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Archived questions from: August, 2010 (see latest in Online dating category)

Online dating: Help and advice

Will my self esteem issues get in the way of a relationship I've built online?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - Hey agony aunts and uncles! I have a question and I apologize for the novel I am writing. However, I feel the background information is necessary for my question. I have spent my years as an adolescent feeling like an old soul in a very young she...

Is she joking or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5196 days ago

30 August 2010 (M) - Hi! I'm 16 and a little confused. I've had this on and off relationship with a 15 year old girl. It's a long distance relationship and i only get to see her on weekends and holidays. When i do see her we usually end up going back out but when ...

How can I find out if he is falling for me like I am for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5196 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - I don't know if anyone can reall help me, as I know that I have no choice but to hang in and see, but any feedback would be appreciated... I met a lovely guy online last April and started dating him in May. He is in the RAF and lives on base an...

Was it what I did, or does he just not like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5196 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - Well, I've signed up and paid for a couple of dating sites. I've spent £60 in subscription and i was really annoyed to find that a lot of guys aren't even paying subscribers and can't read or respond to messages. Anyway, I saw one guy online and h...

What you need to know about Online Dating

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

30 August 2010 (M) - First, let me start off by saying that online dating is not a bad thing. In todays age of technology and the internet, I think online dating is just as good if not better than simply meeting someone at a bar, pub or nightclub. When you meet ...

How much space do I give her while she leaves her marriage?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

29 August 2010 (M) - I am in love with a married woman for the last 2 years. I love her and we had talked about a future together. She had almost left once but couldn’t decide to leave…she was too scared. She always said stuff like, I don’t know if I can keep you ...

I wan't her back, I miss her!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5197 days ago

28 August 2010 (M) - Ok I meet this girl online about 2 yrs ago. In I gave here my phone number in she called me up. After that we started to talk for a long time. Like for 2 yrs stright. When I meet her she had a boyfriend but she broke up with him after a 8yr ...

A twisted relationship!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5196 days ago

28 August 2010 (F) - Ok so i do not know what to do so i thought i would come here for some help. I am 18 years old and in a very confused state of mind. It is really a long story but i will shorten it and please any feedback to this is great because i need som...

How can I cheer him up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5198 days ago

28 August 2010 (F) - I'm 21, and my guy is in a deep depression, he's like sad all day, he's really hardworking though, but always sad, he isn't speak much, isn't his regular joker self, and is barely smiling. He's 30 by the way, and I met him online, I'm not ...

Internet girlfriend not making any sense and I don't understand what is going on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

28 August 2010 (M) - ok well i met this girl a year ago on youtube and we would talk everyday sending messages through utube well after about 4 or 5 months of knowing this person i found another sight she was on where she would wright a diary mostly everyday or a few ...

Can't figure him out, should I just leave him alone, or what?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

27 August 2010 (F) - Now maybe my first problem is that I'm talking to this guy online. But how many messages do I have to send to him? He never sends me messages (and says he didn't read or get my messages) or starts a conversation with me first. I told him that I was ...

Is it ok for my husband to be friends with a woman he used to chat to online before we were married?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5200 days ago

26 August 2010 (F) - My husband and I met two years ago on the internet and we got married.We are now expecting a baby very soon. Everything has been going well and he reminds me each day that he loves me and he says he is very happy am his wife.He told me there wa...

Online date doesn't look at all like her photos. I'm not attracted, even a little repulsed by her appearance!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

26 August 2010 (M) - I met this woman online, very quickly the relationship escalated emotionaly, we exchanged many pictures and shared with eachother about our feelings, hopes and fears on a very deep level. We decided to meet, so i went down to where she lives ...

Being ignored?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

26 August 2010 (F) - I am a female...who is on a dating site...I get more attention than I can handle...and guys are literally proposing online...I am not sure why ...but they do....I met this one man....that out of them ALL I felt I clicked with....we talked a ...

I want his personality and him,but not his looks. What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

25 August 2010 (F) - I've been dating this wonderful man long distance for two years.it got to the point i wanted to marry this man!but then..he came to visit me.and when i saw him,my heart fell. I knew he was overweight but i didn't expect this! Sometimes i have dif...

In love with much older man over the internet! Will people laugh?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

24 August 2010 (F) - hi everyone i am in love with a man over the internet he is so funny sweet and kind he has done alot of work on polling for elections and ive seen him on a tape why he should be elected meaning he isnt a creep he has a good backround etc but my only ...

Online relationship, does she love me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

24 August 2010 (M) - Hi everyone ...im in online Relationship "8 months" with Girl "16 yrs and 9 months" , i love her sooo much even i didn't meet her in real life, but my problem is she doesn't want there friends to know about me, or when she goes to her friends house ...

