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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes: im 27 weeks pregnant and am in love with two men, one is obviously the father who i love as my friend the other i am extremly attracted to what do i do?. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (18 November 2011):
First find the father and tell him. then take it from there the guy whose not the father might not even want to be with you, The father might not even want to be with you. i say choose the richest man that will have you
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (18 November 2011):
are you bf/gf with the baby's father? and thinking of cheating with the other guy?
does the baby's father know you don't have romantic love for him?
I need these questions answered before I proceed...
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reader, babygirllovej +, writes (17 November 2011):
Oh my....
You are close to getting yourself into a bad situation. Your pregnant...Congrats! However by involving another men into your life that is NOT the father is asking for trouble.
My advice is to keep your friend you are attracted to JUST a friend. Ride out the pregnancy and try to figure out why you don't have the same feelings for the father of your child. Once you figure out why then you can figure out what to do from there.
Your are in a very delicate situation and you should be careful about how you proceed. If you do any rash actions you might lose the father of your child. Communicate with him and see if you can form a stronger bond with him then seeking it elsewhere.
Good Luck!
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