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Archived questions from: November, 2011 (see latest in Pregnancy category)

Pregnancy: Help and advice

I'm having trouble understanding how to make him realize I'm screaming out for love, help and affection?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4743 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - Dear Cupids, I need a bit of help and dont know where to run. To cut a long story short Ive been with my partner (lets call him Steven*) for 2 and a half years, we have a 9 month old little boy together. During the first month or so a...

Who do I choose? The ex who abandoned me and our son or my current boyfriend who's a wonderful guy?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - My ex and I were together for 6 years. We started dating when we were teens I gave birth to our son when I was 20. A few years after that, we broke up because he was not ready to take the responsibility. He was kinda immature that time. Then I...

Can anyone advise on what we are doing wrong and how to get back on track?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - Hi All, I am in dyer straits... I feel I have no where to turn to or have a shoulder to cry on... I have been with my husband since I am 17. We are together a total of 11 years and married for 3.5 years. He lost his mother to cancer at a young age ...

Irregular periods are making me nervous about having children in the future, what should I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - Just want some readers opinions on this. I've been tracking my menstrual cycle and in this year alone (2011), ive so far had 6 periods. Obviously this is different to the 'typical' woman who may have 1 every month or so. It's making me nervo...

Trying for a baby and nothing the doctors are doing is working...advice please!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4745 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - I really want to have a baby. I have been with my boyfriend now for 2 years and I have had no luck. I did have an unsuccessful pregnancy in the past with a previous boyfriend. I was pregnant with twin girls for 5 months and had to deliever them ...

He's cheated on me over 12 times and gave me a STD. How do I cope with my hurt and the feeling he's going to do it again and soon?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4744 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - I've been with the same guy for 4 years we have a baby together but in the past 2 years he cheated on me over 12 times. One of the times he gave me an std I found out from his sisters friend because he gave it to her as well. Another time a girl ...

My pattern of preferring much older men is starting to bother me. But are men in their 30s discounting me for dating older men?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4744 days ago

30 November 2011 (?) - I'm a 31 year old woman. I live alone and have a career that I love. I'm fairly attractive. I would say I'm an 8 out of 10 on most days. I don't have a desire to get married. I have a healthy fear of getting pregnant or catching a disease. I ...

Birth Control pills to control Period. Opinions please?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - I've recently decided to go on the pill, not for sexual reasons, but because the pain of periods is unbearable, and I'm always such a mean, cranky person when I'm on my period! I want to get something to either reduce or get rid of (4 periods a year ...

I feel like my LDR is pulling away and doesn't want a baby anymore. I'm heartbroken!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4745 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - Im so confused about my ldr boyfriend. Weve been together for almost a year. It hasnt been a great time, certain trust issues and a few arguments. However, I fell in love with him hard. I bent over backwards to make it work. In September I fell ...

Should I go through with an abortion at 21 weeks?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4745 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - im 21 weeks pregnent with no family around me they all live in australia and my partner has decided to leave me and now wants nothing to do with my child and me i dont think ii can do this whole thing on my own so have recently thought about ge...

Should I be worried that she might be pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4747 days ago

27 November 2011 (M) - I am 18, in first year university. My girlfriend is almost 17, in her last year of highschool. We've been dating since August and had sex twice. The first time, which was the FIRST time for both of us, we used a condom, and it seemed like it was ...

We had sex for the first time without a condom. Should I be worried?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4747 days ago

27 November 2011 (M) - My girlfriend and me had sex (first time for both) without using a condom. She takes pregnancy pills, and she said it was ok, but i am still worried. Should I be worried? Shes also been complaining of feeling dizzy. but that could be anythin...

Please help me summon the courage to leave her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4747 days ago

27 November 2011 (M) - Dear Experts, Ive finaly hit rock bottom in what is supposed to be called a relationship and i require some support to find the courage to leave, after 4 hard years with my soon to be ex partner i cant take anymore of her crap, november 2010 our...

If he pulls out before he comes does that reduce the chance of pregnancy?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4745 days ago

26 November 2011 (F) - Ok me and my boyfriend was talking about if we have sex and he pulls out before the semen comes out does that reduce the possibility of me getting pregnant ? Haha sorry about how I ask the question I just really didn't know how to put it ...

My b/f wants me to finger myself in front of him and I don't feel too good about it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4749 days ago

25 November 2011 (F) - My boyfriend wants me to finger myself but i dunno what to do as i feel embarrassed even when he talks about it, im 18 years old and my boyfriend is 17 years old, we have slept together and i am now pregnant but still i dont know what to do, when we ...

Advice on surrogacy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4749 days ago

25 November 2011 (M) - My wife no longer has her womb, but still has fertile eggs. She has three children from a previous marriage. I have no children and so much want one child. We are not rich or anything, and have researched surrogacy. Are there any agencies or ...

