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writes:i cheated on my bf of 3 years , after months of his addiction to internet porn, Live web cam teen age girls , not just actors and sctresses. Not sure what to do because I really do care about him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2008): You felt he cheated on you by watching porn; now you've cheated on him. You need to have an honest chat and sort this out. Does he realise you view his webcamming as infidelity?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2008): I'm a bit skeptical on how bad his porn viewing really is. Yes guys like porn & there are girls out there who are really sensitive about this issue. I've also found that those girls tend to blow it up into a much bigger problem than it really is. What I mean is they find a guy watching porn on a couple of occasions & interpret that he has an addiction to it. I'm not saying that this is what's happening here but you said you've been dating for 3 years & yet he's only been watching porn for months?
Another thing is that you've already cheated. You're probably feeling guilty & looking for a way to rationalize what you did. So of course you're going to try to make it seem like he "drove" you into bed with another guy.
I'd say the relationship is probably done. If he's truly got an addiction to porn then he should find a way to get a hold of that. I'd worry more about yourself though. Just cause a guy makes you feel bad shouldn't mean you cheat on him (especially a three year relationship).
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reader, starismine1 +, writes (28 August 2008):
 It sounds to me like you both may have sex addictions, but for now, I would focus on your need for sex with someone else. Ask yourself whether this addiction is only his? Do you flirt with and crave sex with other men as well? This is a sign you aren't happy with your life and feel unfulfilled and this is something no guy can make you feel good about...only you.
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