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writes:I just recently got married (about three months ago) and having a huge problem...... I have no sex drive!!!! I want to please my husband but I don't know why im just not into sex.... This is getting really frustrating because he is beings to think that I don't love him or that I'm not attracted to him.... And it's not that at all!! I love him with all my heart!!!!! I was a vergin when I got married so Im really new to this.... Help plz how can I get more of a sex drive !!!:/ Thanks !!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2011): Hi,
I think it's really important to get yourself used to your body. You won't ever get a better feeling that a self-produced one! Perhaps using some toys, different methods, and make sure what you are doing is pleasing you. When you start realizing what you're into, then your sex life will start growing naturally.Don't be affraid to speak to him about it, and let him know how you feel. But honestly, you need to get used to yourself, and how you are sexually!
I'd definately recommend the Hitachi Magic Wand, or a toy like that, that will bring you to an intense orgasm; and show you what sex is really about!!
Hope that helps, eventually, with enough experimenting, you'll both know how to please eachother!
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