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What do I do about this girl who wants a relationship?

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Question - (14 August 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 15 August 2010)
A male United States age 30-35, *t455 writes:

OK so my life is pretty much stable in my opinion but to others I'm a fool. So I met this girl online we have been talking together for 3 years now but have never met. Her family isn't so fond of African Americans and her siblings well I only have spoken to 2 of them. Her cousin and her sister they are both out of there minds in my opinion but I cant really tell..they are all full of drama like the things that happen between them supposedly is just like a TV show. Her sister and cousin are jealous relatives that would do anything to hurt her or see her suffer...which is kind of f___ed up but then again the girl I'm talking to is a little messed up herself. we started talking more seriously and everything about meeting and what not but every time we do "something" happens preventing her from coming to see me...and she wont let me know where she is..

it started out with her knowing my number and giving me a fake one during an exchange when i found it was fake she called me private explaining why she had done it. I was patient for a while and convinced her it wasn't fair that she was doing this. She would say a lot of things to make me upset like the guys that was with her and how she looks so hot and what not OK...She somehow met my a friend from my high school last summer and he never told me....he finally fessed up and said she actually asked him if he knew me he admitted and said he did know me but he never told me they met each other. I heard it from her.

You can imagine how it feels to not meet her yet my friend who is like literally an indirect topic that suddenly dives into the situation.One day she told me something he had said about me supposedly so I gave him a call he basically was like he didn't say a thing I gave her a call back saying why did you lie about that? she just gets angry with me and says no and pretty much forbids me from talking to him.Eventually she tells me she has slept with him and I was devastated.I felt like an idiot whether i should believe this or not she calls days later saying it was a lie.....So basically she also said she has been lying about a lot of guys to get me jealous....

she said she couldn't live without me and felt like i didn't care so she started lying about a lot of the guys she has dated and gave extra details about them that weren't true... anyway she wants to be with me but I don't know what to say there is so much more about her i just cant type in one day

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A male reader, jt455 United States +, writes (15 August 2010):

jt455 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

well she has one and maybe i need to stop i was so worked up i was barely able to make any of that question make sense lmao

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A female reader, Mature Lady United Kingdom +, writes (14 August 2010):

Ditch this silly girl now she seems a proper crank that you do not want to become involved with and there is something strange to the fact that she won't meet you and is telling you so many lies,having said that my son has just married a girl from abroad that he met on the internet but she came over here and met him three times before they became engaged,there is something strange with this girl I would not get in touch with her again,there is better out there for you.

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