Together 9 years, had an abortion and he didnt support me...now he moves on after a month!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4750 days ago

24 November 2011 (F) - I am 20 years old. I got preganant in August by my boyffriend of nine years. We started dating in middle school. I have supported him through everything. Every bad or good chocie he has made, I was there. The pregnancy was unplanned and my family ...

Should I tell my girlfriend the condom split when we were having sex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4750 days ago

24 November 2011 (M) - I really need help :/ I had sex with a condom with my girlfriend but I think the condom split! She dosent know it yet, I want to tell her but its only a matter of time before she finds out anyway, its just I think I should mention it first so it ...

How can I make this easier? I feel empty and alone when I'm not with him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4751 days ago

23 November 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and i have a 4 month old daughter together. we have been with each other every day for 3 months. we see each other every day, but when i'm not with him i miss him and want to be with him i feel empty and alone. how can i make this ...

Starting over again. Running out of time to have a family. Will men be put off by my situation when I start dating?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4753 days ago

21 November 2011 (F) - I am 39 (40 next spring) and childless. I have just come out of a 10 year marriage which pretty much destroyed my sense of self worth / esteem. I am still a little raw but trying to move on. My hopes and dreams for a happy family life with a lovi...

My husband wants to wait a year before trying to conceive but my irregular periods might be a problem

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4753 days ago

21 November 2011 (F) - I'm 28 and in a stable relationship. The past few months my man and I have spoken about children and when we feel will be the right time. At first M was saying he wanted to wait several years, then he said when I felt ready. I admitted to him...

Is it me or the pregnancy that is causing such an abnormal behaviour??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4753 days ago

20 November 2011 (F) - l am 24 years old and two months pregnant. problem is l sometimes hate my boyfriend for no apparent reason, l will ask him not to contact me or come and see me but ofcourse he does not listen, he will come and see me or call me. l then tend to ...

Boyfriend may have gotten my cousin pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4755 days ago

19 November 2011 (F) - My boyfriend are on again off again in a 2 year relationships. we have both screwed up hooked up with each others fiends and worked passed it. recently we broke up and i just got told my cousin is pregnant and there is a 50/50 chance my boyfriend is ...

New baby, but an unsupportive abusive husband. No wonder I'm depressed. What should I do to cope with all this pressure?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4755 days ago

18 November 2011 (F) - I've been feeling very unhappy after I got married.. been feeling depressed..I had a baby 7 months ago; I have been staying at home watching the baby and my husband has been complaining about expenses. He 's been telling me I wish That he could be...

I don't want him to be around our baby ever, am I doing the right thing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4432 days ago

18 November 2011 (F) - Hello viewers...I'm back and now I'm shy if 27 weeks pregnant. Things aren't the greatest for me but better.I'm having my third boy and the father still has nothing to do with us. and is mom and brother has accepted the fact and he has beaten his ...

I'm pregnant and in love with 2 men!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4757 days ago

17 November 2011 (F) - im 27 weeks pregnant and am in love with two men, one is obviously the father who i love as my friend the other i am extremly attracted to what do i do?. ...

My fiance and I really want a baby, but are we ready?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

14 November 2011 (F) - Hello everyone, usually when I find myself on this site I'm having a very depressing problem but now I'm just in a dilema. My fiance and I recently just moved out of a house we shared with room mates into an apartment so we could get along better ...

On the verge of buying a house with a miserly man who only tolerates my children

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 4547 days ago

14 November 2011 (F) - Scared. My second marriage begun disasterously my second Husband refused to bond with my children lied cheated and left me when I lost my job with his baby and my two other children to fend for ourselves financially and otherwise. My Son who is 9 ...

My boyfriend insists on attending a concert while I'm in surgery

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4758 days ago

14 November 2011 (F) - This may take me some time to write so here goes. I've just moved in to a house with my bf of two years, we've got a mortgage togther. We started to try for a baby around a year ago and in september I got pregnant with fertility treatment. After ...

I am 14 and my boyfriend is 15 and we both REALLY want a baby!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4752 days ago

14 November 2011 (F) - I am 14 and my boyfriend is 15 and we both REALLY want a baby!!! What do we do?!?! We talk about getting married and having kids all the time!! What do I do? P.S. We haven't had sex if that's what you are thinking.....

He says he's given me 3 chances. Says he will not talk to me any more if I don't allow more than kisses and touching next time.What do I say to him?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

14 November 2011 (F) - I like this guy ever since I was little , we grew up together and Finally one day we started texting dirty and he wants me to do stuff to him and I want to but I'm still a virgin and don't know if I could please him and I don't know how to do a ...

Other Non-Pregnancy Methods

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

13 November 2011 (F) - Hello everyone, I thank you for taking your time reading this, I was only wondering if there is any other way to prevent pregnancy other than condoms and birth control pills. I really appreciate it, thank you....

