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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Now maybe my first problem is that I'm talking to this guy online. But how many messages do I have to send to him? He never sends me messages (and says he didn't read or get my messages) or starts a conversation with me first. I told him that I was mad at him on his profile wall and he replied RIGHT away saying why and that he wasn't ignoring me and that he didn't feel like talking to anyone. I asked him did I scare him or make him nervous by telling him I liked him and he said no, he's used to people telling him that now! Every time we are talking he posts lyrics and quotes on his wall and I asked was he trying to send someone a message and he said no, he likes music. I asked him can we hang out, he says "like????" and I asked when he was available and he told me and I let him know I was free too and no response... because he's posting on other people's walls. And then logs off. I talked to him again and he actually apologized because he was writing a note and I told him maybe we can talk later and he goes "ok well just hit me up". I got mad and told him he can start a conversation first too and he replied "lol ok". What is his problem? Is he shying away or just not interested? He told me I was beautiful and that he wouldn't ignore me intentionally when I first reminded him of how he treated me when we were in school and I got someone to tell him I liked him. He just kinda stared afterwards but I didn't speak to him because he said "he would go out with me but he won't" (that story is on this site somewhere). I'm so confused, and pissed too.By the way I'm an Aquarius. I noticed that on his page he has lots of stuff about his sign Cancer and so I have been looking into that since he's into that kind of stuff. Cancers are suppose to be shy and fear rrejection but I wouldn't reject him. Should I just leave him alone or what?
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reader, Oregongrl1 +, writes (28 August 2010):
Don't take me wrong, but it is your stupidity. he is a jerk.
why should he show you any respect and you are not the only woman that he is chating with! why don't you tell him to take a hike and start all over fresh and find someone who is not hiding behind a computer!! he has no interest in you how much plainer can he be.
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2010): I'm sorry hun, but that is not how a man acts when he likes a woman. He apologized because you put him on the spot, but he's really not into you. Time to move on and leave him alone, you are probably starting to creep him out :(
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (28 August 2010):
 Yes leave him alone. You are putting too much energy into this. Let him chase you and if he doesn't then you know he wasn't into you.
get off your computer and do some real world things instead.
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