contact him on FB even though I am not supposed to know his surname? Or ask his friend for his phone number?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - Hi there - I met a guy at a party and we slept together. I like him but i do not see him as relationship material. But i would like to see him again. Just to have fun. If i wanted a relationship i wouldn't contact him but i guess i have nothing ...

Should I add a one night stand to facebook when I would like him to be a FWB?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - so I slept with my friend's friend yesterday and would like to be fwb with him. I didn't know why, but I didn't give him my number when he asked to exchange numbers.. probably too drunk.. anyway, the only way I could contact him is through ...

Why are guys so quiet after sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - why are guys so quiet after sex? after sex all my boyfriend wants to do is sleep and hardly talks. seems like hes in a bad mood. usually im not the type to always be that sleepy after sex. i dont mind laying there and cuddling but i cant just lay ...

Does he have masturbation issues?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4762 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - I am 16 and me and my boyfriend are very much in love and are seirous about our relationship. We haven't had sex but that not an issue, we'd both rather wait till we're older. He said that recently he's been sexually frustrated.- he feels horny all ...

Where is this friendship going?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4762 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - i met a really nice man 13 years ago when he was going thru a divorce we eventually had a relationship for a short while but it didn't work out for him although i was in love with him very much. We split up for about a year, he met someone else but ...

I'm 24 and get horny but don't want sex ever! Why!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4762 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - I'm 24 yrs old and I have been with my girlfriend for a lil over 5 yrs.when we first got together I couldn't keep my hands off of her and it was the same for her with me.well for the past 2 yrs I haven't wanted to have sex. I get horny but I just ...

What is your opinion about one night stands?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - What's your opinion on One Night Stands? Would you do it? Is it bad? I like one guy. We are just friends and he want to have sex with me. I'm confused. I don't know if I want to do it or not. I'm attracted towards him and I like him a lot. He is 23...

Is there a support group for my problem?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4762 days ago

30 October 2011 (M) - I've recently read a post on your site about experiencing bad luck every time a person masturbates. I have also experienced the same problem and would like to know if there is a support group. I am not angry or anything I am just searching for ...

Can this happen? My Sex drive is gone, and I'm only 20 years old

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - I have lost my sex drive completely. I have an amazing fiance of four years, and we never have sex anymore, b/c I don't want too. I'm only 20 years old, and I don't care for it. As of right this very moment, i don't care if i EVER have sex again. At ...

Can anyone help me with my confusion? I was positive that I was straight, now I'm not sure?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4762 days ago

30 October 2011 (M) - i'm here because i'm confused about my sexuality and i don't know what to do. For awhile now i have been thinking about men, specifically kissing and having sex with them and even having a relationship with another man. I try not to but when i g...

Is my proposed celibacy solution workable? And any tips on helping me get over this intense amount of regret/shame?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4762 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - I am 15 years old. I have given two guys bjs, and I am soooo ashamed. I regret all of it, and i feel sick whenever i think about it. I feel like i am a bad kid. However, I am in a relationship right now (although he says he doesn't care about phys...

Mom knows! Isn't she in the wrong for listening to my B/f and I 'dirty talk'on Facebook?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - I've been seeing my boyfriend for a while, and we're sexually active. We're both 16, it's legal, I'm on the pill and we use condoms. Until today, neither of us had issues with our parents because we just hadn't told them. Today, my mom saw that ...

Boyfriend made a comment about my small breasts and now I don't want to go near him

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

29 October 2011 (F) - Hi guys! I need help from you to build my self-confidence. I have a lovely bf and we are planning our future together. However, our sex life is a complete disaster... I run away from him every time he want to get closer to me. The issue is my ...

Too strong a hymen???

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

29 October 2011 (F) - I'm 26 and I've been married for 8 months now. I was a virgin when I got married and still am. No matter how hard we try, we just cant seem to be able to break through my hymen. I think probably I am having elastic hymen. Whenever my husband try to ...

Bit of an anti climax...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4743 days ago

29 October 2011 (M) - I met this lady at work, we got on really well together, then after 8 months she lost her husband, and i was there to help her through her bereavement. It started with just a comforting hug and a peck.. which continued almost every time we met, ...

How can I make my first time more comfortable for us both?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

29 October 2011 (F) - Okay lets get to the point: I'm a virgin and me and my long time boyfriend have decided to go ahead and have sex (he's a virgin too). We have almost done the 'dirty deed' but I'm a chicken. I'm scared. I don't really know of what, but I'm scared. ...

I enjoy going out. But guys, in error, think I'm ready for one night stands. Nooo.! But am I missing out ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

29 October 2011 (F) - i enjoy going out and having a good time with friends, but often guys assume this means that i'm down for one night stands. i've only slept with one guy in my life and he was my ex boyfriend, but now i feel like guys are not even interested in you ...

Having trouble having sex with gf! Please help!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4762 days ago

29 October 2011 (M) - hello 1) when my gf and I decided to have sex for the first time I couldn't enter my penis into her vagina. It was slipping a lot so we couldn't had sex and I also tried doggy style but failed ? whats wrong 2)while i was trying to have sex w...

She gets mad when I try and intiate intimacy! Has anyone had this with their partner?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

28 October 2011 (F) - Hi everyone, Just looking for some advice from anyone who might have been in a similar situation to me. My same sex partner and I have been in a relationship for 3 years. Most of the time we are great together and are loving and caring. The only thi...

My boyfriend has a timing plan set out for when we should have sex but I'm worried I wont be ready by then!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

28 October 2011 (F) - I am worried my boyfriend is going to get tired of waiting to have sex. We are both 16. Both capricorns ;) . I love him n he says he loves me but i know how fast feelings can change so far we have been together for 2 months but we have known ...