Is 30 years and 3000 miles such a problem?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5197 days ago

24 August 2010 (F) - ok everyone when i was young i had a fake profile on a dating site i fell in love with a man on that site at the time but i could never tell him who i really was now i am 19 and i see he is still on the site i am so happy he is still single as i ...

Should I love this man who is 30 years older?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5183 days ago

23 August 2010 (F) - ok hi everyone im just so confused at the moment i feel in love with an american man over the internet he is sweet funny and kind and has always said the right thing he offered to take me and my baby which i am expecting at moment he has told me a ...

Feeling used and betrayed!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

23 August 2010 (F) - Hello, A long time ago there was a guy in my life, and we liked each other, but he had a long term long distance girlfriend, and I was leaving town to go to uni and to escape a violent family. So, we came close, but never actually made anything ha...

Is he serious?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

23 August 2010 (F) - My current boyfriend is 16 years old, and I'm 19. He's mature for his age (for the most part) and is extremely romantic and sweet. I love him to death. We met in person this summer after talking online (he lives in Ireland and I'm in the US), and we ...

I like this guy but he is not over his ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

23 August 2010 (F) - okay, so ive started talking to this guy online about 4 months ago, thats when he his gf broek up with him, they had been together for 3 years and he still really loves her, but he knows he's never going to get back with her, and he's now started ...

Is it an addiction? or is he using that as an excuse?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5203 days ago

23 August 2010 (F) - recently i have found out my boyfriend of 12 months has joined a firting website to chat to other girls i have had a look and it seems more like a sex site, iv confronted him and he said he was waiting to tel me but knew i would see it on his phone ...

We freeze up and don't know how to talk to eachother in person!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

23 August 2010 (M) - hello all. i have a beautiful, smart funny and sexy girlfriend and i couldn't be happier its just when we meet up in real life we sometimes freeze. we find it hard to communicate to one another when together but online we chat for hours. i don't k...

She wants to lose her virginity to me but I'm not sure if I want to spend the rest of my life with her because of her past!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5196 days ago

23 August 2010 (M) - hello im with this girl i know through internet..we been together for 2 years but we still havent met since we live far away. anyway i know everything about her and her past is actually haunting me..she didnt do much but just the idea that some oth...

Meeting people online

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

22 August 2010 (F) - I need some advice about meeting people online. I am in my late twenties and have never been in a real relationship. I have suffered with social anxiety disorder as well as bipolar disorder for all of my adult life. Once diagnosed, I began ...

In love with my online friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5204 days ago

21 August 2010 (F) - hi i am 20 years old and have been talkin to a guy for the past 1year. the problem is we know each other through chat and we talk. recently i feel very possesive over him. i hate it when he has convos with other girls,i feel extremely jealous. we ...

Married and falling in love online

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

21 August 2010 (M) - Hi, I am a happily married 40+ man and few weeks ago i met a woman online also happily married. we are falling madly in love to each other both knowing this is a dead end story. my question is should we end this straight away or keep chatting and ...

Considering leaving my husband after 23 years!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

21 August 2010 (F) - I am considering leaving my husband after 23 years. I often wondered wether I should have married him in the first place, but at the time I was craving stability. We had kids pretty soon after that, and then the problems continued. I have ne...

My feelings for my on-line love are overtaking me, and I'm worried I won't feel the same about my husband!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5206 days ago

20 August 2010 (F) - Hi,I am in a very tricky situation,recently i have been in contact with a turkish guy i met online,i wasnt looking for a new man but he added me on a social network site and i accepted,normally i ignore. I am married,to an english man but i have t...

He's starting to choose clubbing over me...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

18 August 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together for so long, we met over the internet at the beggining of 2008 and we met face to face on 14th august 2009. we have been through so much. we have so many memories. we go different places, especially because he ...

I COULD have been living my dream!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5209 days ago

17 August 2010 (F) - hi I am 20,living in bangladesh. i was in a relationship with my bf who lives in new york. Had a little fight and he stopped calling me. on those lonely days i tried to divert my mind and went in to som chat rooms where i found a pilot banglade...

I love him and want to wait but the lack of communication is making me crazy!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

17 August 2010 (F) - So confused. Plz help. I met my bf 6mnths ago online. He works away and I only see him every 5 wks. When we see each other it is wonderful and very happy, he then goes and we basically just text msg lots every day. When I actually speak to him I ...

Finding a girl I've seen online whom I've never met or spoken to...???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

17 August 2010 (M) - I can see how this might come off as strange or creepy but i'm really looking for advice/opinions on this. I recently joined an online dating site in an attempt to find a girl as similar to me as possible and it looks like I might have suceeded. T...

