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Archived questions from: August, 2008 (see latest in Online dating category)

Online dating: Help and advice

Is he interested or just playing a game?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - I started talking to a guy on msn through some friends we have in common. We got on well and have been out to the cinema and to lunch together. Since then(about 2 weeks ago) we have spoke on msn or text mostly everyday. He texts me to ask how my day ...

My boyfriend has profiles on on-line dating sites. I don't know what to believe.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - We've been together for 3 months and a half. We met online and I found some time ago the profiles he had before we met, and asked him to please take them off, since anyway he was not logging in them (I saw his last log ins and he had stopped) and he ...

What do you think about the websites where you meet people that you knew in high school?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5925 days ago

31 August 2008 (M) - I know that chatrooms and social networking sites can be dangerous places to meet people off, but is it wrong to use a social networking site as a type of "FriendsReunited"-type website and meet people you used to know in high ...

Do you think my online friend is ready to commit to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5887 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - Hallo there, I met a really nice guy online and even spoke to him on phone. He is happy that I belong to the same religious group as he is and also for the fact that I am a 100% pure vegetarian. We took it a step ahead, when he s...

I'm very upset about my partner's online profile! Why would he do this to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - Hello, everyone. I need some advice. My daughter's dad and I have been in and out of a relationship for the past 5 years. He has two kids from his first marriage and we're getting ready to have a second child. I am tired, frustrated, worn...

How can I initiate a friendship after the break up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5887 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - I was communicating with a man from an online-dating site for a few weeks. After our first date, we mutually agreed to meet-up again. The conversation flowed really well and we were both excited about seeing one another again. However, hours before ...

I cancelled the wedding because I don't think we know each other enough., but he ended up heartbroken. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5926 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - i was going to get marry in july and I cancelled everything becuase i wasnt sure about getting marry and my boyfriend is always blaming me, he said that I hurted him alot. what should i do? i met my boyfriend by myspace we got engangage by the...

I think I'm becoming too attached to her, and I barely know her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5927 days ago

28 August 2008 (M) - Hi, I've been chatting with this girl I'm going to meet Fresher's Week and started a little flirting. Then I wrote a piece of music for her (you must have seen the question). In my last email to her I asked how old she was (we both like the same...

I cheated and don't know what to do

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

28 August 2008 (F) - i cheated on my bf of 3 years , after months of his addiction to internet porn, Live web cam teen age girls , not just actors and sctresses. Not sure what to do because I really do care about him....

Dodgy Adverts

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

27 August 2008 (F) - Hey all Humans bright and cheerful. (And variations there of.) I was pondering round this sight when i was looking at these here adverts which will soon surround the comments and answers this artical gets, and asked myself, "Does anyone act...

Don't want her back, after she refused my invitation because she was "busy", when in reality she was seeing someone else at her home. Who is to blame?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5929 days ago

27 August 2008 (M) - To give you the stroy so far.... http://www.dearcupid.org/question/some-cracks-have-appeared-in-our-relationshipis-she.html (... I knocked on the door and when she answered a few minutes later she was very harsh towards me and in her pj‘s. I notic...

My online friend cut contact with me, then I got a message from her boyfriend calling me a stalker, what now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5927 days ago

27 August 2008 (M) - I've felt alone my whole life. I'm shy. I never had very many friends. I was bullied constantly in school every year. After a while, I started to feel like I was worthless and wondered if there was really such a thing as true happiness. Then, from...

Is it more stressful to carry on with an "up and down" relationship than end it? My main concern is my health!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

26 August 2008 (F) - Hi, I have had advice off here before which I found helpful .... My partner of 5 years left me earlier this year in January and also I was unwell at that time ... he was the love of my love and i was desperately unhappy .. I joined an online dat...

I like this guy from msn, but he lives 7 hours away and I am not sure that could work

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5924 days ago

26 August 2008 (F) - hi theres this guy i like but im not sure if it'll work and im scared of getting hurt. i recently met this guy ive been spking to for the last 2 years on msn the weekend was amazing and it went really well and we're still spking as mates but the ...

Is he interested? Did I over-step boundaries by making the suggestion that we meet? Why does he never call, only emails?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

26 August 2008 (F) - I met a man on personals site at the end of June. We chatted on-lin about every other day for about 6 weeks, then 3 weeks ago we met for coffee. We sat in the restaurant and talked for over 2 hours. When we parted ways, he said he would like to ...

I have a real problem and it's time I admitted it. I'm worried it will ruin my marriage. Help me before it's too late, please.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5929 days ago

26 August 2008 (M) - I have a real problem and it's time I admitted it. I’m obsessed with chatting to people on the internet. Before I met my 'now' wife I used to use the chatrooms on AOL and meet women. I would sometimes end up meeting them. I met my wife at ...

Is having this up and down relationship with this guy going to impact my already compromised health?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5929 days ago

Some cracks have appeared in our relationship.....is she cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5931 days ago

25 August 2008 (M) - With complete strangers thinking the same as I did in reference to my previous question posted I realise I did see exactly what was happening. I would like to hear what more people think. I met my girlfriend via a dating site in early 08. We rea...

