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Archived questions from: October, 2010 (see latest in Pregnancy category)

Pregnancy: Help and advice

The thought of infertility scares me as I'm desperate to have children when I'm older.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - Around four months ago I found out my now ex boyfriend was sleeping with my best friend, and soon after she announced she was pregnant. However, although I believe it is his baby, she has told me herself that she 'thinks' the baby is his, but she's ...

I'm terrified to have a child with this man!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5139 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - I been in a relationship for a year. I broke up with the guy cause he was verbally abusive and talk about my child. He was playing on my phone leaving harassing call. Then he stalks me at night making sure that i'm home. He been stalking me. Anyway ...

I am now in my 20s, and I still get petrified at the thought of getting pregnant...!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - I have a question about sex, I am now in my 20s, and I still get petrified at the thought of getting pregnant and i know how my body works and i keep track of my cycle and all, but recently me and my bf of 2 years had sex without a condom for the ...

Do all women scream at their husband when they are in labor?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

29 October 2010 (M) - I need some good advice from the women out there who are mothers. My wife and I are pregnant. In all the movies you see, when the woman is in labor she is yelling at the father, scratching him, telling him it's all his fault, etc, etc. I am just...

Pregnant to my abusive partner and cant walk away....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5141 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - I have been with this man for about 3 years and when I met him I was pregnant but wasn't with the dad because he was kind of immature younger than me and went off to college...but another story....so I moved with him when she was a year old and he ...

Pregnant and no one knows but me

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - Okay so I'm pregnant and the guy doesn't know It and neither do my parents. Help me please?!!...

He is abusive and accuses me of cheating constantly. How do I stay away??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - Me and my husband been together for almost 2 years we have a baby of 1 year . I love him alot and always have respected him. Since I was pregnant he has always accused me of cheating on him even when I was carrying his son. I have never gave him ...

Could drinking interfere with the results of a pregnancy test?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - i think im pregnant because my period is over a week late. im 15 years old and very worried as the potential father is 21. i have had nearly every other sign so i took a pregnancy test today and it was negative but i was drinking last night and ...

I want my cheating girlfriend back!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

28 October 2010 (M) - hi, im 18 years old and i just had my first relationship ever which ended yesterday, it was going on the 6 month mark. in our first month, she kissed/made out with two of her guy friends then told me about it( within 2 weeks of them both happen...

I'm so nervous about my children growing up and having sex too young, then ending up pregnant!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - my children are not old enough yet but one day they will be and this subject really makes me nervous. teen pregnancy. iv read a few just in the past few weeks on this site and that was enough for me to want to go get a couple of chastity belts and ...

Questions about pregnancy before I see my doctor next week.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - I am 5 weeks pregnant and I just have some questions on about how much weight I can pick up. I'm a pretty strong female (I think) and I don't want to overdue myself and hurt my baby but I don't want to come off as one of those annoying pregnant ...

Pregnant, and my partner doesn't know and has another girlfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5143 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - I am a teenage girl and I'm pregnant. I haven't told the father that he has a baby on the way because I don't know how to and he already has a girlfriend. How should I tell him that he is going to have a baby?...

How do I tell him how I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5142 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - How do i tell him how i feel?? i live with my boyfriend...im 8 months pregnant... the thing is that every time im sad i cant tell him why im sad...we have been through a lot of things together....he change when we started living together. he put...

I had an abortion when very young. Will I be able to get pregnant later?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5143 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - hi, i just want to ask some information about something. When i was 14 years old i sleep with my boyfriend 17 years old that time and got positive 6 weeks. when my mother find it out she was very very angry and tell me theres no way for her to...

Should I keep my baby? It's all up to me....

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for 6 months, and now im 4 weeks pregnant. Im 19 years old and I don't feel I'm ready to be a mother. I want an abortion but I'm scared to kill my baby, most of all, I'm afraid he won't be there during and after the ...

What's been your experience with the morning-after pill?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - I had to take the Plan B emergency contraceptive this morning after a condom slipped with my boyfriend last night and I had forgot to take my birth control. I have read that it is 85% effective and am just curious if anyone has had experiences with ...

Pregnancy tests have come back negative, but could I still be pregnant?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 October 2010 (?) - My periods are 4 days late. I took 2 pregnancy tests and they both came out negative. I've never missed periods before and they are always on time. I had sex 2 days after my last periods. Could i be pregnant?...

Am I doing the right thing by not saying anything until I am sure I am pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5144 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - so i woke up this morning with a predicament you see i woke this morning and realized that i'm two weeks late for my period and to add to it the possible dad and i no longer speak to each other because hes now my ex.. to make it a little more com...

