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Is it ok for my husband to be friends with a woman he used to chat to online before we were married?

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Question - (26 August 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 26 August 2010)
A female Finland age , *rene88 writes:

My husband and I met two years ago on the internet and we got married.We are now expecting a baby very soon.

Everything has been going well and he reminds me each day that he loves me and he says he is very happy am his wife.He told me there was another woman he was communicating with on the net before we started dating,but things did work out.

A few days ago,I noticed that he is still writing mails to her,telling her how we are doing.I asked him why he is back with her,and he said he feels sorry for her as she has never got a husband.Though the woman is in another continent,am still scared that he might have feelings for that woman.

She asked for our family photo soon as we get the baby.

Is it ok for my husband to send her our photo and continue being her friend?Am so confused..........

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A female reader, Anonymous 123 Italy +, writes (26 August 2010):

Anonymous 123 agony auntLook...its very simple...you are definitely not wrong in what you think. Yours is a genuine reaction, and you should seriously talk to your husband about this and tell him that it bothers you. I'm sure your feeling matter much more to him, than this random woman's. For all you know they might just be friends and there is possibly nothing more to it, but there is no need for him to continue with these casual conversations, more so now that he is married and you guys are expecting a baby. Its nice of this lady to be concerned, but really, too much of anything isint good. Talk to your husband and ask him to stop feeling so sorry for her. Whether she has a husband or not is her headache, not anybody else's.

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