Met on adult chat room, he's filling a void, but not sure that is a good thing

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14 August 2010 (F) - I would sometimes use an adult chat room to masturbate. A little while back I think over a month, I fell into a conversation with someone, we began chatting to each other about silly things, while tired and hung over (non sexual) - for almost 12h...

What do I do about this girl who wants a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5211 days ago

14 August 2010 (M) - OK so my life is pretty much stable in my opinion but to others I'm a fool. So I met this girl online we have been talking together for 3 years now but have never met. Her family isn't so fond of African Americans and her siblings well I only have ...

I flirted and he got the wrong idea -- how do I let him down easy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

14 August 2010 (M) - So I met this guy online (he's My friend's friend) and we chatted on facebook,texted each other and skyped and really got to know each other, and i really, REALLY do not like him...i mean he is nice..but he is extremely clingy and annoying,and is ...

I'm nervous about messing this up on the second date, any tips?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

13 August 2010 (M) - Ok so there’s a woman I met via on line dating, we had our first date last week, we met up for drinks and I paid for a meal, then went for more drinks afterwards. We seemed to click, were not short of conversation and I do like her (a lot). She’...

She says she feels like I'm her soulmate, but that I'm too young for her, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5212 days ago

13 August 2010 (M) - Hi all, I met this amazing lady about 2 months ago.....we met on the dating site.....and it was a fluke as she doesn't go there often and she was about to log off....I instant messaged her and she replied and we hit it off from the start....nor...

He initiated the relationship, and now he's telling me he updated his dating profile. wtf?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

13 August 2010 (F) - I signed up for eHarmony just over a month ago and about two weeks in, went on my first date. It went well, and we've been seeing each other ever since. It seemed to me like he was moving really, really, really fast but I figured "to hell with ...

Conflicting stories made me not trust him so I ended things. Did I do the right thing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

12 August 2010 (F) - Hi and thank you for reading this question. I met a chappy online. We connected on a level over the internet and the phone. We met. Physically he is similar to my ex, both 'not-my-type' as in tubby and my height. He looked like a larger version of ...

Should I tell my girlfriend that I had cybersex with a stranger whilst she was away?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

11 August 2010 (F) - Hi, I have been with my girlfriend now for four years we have a very close bond and get on really well together and want I wish to spend the rest of my life with her. We meet over the internet and since have moved in together and are now lo...

In love with a married man. Know it's wrong but don't know what to do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

10 August 2010 (F) - Oh help me! I met a man online in January. We hit it off right away. We can talk easily, we laugh, etc... A couple of weeks into it I guessed he was married. He said he couldnt lie and that he was - unhappily. He tells me they only have sex on...

I have a crush on my neighbor. Can I add him as a friend on Facebook?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

10 August 2010 (F) - Hey, i need to know whether this is the right thing to do or not.. i really like my neighbour, alot! i have for a long time, the problem is, he's married. I understand this and know that nothing can come from but just a silly little crush. I ...

Why do guys like to talk dirty with someone they don't know?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

10 August 2010 (F) - Why do guys like to talk dirty with someone they don't know? I have been in online dating chat rooms. and all the guys want to talk about is sex. It makes me feel uncomfortable since the guy is a stranger. If anyone knows the answer to this ...

Need help with communication issues...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5216 days ago

9 August 2010 (F) - I have been in a relationship with a great guy who I met online since April. We live about an hour apart and he lives on base so it's difficult to see each other because of his job in the RAF. Since we have been together he has had to go on ...

Is it ok to have a long distance relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

9 August 2010 (F) - Does anyone think it's good to have long distance relationships/Online ones? If you have any experience could you let me know if it's worth it.I met this guy and he's amazing ( it's been almost 2 years ) we get along, he knows mostly everything ...

How can I help my online African lover come to Canada?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5217 days ago

9 August 2010 (F) - he is from africa, we met online for three years online he is very wonderful, so i went to him and we have fun and love, coming together have been problems, with my profession i can't move there, so how can help him come to canada.thank you...

Was he just playing me the whole time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5218 days ago

9 August 2010 (F) - i started seeing this guy who i met online who is 10 yrs younger then i am. So i kinda knew right of the bat that nothing serious would come of it. He started out texting me all throughout the day and questioned why i was not texting him all the ...

What can I do to make this mess right again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5218 days ago

8 August 2010 (F) - can someone out there help me. I have a bit of an issue. I met a guy off a dating site and we talked for about 3 weeks every night before we met. I quite liked him and when we met we had an amazing time, we continued to meet over the space of a...