I'm 12 weeks pregnant and my husband is cheating. Do I leave him or stay because of the baby?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5144 days ago

26 October 2010 (F) - Hi,I am 12 weeks pregnant and my husband is cheating with one of he's co-worker and she is married too I dont know who's the jerk, but this problem is driving me crazy I just don't know what to do. I must leave him or stay cuz of the baby?...thanks ...

Its hard enough being a single mother to one, I don't know if I can do it with two!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5143 days ago

26 October 2010 (F) - okay so im 20 years old and i already have an 1yr old daughter... i just found out today that i am pregnant again ..n the guy that i was with already has a little girl with a another woman n doesnt see her at all he drinks alot n likes to go to the ...

My parents are going to kick out my pregnant baby sister

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5144 days ago

26 October 2010 (F) - im 17 and my sisters 15 and pregnant and she wants too keep it and does not want to put her baby up for adoption but my parents and her have a rocky relationship so they dont want anything too do with her , i really want to help her because i love ...

I treated her bad so her famly came and took her away from me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5144 days ago

26 October 2010 (M) - my problem is as follows, me and my gf have been dating for almost 10 months, she just turned 20 and im 22, i was a jerk in our relationship, did some terrible things which iam truly sorry for. Her family was concerned about her and just over a ...

He won't stay and he won't let me move on

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

26 October 2010 (F) - im currently 26 weeks pregnant and my bd walked out on me so he could concentrate on being a good dad to his 2 children from a previous relationship and our soon to be born son but the problem is his ex is stating that he isnt to have anything to do ...

Will or relationship survive now that I've found out I'm pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5144 days ago

26 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together just under a year (10 months), and I've just found out I'm pregnant. It wasn't planned, we're using contraception. We both have decent jobs and live together... But I'm worried as to whether we're going to ...

Do we make enough money to have a baby?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5143 days ago

26 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I feel we are ready to try to start a family in the next few months. We have just paid off some debt from my uni days and are looking now to rent a place (we currently live with his family). Our combined salaries are £40,000 a ...

Should I have a kid; don't get off

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5144 days ago

26 October 2010 (F) - Moderator note: two questions from the same address Hello. Well me and this guy are talking and I want to have unprotected sex one time and he does too, because he said if you want to we can do it one time. Well we have only had sex 4-5 times wi...

FWB, then we are exclusive, then back to FWB. Now I'm pregnant.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5143 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - My bf and i have been together for a little over a year. our relationship is quite complicated. we met and both of us had been hurt and decided we didnt want a relationship or to be in love. well. HA we broke our own rules fell in love and became ...

15 and pregnant...parents don't know..

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5146 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - I am 15 and 2 months pregnant.. i have told my boyfriend of 9 months this and he is happy but scared like me. but i have a big problem. my parents do not know and his don't either. and this baby doesn't belong to my boyfriend. i started seeing ...

Sex has dried up now that I am pregnant!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - I'm 23 and my man is 22. Im 5 months pregnant. We use to have sex regularly now its every four or five days. And when we do have sex most of the time its because I asked. Its Far and in between that he initiates it. From what i hear most guys his ...

Boyfriend left me because I miscarried

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4454 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - ok, where do i start. i guess it all started 4 years ago. I was with my first boyfriend for ten months. he broke up with me and 2 weeks later he was with my best friend. i lost the 2 of them. my other best friend left too. i was so alone. then came ...

Why would a woman do this to me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5146 days ago

24 October 2010 (M) - I have a question for you ? I am married man who dated a divorced women on and off for 4 years. On many occasion we talked about moving in together. Until the day she told me she was pregnant and she gave me a choice of moving in with her or ...

Am I being selfish for wanting to start a family?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5147 days ago

23 October 2010 (F) - My husband and I have been marred for five months. He is in gradschool and I'm work. We dated for 8 years before our wedding. I would like to have a baby but, he don't want one until schools done and he has a good job. That's like in five years. T...

My boyfriend has reneged on giving up weed now that I am pregnant!

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23 October 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for over 8 years now and over the course of high school and college. Now, we are both out in the real world working full time and building our future together. My boyfriend and I have both smoked pot recreationally, ...

I don't know if my husband loves me anymore. Could he just be staying with me because I'm pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5148 days ago

22 October 2010 (F) - Ok I have two situations,the first one is I do not know if my husband loves me anymore. First of all we gt married at a young age about a year ago. Sience then we been have issues and I spent like 3 wks away from him becuz he kept wanted to keep in ...