First time sex...what can I do so that it wont hurt?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

28 October 2011 (F) - I'm a vigin and me and my partner want to have sex I'm scared that it might hurt from other girls I've heard it hurts I need to know what I can do so it won't hurt . ...

Why are smaller nipples more attractive? And when I get mine reduced, will the scars be a turnoff?

This question has 52 answers - newest was posted 4759 days ago

28 October 2011 (F) - I have always wondered this. After hearing many pepperoni nipples and bologna nipple jokes and comments, it's easy to figure out that men are not fond of large areolae. Why is it exactly? Is it because smaller ones are more sensitive? Becau...

Six years and I'm no longer sexually attracted to my boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

28 October 2011 (F) - Hi! Okay. I'm in a LDR with my boyfriend of all of high school, we are 3rd years in college and 700 miles away. I have come to the recent revelation that I am no longer sexually attracted to him. I have told him this and he still wants to try to ...

Any favorite blow job techniques?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4764 days ago

28 October 2011 (?) - Hey everyone, I want to make my question not only to help myself improve and grow on ideas for giving blow jobs and hand jobs but as well for all of you girls/guys that are wanting to expand on your awsome knowledge of blow jobs. Definetly there ...

Unexplained blood after having sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

27 October 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have a long distance relationship, I say long - we live like forty minutes away on a train, but to be fair it's long enough that we only get to see each other once/twice every week at some point because of money and juggling work ...

Problems with premature ejaculation!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

27 October 2011 (F) - Hi, I have a sex problem. I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years now. He has always had a bit of a problem with premature ejaculation, not coming ridiculously quickly but the sex only ever really lasts ten minutes or something. Anyway, ...

I'm so ashamed and afraid that I have an STD!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

27 October 2011 (F) - this summer i made a huge mistake. i hooked up with a guy and we both performed oral on each other. he didnt cum though. he had had a few oral sexual partners before, and had said he never showed any symptoms for stds. i have shown none as well but ...

He wasn't hard! Was I just not turning him on anymore?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

27 October 2011 (F) - usually sex is not an issue with my boyfriend and i. this last time we were at it for a while and he still had not finished and was not even hard anymore at the end and i was not wet after a while either. as much as we tried he wasnt getting hard ...

Why the sudden change in my wife with sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

26 October 2011 (M) - My wife made me beg her for sex for 13 years. I went out of town a couple of weeks ago for the weekend and ever since I got back that's all she wants to do now...

What do women feel when they are horny?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

26 October 2011 (M) - hi !! if a boy or man gets horny he gets a erection !! what a girl or women feels when they are sexually aroused !! hope u wil answer my question ????...

Husband cannot have sex and its very difficult for me living like this!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

26 October 2011 (F) - What would you do, if your husband would never want sex with you for years, and you don't know why. My husband stopped looking at me, and touching me. He also wont get an erection, when we tried sex, what was not for a long time. Doctor says he...

I took him to the clinic because I thought something was wrong with him sexually and now he wont talk to me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

26 October 2011 (F) - Hi Agony Aunts and Uncles. Okay i've been here before, asking a few questions, and i got wonderful and useful feedback. So now i'm back...same guy...different situation. Okay, so today, i wanted to take him, well the both of us to the clinic ...

Two guys. Which one? how can I tell the other guy that I cannot talk to him anymore without hurting him and myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

26 October 2011 (F) - Okay so this may take a while. I am 18 years old and I have two guys who I have a lot of feelings for and at the moment I need to decide on one because I do not want to hurt them and date both at the same time. My first guy, (I will call him spri...

Is it normal to be that wet?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

26 October 2011 (F) - when l have sex l become so wet n its so irritating coz den disgusting sounds are heard, this turns me off but he says its a turn on, im just 24 bt feel too loose when im wet and for me to feel him l hv to realy open up... is it me or it happens...

Just got married and no sex drive!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4766 days ago

26 October 2011 (F) - I just recently got married (about three months ago) and having a huge problem...... I have no sex drive!!!! I want to please my husband but I don't know why im just not into sex.... This is getting really frustrating because he is beings to think ...

Am I weird for not wanting to sleep around or cheat on my boyfriend? All my friends seem to be doing it!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

26 October 2011 (F) - Why are my friends doing this? am I weird to think is wrong? My friends say am boring and I should change my rules when it comes to guys. I've always been the kind of girl to only kiss a guy or have sex with a guy when we're in a relationsh...

I prefer giving rather than receiving! How common is this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

26 October 2011 (M) - Well I got a question, not really a problem. I like to give oral to my girlfriend, more then to get oral. Most of the people I know it's the other way around. anyone of you can recall this? ...

What is the longest you have gone without sex whilst in a relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

26 October 2011 (M) - What is the longest period that someone has gone without sex, While in a relationship. Without a medical reason ...

How do I tell my boyfriend I shaved off my pubic hair?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

26 October 2011 (F) - Ok, so about a week ago, I was shaving my bikini line, but I angled the razor wrong, and shaved off a patch of pubic hair that made my area, which is usually neat, trimmed, and proper looking, look stupid, so in an effort to try and fix it, I ended ...

I want to take my new girlfriend to the strip club and watch her touching other girls

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

26 October 2011 (M) - I want to take my new girlfriend to a strip club, but am not sure what her reaction will be. For you girls, if you have been dating a guy for a month or so and he askes you if you want to accompany him to a strip club, what would be your re...

The sex was great when we first met, now he's not interested

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4767 days ago

25 October 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I had GREAT sex when we 1st met...but we were just each others booty call. After a long distance relationship of only daily talk and text we are together again after a year and in a serious, committed and monogamous ...