Since the birth of our son he's changed. I want to work things out. How do I cope if he continues to want out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

13 November 2011 (F) - I been in relationship for five years an just had a baby now my boyfriend says his feelings for me have dropped and he don't want to be in the relationship no more and he cheated on me with 19 year old when I was 8 months pregnant I just found it o...

Eleven years together. I am seriously clucky for children. He wanted children. Now his mind is closed to the idea. what can I do?.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4758 days ago

13 November 2011 (F) - I'm feeling extremely maternal at the moment and it's causing problems in my relationship. I'm 28, almost 29 and I've been with my boyfriend for 11 years. We've only been living together for just under a year. I know. Things have moved slow ...

Should I have a woman to woman talk with his ex? he talks to her every day. What should I do about him not answering me when it comes to her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

11 November 2011 (F) - I met my boyfriend almost a year ago. Our relationship moved pretty fast, we seemed to click right away and began spending all of our time together. While he did disclose that he was separated and getting a divorce he failed to tell me that he ...

How do I convince my husband to relinguish his rights to my daughter?shouldn't she have a chance to be free of abuse and have a better childhood than I did?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

11 November 2011 (F) - My husband of five years has an eleven year old and didn't want any more kids. so when I got pregnamt he forced me to abortion. Then one day he found out he had a 16 year old and brought her into his life. she didn't want me around and started talk...

Before I consult a doctor I'd like feedback from other women about 'the pill'

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

11 November 2011 (F) - Hey guys! Any advice will be much appreciated! I'm a little worried. Just as a note, I know I should ultimately consult my doctor, but I would really like other women's advice and experience. I have no one to ask or talk to. I started new birt...

I'm pregnant and don't want to screw up my boyfriend's career

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

9 November 2011 (F) - hi peeps! i recently found out im preggers! :) great news exept its kind of not! my bf of 8months is at university and still has 3 years to go! i know every1 would be happy for us and abortion is the last thing i want to think about but i really ...

Why am I feeling such a strong sense of loss if I didn't even plan to have a baby and I know I wasn't ready?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

9 November 2011 (F) - Hi Im 21 and found out i was pregnant on Saturday, both me and my bf were not ready for a baby and it wasn't planned but we accepted it. On Monday I miscarried, it was only 3 - 4 weeks. Since then I haven't stopped crying, im not sleeping well and...

Parents seem to favour younger brother and his stepchild over me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4767 days ago

8 November 2011 (F) - Dear cupid there is something that's been bothering me for the last couple of weeks . some days i feel like i'm ridiculous for even thinking about it . other times i feel like i'm right. yet the more i ponder about it i go back and forth in between ...

What will make things better? I am struggling with my pregnancy and non-existent social life!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4767 days ago

7 November 2011 (F) - Hi all. A few weeks ago I found out I am pregnant. My partner and I are delighted as we have been trying for about a year, the baby was conceived with fertility treatment and we have just bought a house together. The thing is that I am struggli...

I do not know her father's name. Should I leave that blank on the form? Or put my new boyfriend's name on the pre-school form as "father" to avoid questions?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

6 November 2011 (?) - I was raped nearly 3 years ago by a disgusting guy at a friends party. I didnt know who he was and still dont. What he did to me was awful but it had a hidden blessing. It created a beautiful baby girl who i love to bits. I decided to keep the baby...

I'm still attracted to him and want to resume the affair. But how do I handle the fact that he also wants me to tell my husband who is really the father of our child?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

6 November 2011 (F) - I had an affair with a man who is a friend of an old fling of mine from the past. Plus he’s now married. He was from my home back in One state, and I had moved to another state. We bumped into each other one evening while he was having drinks with...

Does my casual 26 year old occasional sex buddy need to know? I'm getting divorced. The 26 year old didn't want me to get pregnant, but now I am.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

4 November 2011 (F) - I am 33 almost 34 with 3 children and getting divorced. I have been casually seeing a guy I met on the internet for the past 3-4 months, he's 26. We both work a lot so only meet up every few weeks and text in between. It's not a relation...

I'm 6 weeks pregnant, against abortion and the guy is no longer interested in me and has a girlfriend

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

3 November 2011 (F) - 6 wks pregnant and worried about our relationship? Is he done with me now? What should I do? I'm 18 and have been in college mostly interested in singing only interesting thing about college is this guy I'm highly attracted to. We had hooked up...

I'm worried my friend might be pregnant but I cant say anything to anyone! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

1 November 2011 (F) - Okaay i dont know where to start! This question isnt realy about me its about my friend but i dont know what to do! So I have this friend who i will call C she has just turned 16 in the last week, she has had a boyfriend and has been with him for ...