Should I get pregnant knowing my fiance doesn't want another child?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

21 October 2010 (F) - My fiance and I have 3 boys (5,2,1 week), i just gave birth to a baby on 10/14. I desperately want to try for a girl and he doesn't want anymore children. 2 are his and 1 is from a previous relationship. He now wants to use condoms and get me on ...

My man won't give me any!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5148 days ago

21 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together a little over 2 yrs now. When we first met the sex was hot and heavy and I couldn't keep him off me. Then, 6 months later I found out I was pregnant. He already had 2 boys and didn't want any more kids ...

My friend got a married woman pregnant and now doesn't know what to do!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5146 days ago

21 October 2010 (M) - please help to my friend. My friend is a student with me. He had sex with the wife of his house mate and she is now pregnant. My friend is aftraid and still a teenager. He doesnt know what to do, should he tell his housemate's wife to have an ...

Did I deserve to lose my baby?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5148 days ago

20 October 2010 (F) - hey x so i had a miscarrige last year and at the time i just put it to the back of my head an forget about it as well to be honest i was ashamed because i was only 15 but i recently started going out with my best friend and when arguing, he brought ...

Does he want to get me pregnant or is he just traditional?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5150 days ago

20 October 2010 (F) - my partner and i of nearly 2 years were talking about my friend who was pregnant and got dumped by her boyfriend. he then said he would have freaked out like my friends bf and done the same thing and goes, i hope youre not pregnant. then i asked ...

He's rubbing my face in it showing me pictures of her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5150 days ago

20 October 2010 (F) - Hi Cupids, I just want to know if its just me with an issue about this subject or would other women do the same as me? I've been with my boyfriend now for 1 year and 2 months and im currently 5 months pregnant with our little girl, he constan...

How do I tell him I'm pregnant? I'm not ready to have a baby!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5151 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - I'm pregnant but I don't know how to tell HIM! I've just emigrated to Australia to be with him and we both know we want to be together forever but I feel its too early to have a baby. He's always talked about wanting one with me, but with my career ...

I need advice, I want to have a baby, I am 14, please help??

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - hey im 14 and i really want a baby i have wanted one sence i was 11 and i dont know what to do my family and friends say i am a natual when it comes to looking after children and careing for them i really don tknow what to do please help x...

Should I tell her the truth, or stick it out for this baby and see what happens?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

19 October 2010 (M) - My wife and I have been fighting a lot. I fell in love with another woman, and was going to leave my wife for her. Then my wife told me she was pregnant. She asked me point blank, "do you want to have this baby with me?" Since I KNOW that I F'd ...

He's gotton someone else pregnant and I don't know what to do any more...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - I am completly in love with someone and we are going out. The problem is that he already has a girlfriend who is one of my best mates and is really sensitive. The thing is I've heard he slept with her and he promised me he wouldn't and I did a test ...

Pregnancy hopes... Am I doing something wrong here?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - Hi, I want to know... I have been trying to conceive for 4 months... I have followed the ovulation and fertility rules and still no positive, am i doing something wrong... my partner's sperm flows out sometimes... is that the reason? what am i doing ...

Pregnant with my abusive partner's 2nd child and find out he is married

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

18 October 2010 (F) - I am pregnant and have a 9 month old with my fiance. He is emotionally and mentally abusive, gives me hell, won't help around the house, etc most of the time. Although he has his sweet days... he blames his anguish on his job ( he is a corrections ...

I don't want to have to accept this child

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

17 October 2010 (F) - I am a 26 year old female married for 4 years now to my husband. We have a 4 and 1/2 year old daughter as well as a 3 year old daughter. Yesterday, I found out that due to a one night stand with another woman, there is now a 5 yr old little girl ...

My wife is in ER and I can't get back to her!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

17 October 2010 (M) - My wife is in the ER as I write this. I am thousands of miles away on business. She is 8 months pregnant and has been complaining of pain in between her shoulder blades, more to the right side. It has radiated to the front of her chest. Right below ...

I hope there is still a chance!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5154 days ago

16 October 2010 (M) - My girlfriend for 2 years just broke up with me 2 months ago. We are both 23 years old and I can say that we were happy and so much in-love in the first 1 year and 5 months of our relationship.We rarely argue and we care so much for each other. She ...

Can I trust his wife around my child

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5154 days ago

16 October 2010 (F) - Moderator's Note: Two questions combined. Q: 1I need help and understanding of what I should do. I was in a relationship/affair whatever u wanna call it with a married man. I am now pregnant by him and due next month, and he is also back with his...