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female
age
41-50,
*reeneyes3
writes:i started seeing this guy who i met online who is 10 yrs younger then i am. So i kinda knew right of the bat that nothing serious would come of it. He started out texting me all throughout the day and questioned why i was not texting him all the time. So when i started texting him, he would not respond. Then i would get a text a few days sometimes weeks later only saying `hey. He would never call and always texted me, usually late at night wanting to come over for a booty call. He had come over on a few occasions where he just wanted to watch movies and cuddle. Yes we did end up sleeping together and to me we just became FB. I told him I was going to continue to date other people but that i would only sleep with him. He said he only wanted to sleep with me as well. I deleted my online profile and he kept his up, so i assumed he was still looking. Then i told him i won a trip and he asked if he could come, i said sure that would be fun. he didn`t talk to me for the longest time so i decided to tell him i was going to take someone else. He was all of a sudden texting me all the time again and said he wanted to go with me. Well as soon as i booked the trip he stopped talking to me. He would always tell me how he was really busy working and didn`t have time to meet other girls let alone time to spend with me. I continued to date and things started to get serious with me and this other guy so i told the other guy that i may pursue a relationship with this new guy and that i could no longer be sleeping with him. he got pissed off and said i was lame. I was like your the one who is still on the dating site and never comes around unless it is for sex so i don`t know what he was so pissed off about. Was he totally just playing me the whole time?
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reader, DrPsych  +, writes (9 August 2010):
 This is a very messed up situation that is going no where fast. He made it clear from his behaviour that it was just a sexual fling for him. The holiday was just a bonus. He was always on the look-out for other women, and there can be no guarantee that he wasn't sleeping around so you need to get checked out for STD's. You owe this to the new man in your life before you start sleeping with him. Lots of people who are online looking for dates are players or unstable individual's who would struggle to find a partner elsewhere. It sounds as if you have been fair to him by explaining no more no-strings sex. You need to delete him from your phone and forget about him - focus on finding a meaningful relationship (preferably offline) with someone who treats you with respect.
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