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He wasn't hard! Was I just not turning him on anymore?

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Question - (27 October 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 27 October 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

usually sex is not an issue with my boyfriend and i. this last time we were at it for a while and he still had not finished and was not even hard anymore at the end and i was not wet after a while either. as much as we tried he wasnt getting hard anymore so we stopped. could it be that i wasnt turning him on anymore? or is it normal for him to just lose it and become really sensitive down in that area after a while? im just really confused because this has never happened!

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (27 October 2011):

So_Very_Confused agony auntit's normal.

sometimes the spirit is willing and the flesh is weak...

they could be tired

they could be sore

they could be drunk or high

they could have had an orgasm earlier in the day and not have had enough recovery time.

my boyfriend often wants me but his body just will NOT cooperate... we cuddle A LOT.

I can promise nearly with 100% certainty that it's NOT YOU.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2011):

could be a number of things. Sometimes it just happens. Are you new to this relationship. If so the pressure of performance is very high. When i was younger i a new relationship i would masturbate before visiting my girlfriends to last longer at the main event. This method however can back fire and remove or ability to keep it up or even finish. But i wouldnt worry about it. Im sure next time will be fine

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