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Archived questions from: 15 October, 2011 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Do you think it's normal not to be interested in sex at 16?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4792 days ago

15 October 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I am having a small conflict right now. Alright firstly I am asian and my boyfriend is American(Half English). We are both sixteen..At first I thought he was really a sweet and pure guy but these days he is acting differen...

What is the likelihood that I could have gotten HIV from him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4791 days ago

15 October 2011 (F) - I recently fooled around with a 20 year old guy that I met at the bar and I'm worried if I may have gotten HIV from him. We didn't have sex but he did finger me, so if he had precum on his hand (he did not ejaculate) that he used to finger me, could ...

Do we really have a connection?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4791 days ago

15 October 2011 (F) - I might be really stupid and this might sound like a stupid question... but basically, I'm in love with this guy, I barely know him and we haven't talked for years. When we did talk, I think he used to like me, although we weren't close friends or ...

Unprotected sex and now I'm worrying if I caught something!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4792 days ago

15 October 2011 (F) - I had unprotected sex 16 days ago. The guy it was with took off the condom without my knowledge for a couple seconds (I was furious!) but I asked if he had any STD's and he said no. I have an appointment to be tested on Monday. As of day 10 after ...

I lost my erection with my ex and now I'm worried it might be a bigger issue

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4791 days ago

15 October 2011 (M) - I used to have a few erection problems (losing erections, performance anxiety) when I first started having sex and then overcome them as I got into my relationship. However, last night I was having a party at my house with a few friends and my e...

He wasn't like this at the start. He rebuffs me sexually. Should I act cool in the morning even though his refusal upsets me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4789 days ago

15 October 2011 (F) - my boyfriend and I have been dating for 5 months now, and i seriously believe whole heartedly that we are meant to be together we are two of a kind, and we have fallen for each other so quickly. He treats me absolutely amazingly and always puts me ...

Did I over-react? my husband defended his friend. Ignored my feelings. The sexual joke was about me

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4791 days ago

15 October 2011 (F) - Tell me if I'm over reacting or if I took this the wrong way. My husband has a male friend who I think has really disrespected me. They were talking online with a bunch of people. My husband's friend said: "We should get you a webcam and have ...

I don't want to be gay. My old friend and I started doing gay things with each other. How do I stop feeling this way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

15 October 2011 (M) - I am 20 years old, My old friend and I started doing gay things with each other, we were at first just trying then it turned into anytime we saw each other. we couldn't stop now I cant even get hard looking at girls. I realize I am probably gay, but...

My girl friend wants to stop sex! I freaked out. Please, how can I make our relationship work?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4793 days ago

15 October 2011 (M) - Hi people of dearcupid I have a major problem with my girlfriend it is just that I love her so damn much and she all of sudden she asked that if we can stop having sex and I got freaked out and asked her why and if she is cheating on me or somethin...

Instead of looking for a job he's looking for escourts and transgenders. How do I leave him when I am penniless?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4792 days ago

15 October 2011 (F) - I am so confused. I live the "perfect family lie," as I am a stay at home mom with 2 kids, one in school and one infant. Lately things have gone down hill majorly. My husband, who before the baby came, and still LOVES my first child, but I some...

Teething problems with domestic bliss? How do we get the Loving Bliss back into our relationship now we have moved in together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4793 days ago

15 October 2011 (F) - I've just moved in with my boyfriend of many years. We're renting an apartment together. It seems since we've gotten our own place, all our time is taken up with housework! We both work fulltime (and he works TWO jobs, so starts his second one a...

We are virtual friends and Sext. Should I tell his new girlfriend about us? He says we do the things his Gf is too shy to do.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4792 days ago

15 October 2011 (?) - dear cupid, soo, there's this guy that i met in college back in december of last year. for most of that time, me and him have kind of been...well, i guess a good term for it would be "virtual friends with benefits." basically, we sext (without pi...

Should I be worried? Her reasons are my snoring? my sadness is no intimacy. My wife and I haven't shared a bed in six years.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4792 days ago

15 October 2011 (M) - My wife and I sleep in separate bedrooms. We have been married for 19 years and this started about 6 years ago. Before that time, we always spent the night together. In fact, I can remember once when my wife was away at her mom's in another ...

My younger wife is having sexual problems. How can I help her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4789 days ago

15 October 2011 (M) - I am a 53 year old male married to a 25 year old and we are having sexual problems not by me but her. we also have 4 children. Can you give me some advice? ...

I arranged this date before I knew my mate adores and wants her. Do I cancel my date with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4792 days ago

15 October 2011 (M) - I have a real issue. My best friend just told me about his undying love for this girl, usually, not a problem. In fact, i'd do anything within my power to make it happen for him. However, I like the girl too and to make it even worse she's coming o...