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Archived questions from: 3 October, 2011 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Gyno thinks the pill is a good idea, but I don't want to tell my mom I'm sexually active

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4803 days ago

3 October 2011 (F) - So today i went to the gynecologist and she said that the only thing that would help with the issue i have is birth control. My mom does not know that i am sexually active and isnt sure about the idea... I on the other hand want to go on the pill ...

Sex starved, thinking about the porn business?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4803 days ago

3 October 2011 (M) - Let me tell you my story. First of all, I'm a nice guy, fairly good looking, clean-cut, just turned 32, and I stand a shade under 5'6. My friends and co-workers tell me all the time that I'm handsome with a nice body. Secondly, I'm thinking abo...

I don't think I took my b/c pill when I had unprotected sex!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4803 days ago

3 October 2011 (F) - hi, i have been taking my pill as normal, about 5 days in i had unprotected sex then today, about 4 days later i found one of my pills on the floor... it can only be from this month as i just moved out. i will be taking a pregnancy test when i a...

My wife is not interested in sex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4797 days ago

3 October 2011 (M) - HI, I am 36 years old, married and have three kids, 9, 4 and 3. My wife is also 36 and we have been married for 10 years. We have a nice life - good kids, good jobs, good family support. Due to the kids, we have spent the better part of the last...

Burning and cutting down below. allergic to semen? help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4804 days ago

3 October 2011 (F) - i am absolutely fed up. i always get a burning, splintering, cutting sensation during sex and after my boyfriend has ejaculated. it is worse after ejaculation and so unbearable i cry. my whole vagina swells and goes red and puffy. ive been to ...

His antidepressant medication is ruining our sex life

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4803 days ago

3 October 2011 (F) - Hi there My boyfriend suffered from depression for a few months and was subsequently put on sertraline. While he was on it we had an active sex life, however he had difficulty maintaining an erection and achieving orgasm. He also was unable to sl...

Jealous of new girlfriend's wild year!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4803 days ago

3 October 2011 (M) - Hi, I've never before classed myself as a jealous person at all ever, but then I guess I've never been in a situation that meant I had to be, until now. In December both myself and my new GF separated from our past relationships and we met each ...

What's something really sexy I can do for his birthday?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4804 days ago

3 October 2011 (?) - dear cupid, soo, my boyfriend's birthday is coming up. i've already bought the first part of his present. aaand of course, the other part of his present will probably be somewhere along the lines of birthday sex. the thing is, i want to come up ...

I'm 23 and have never had an orgasm!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4804 days ago

3 October 2011 (F) - I am 23 years old. I never experienced having an orgasm... ..i want to but i cant do it..my bf ask why cant i ejaculate but i d know how to exactly!!! Any suggestions?'...

She's the girl of my dreams but she wants space.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4799 days ago

3 October 2011 (M) - Hello, I have been in a fairly good relationship for almost 5 years now, I love my girlfriend so much but she doesn't seem to appreciate it, lately things have started to go downhill, its been over 5 weeks since we have been intimate, we have had no ...

After my son was born I stopped being able to be turned on!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4804 days ago

3 October 2011 (F) - I've been married for 25 years, and sex has always been good. When I had my son, I stopped getting feelings in my breast, but was still turned on with fowl play, now I'm not getting any feeling even with fowl play, it's getting so bad that I'm not ...

How to get over prostitute guilt, and should I confess in future relationships?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4804 days ago

3 October 2011 (M) - I started going to strip clubs a year ago with friends who were into it, and towards the end of the year, got into drinking and then going to prostitutes. I went three times, before I couldn't bear the guilt anymore. Since then I have been for ...

I want someone who will find me sexy and I don't think my boyfriend finds me sexy!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4803 days ago

3 October 2011 (F) - ok so this is confusing. Been with my partner 3 years. It's on and off long distance, which has been hard but we've always worked out ok. Well I'm having an have been having doubts and I don't know if its my insecurity or what. Well I have this ...

Boyfriend finished oral sex rather than stopping so we could have sex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4802 days ago

3 October 2011 (F) - last night i gave my boyfriend a blowjob thinking that it was just a starting way for us to have an intimate moment that very same time. but then i was surprised that instead of him getting into the mood, he just blew it all by himself and nothing ...

When sexually stimulated I lose total control of my body!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4804 days ago

3 October 2011 (F) - I was just wondering if my situation is normal, weird, or what ... anytime I get sexually stimulated (be it by myself or my bf) I literally lose control of my body; I can't stay still even if I wanted to. I buck, twitch, tremble, my legs cramp, i...

I'm pregnant. What else can I do to make this work? He speaks abusively to me. I hit him. He's lazy. Drama all the time.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4805 days ago

3 October 2011 (F) - Hi im 19 years old and 21 weeks pregnant with a baby girl. Ive been with my bf for a year in October. We have a lot of issues in our relationship. We've been okay i guess. But the issue is the way he treats me and how i react. He likes to call me ...