Should I leave my boyfriend who leaves me stranded at work and is meeting other women on dating sites?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5932 days ago

24 August 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend now for 2 years. He goes out when i am at work and leaves me there stranded ( we only have one vehicle). He is on many dating sites and always changes his password, when he figures i know to much to who (the other w...

My online friend said he loves me but I fear his love is only platonic and that he does not understand mine!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5931 days ago

24 August 2008 (F) - Okay, well, I met this guy over the internet who is just a year older than me. We met, chatted and had a laugh as friends. We talk on msn all the time and I love him as more than friend. Recently he told me he loved me but I fear his love is only ...

What can I do for this guy I like to open up more to me? He is my e-mail friend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5932 days ago

24 August 2008 (F) - I'm friends by email with this guy who btw is military (Air force). We met in person a while back in one of his missions. We flirted and I could sensed he liked me btw he looked at me and flirted with me. We actually treated like if he knew from lon...

With all I saw I am almost certain she was cheating, what do you think? Our relationship is now over.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5932 days ago

24 August 2008 (M) - I met my girlfriend via a dating site in early 08. We really clicked. Soon after we started having a relationship and were both very smitten. After six months some cracks appeared and I suspected her though dismissed this to prior relationships goin...

I met a perfect guy, and he's nice, but there's no spark.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5933 days ago

24 August 2008 (F) - I was talking to this boy on myspace, we both liked each other so we met up. Hes PERFECT, good looking, great personality, same interests. and i had a great time. Although there is no spark!! Ive met him like 4 times since then and still no chemisty...

I don't want to hurt his feelings but I do need to tell him he's not relationship potential! How?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5935 days ago

21 August 2008 (F) - Two weeks ago i went on a date with a guy i knew on MSN for one and a half years. I'd blocked him for a year because i was not sure about him, but six months ago i unblocked him and we found we had a lot in common. So we became friendlier, then, i ...

I had encounters, with a man I met on the internet, only for sex, I saw him, in the area where I live, my boyfriend does not know I did this, should I tell him before the internet guy, or someone else does?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5935 days ago

21 August 2008 (F) - two years ago I met up with someone off the internet for sex. He said he was a virgin and so I agreed to be his first. We met up 4 or 5 times just for sex. I thought nothing more of it until now... My boyfriend and I have recently moved to a small ...

He told me months ago that he liked me, could I have upset him now during our msn talk?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5936 days ago

20 August 2008 (F) - im really confused, and this is kinda botherin me alot, me and this guy have been mates for like 3 years or so, hes 20 now and im 16, we have liked each other, well ive liked him for probably all three years, and he told me about 10 months ago that ...

I caught my husband with whom have been married for 1 1/2 years, on a dating site. I know we need counselling, how should I get him involved?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5824 days ago

20 August 2008 (F) - I have been married for 1 1/2 years. We have been together for 3 years. Just prior to the wedding I found out he had several relations with different girls, had been on dating websites, and still texting and sending provocative pictures to some of ...

She has made it clear that she is not interested in dating. Do I persevere anyway?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5937 days ago

20 August 2008 (M) - i met a lady through online dating and we hit it off went out on roughly 4 dates and she indicated she was interested in me. She then rang and told me that her old boyfreind had contacted her and she was going to try again with him. this rather ...

Met him online, I'm afraid I'm falling in love with him and I'm not sure if he is as serious as I am. Why am I so worried, and how can I stop?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5937 days ago

19 August 2008 (F) - I have been dating a wonderful man for three months. He is 46 and I am 37, we are both divorced, and we each have a 10-year-old daughter. The sex is wonderful and we have a great time when we are together. Because of our work schedules, we only see ...

I like a guy online, but he says it is illegal to date me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5938 days ago

18 August 2008 (F) - recently i met a guy online and developed proper big feelings for him that were like masssssive. when he came online it wwas like my heart exploded insid me and i would go all funny when he emailed me, thing is hes a lot older than me and a load mo...

My friend hinted at us being together in different circumstances, so now I felt betrayed to know he had sex with another...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5938 days ago

18 August 2008 (F) - hey ive been talking to this guy online for nearly a year now me and him are really close we know basically everything about each other he is 23 and im 16 were really good friends, but he always tells me how much he wants to be with me and if m...

Is my online girlfriend fooling me around or is she really just like that?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5928 days ago

18 August 2008 (?) - Hello Everyone, I recently have been sort of this online relationship with a girl in Germany. I am 19 years old in Australia. She is 25. She has always told me she wants to come to Australia and live there with me. Anyhow recently or some s...

Unhappy in this relationship, work it out or take a break?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5939 days ago

17 August 2008 (F) - My fiance and I have been together for 2 plus yrs lived together for over a yr. The past 5 months, we've been arguing daily about pointless things. He gets so angry and defensive anytime I talk to him or ask him anything! I get frustrated and sad ...

