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Archived questions from: 16 October, 2011 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Girlfriend's promiscous past confuses/excites me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

16 October 2011 (M) - After a long relationship followed by 12+ months of a very active dating life, I've met an incredible girl I've fallen deeply in love with. More so than anyone I've met previously, she is perfect for me. We have an amazing connection - in and out ...

We both had sex for the first time last night but he lost his erection!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

16 October 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for ten months today. And last night, we both gave each other our virginities. I am very tight though, it was our second attempt, But I finally had relaxed and found a position to get it in. I was in so much p...

After we had sex he wrote me off, now I'm going to see him again. How do I act?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

16 October 2011 (F) - So, my best guy friend introduced me to his cousin we txted for a couple of days, we then met had sex and in the morning he kissed me goodbye and disappeared. I texted him thinking he might txt me back but he never did.... We then saw eachother ...

B/f took my virginity and now I don't hear from him. Was sex all he wanted?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

16 October 2011 (F) - I,ve been dating my boyfriend for nearly four months now and last weekend we had sex for the first time! Wel it was my first time as i was a virgin. Since then he hasn't really texted me much except for wedensday night where he asked me away for the ...

He is just too big, but I love him, how can I please him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4671 days ago

16 October 2011 (F) - I won’t be shy, I’ve been around the block more than a few times and never have I come across anything like this. I met this totally great guy last year. He was friendly and we got talking. We’ve been dating for the last 9 months or so now. But when...

He found out I used to be an escort and I don't want to lose him

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

16 October 2011 (F) - He found out that I was an escort for 2 months, before our faithful and meaningful relationship. We love each other more than anything, because we are both each other's first love. I feel extremely sorry and disgusting for what I did and I wished ...

Will lack of trust ruin everything? He keeps in regular touch with his ex's (plural). Our sex life sucks.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4778 days ago

16 October 2011 (F) - I've been in a relationship with a guy for a year. We've both been in serious relationships that were not that great in the past. We've discussed marriage/kids and he's even asked me my ring size. Our relationship is perfect, except there's been a ...

Do I keep going with her? Or give up on her until she is over her ex? Am I just the nice rebound guy to her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

16 October 2011 (M) - ok so feel a bit strange about doing this but really need some advice. I'm 31, pretty normal guy. Have had a very normal relationship history up to now - few happy long term relationships, few shorter term things. My issue is with my current ...

How can I get less nervous about sexual things?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

16 October 2011 (F) - Recently, me and my bf started gradually doing more than just a soft kiss here or there. He's a gentle person (to me, at least xD) and he respects my boundaries, but I'm still nervous about these things, and talking about them, or hearing him talk ...

He seemed pretty disappointed. Even though he got real close. Does this happen often? How do I give him support over this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

16 October 2011 (F) - Ok, so today me and my boyfriend got to third base. It was clear what his intentions were after a while, and I didn't really mind, I guess.... Only problem is, I couldn't...You know...and he seemed pretty dissapointed, even though he got me real ...