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writes:im really confused, and this is kinda botherin me alot, me and this guy have been mates for like 3 years or so, hes 20 now and im 16, we have liked each other, well ive liked him for probably all three years, and he told me about 10 months ago that he liked me, when i found out i wa soo pleased! he moved away in june because he had to go do a 12 month work placement for uni, and since then we spoke every night on msn, or text. sunday 10th, we were textin, everything seemed normal, flirty texts.. we were jokin with each other as we do, he told me to shut up :P so i told him to make me :P etc.. and then he was like ill make you somehow ;) and i was like go on then.. and he put how would you like me to :P soo i just put, 'somehow ;)' which is what he said, he replied with ok then. usually we both put three xxx's on the end of every text and his 'ok then.' only had one. i know it sounds petty, but thinkin about it noww, could i of upset him? because since then he hasnt text me, maybe hes waitin for me to text him, but i dont wanna text him incase he is in a mood or something :S he hasnt been on msn for 11 days, well.. thats what my cleanup thing says, maybe he has been on, hes just blocked me? hes been on facebook commentin peoples pictures and stuff, so i know hes been on facebook?! i actually am really upset about it, i proper like him, ALOT! ive never liked a guy as much. i dunno what to do, do you think hes blocked me on msn? does he not want anything to do with me anymore? could there be another rreason? ohh please help :'(
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reader, SuperSammie +, writes (20 August 2008):
 hi theremaybe he just felt a bit weird because your 16 and he's 20 (if you were 20 and he was 24 it would be different) but its because he will still see you as a teenager while he is an adult. so he is feeling weird because your texting is very flirty and leading him on. and he might just feel uncomfortable. he might have blocked you for a while, just so he could sort his head out, because if he does like you, and you went out, it could cause problems with parents and people because your still a teenager. so he might just want a bit of space or something.or just be busy on his placement with new friends and thingsbest thing to do is just test asking how he is, see if he replys. if he does then act normal... then if its still bothering you ask why he's ignored you for a few days. i'm sure your just over reacting and everything will be fine. dont worry bout it :) hope this helps S x
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