Why do guys add "hot" girls on Myspace?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5937 days ago

17 August 2008 (?) - Why do guys add "hot" girls on Myspace? My bf has a band and he's the admin of their Myspace. He got a friend request from one of these stripper types, you know, those girls that have Myspace pages where they're almos naked, they're hot, etc...

What's happening with my online boyfriend?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5925 days ago

16 August 2008 (F) - What should i do about my online boyf? He hasnt said "I love you" for a week! This didnt stop since he asked me to moan for him, i didnt do it.... Everytime i would try to talk to him, he wont say anything back to me, i've said 'i love you', 'hi', ...

I don't have the confidence to ask him outright if he just wants sex. Do you think he wants to get to know me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5941 days ago

15 August 2008 (F) - Hello, I am looking for some advice on a guy. We chat every couple of days, he has never asked me out, however, he is always making comments about coming to my house for a night inn or me staying at his for a night inn. I was just wondering if ...

I discovered my fiance's posts on a dating site and my trust in him has gone; we have a home together so decisions are hard to make...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5941 days ago

15 August 2008 (F) - Ok, Im in such a state. I found out yesterday that my fiance had goined up to a casual relashionship site and a dogging site, but not just to look at, I found an email sent to a young lady saying he was availiable today and what he would do to her, ...

Should I meet him offline?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5887 days ago

15 August 2008 (F) - I met this guy on the net but i never met him in real life we talk yeah he wants me to get with him What do i do.....???? =[...

My online boyfriend isn't talking to me that often, help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5941 days ago

15 August 2008 (F) - I'm very troubled...My online 14yo boyfriend of almost 4months isnt talking to me that often...I couldnt tell you how many times i have tried to contact him, only 1ce in the past week he's said something to me. I dont know if he is avoiding me, lost ...

I met a guy off the net. It got a bit complicated and now he's not talking to me. I don't want to lose him as a friend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5942 days ago

14 August 2008 (F) - hey im gonna try and keep this as short as possible i met a guy off the net that night i lost my virginity to him we carried on talking via texts and msn and he always said we would meet again after 3 months of him promising to meet up aga...

Do I choose my ex or meet my online friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5943 days ago

13 August 2008 (F) - recently i have broke up with my boyfriend who i loved and adored sooo much, but i finished him... i bet your wunderin why, well because i started seaking to a guy on the internet and really fell for him the thing is hes older than i am.. my boyfri...

I confronted my partner about Adult Friendfinder. Does his behaviour show guilt and embarrassment?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5906 days ago

13 August 2008 (F) - Last night i confronted my partner about this adult friend finder account that i had come across. Saying it looks like he could have written (by the way i know itt was his) it. His reaction was instant denial then angry. I asked him to look at ...

Says he's too busy to meet... so sad

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5943 days ago

13 August 2008 (F) - Hi.. I have a text/phone call/IM relationship going on with a guy who says he has feelings for me. Trouble, he says he works 7 days a week and long hours and don't have the time to meet. I asked him once if he could just meet me for 10 mins.. and at ...

How do I trace the woman my husband met online and had an affair with?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5943 days ago

13 August 2008 (F) - Husband has had a affair for 4 months last year with a woman he met on the internet. He then went to Afghanistan and we are no further forward in repairing the marriage. He is on leave at the moment and i have said in order for me to believe what he ...

Am I nuts to think there could be a future in this? After all it is at the moment all online.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5944 days ago

13 August 2008 (F) - I have started chatting to a guy online. we are in different countries, he is in his early 40's and i am in my mid thirty's. we both have alot of relatinship experience behind us. we have been chatting every night and get on so well.....am i mad? ...

I slept with a married man who really seemed to like me. Now he says it won't happen again and not to tell anyone.help

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5944 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - hi im a 30 year old female and been friends with a 30 year old male for about 3 years we talk on the net and hes always liked chatting me up we both have 2 children and hes married.when i went round a week ago we ended up having sex.and turns round ...

We met online and she said she would meet me if I vote for her (she's a model)...

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

12 August 2008 (M) - A couple of months ago I started chatting to a lovely girl (well, she seemed lovely!) on a general chat site, and she gave me her email address. We started chatting on Yahoo! Chat, for a while, and then she said she wanted to meet. I agreed, ...

Twice we arranged to meet and twice he never showed up. Is he playing with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5926 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - Right i am a bit confused right now and would really apprechiate some advice, i don't wanna go on but i need to put it in detail for you to understand. I met this guy online about 4 weeks ago, i really liked the sound of him, so messaged him and he m...

My boyfriend masturbated on webcam to my friend, not knowing I was with her at the time!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5935 days ago

11 August 2008 (F) - well ive been with my boyfriend now for over a year! i love him and we have a fantastic sex life. but i slept at my friends house on saturday night, and my boyfriend added her on msn. he asked her if she was horny, he doesnt know her but she knew of ...

My husband registered on a dating website when I was ill. Can I trust him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5911 days ago

11 August 2008 (F) - My husband registered himself in a dating website, when I was ill and going through dialysis. He actively searched for women, and e-chatted with them for about a month. Now I am healthy and he says he loves me, but can I trust him? and is it normal ...