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41-50,
*eeved
writes:Last night i confronted my partner about this adult friend finder account that i had come across. Saying it looks like he could have written (by the way i know itt was his) it. His reaction was instant denial then angry. I asked him to look at it with me and he refused. He then went on (with his head in his hands) that he was pissed off and i should f''''ing leave. I didnt go last night but asked him this morning about us- he said he wasnt bothered if i stayed and he cant make me happy or give me what i want. I am not a demanding girlfriend.I want him to pull his profile- thats all... (it doesnt bother me that he looks at porn, really it doesnt, but the profile does.He is at work now and i am at home feeling like ****, havent had much sleep and contemplating whether to pack my stuff and leave.... He doesnt want to talk about it (cant communicate very well) and just so you know he withdrew himself off his anti depressents 3 weeks ago.....Constructive advice from people with experience here would be gratefully received. I just wonder whether this 'not bothered', 'cant make me happy' response was a knee jerk reaction to being found out....Thanks
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reader, HOLLEE Price  +, writes (19 September 2008):
listen to your gut........they only go on there for sex......my husband was on for 2 years...with out me knowing...and has had 100's of daytime encounters....he is a sex addict.....get out
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reader, TELLULAH +, writes (14 August 2008):
 Sorry I dont agree, they just get there kicks a little different from us Normal (whatever that is) people. My partner likes to look at women tied up.
I let him tie me up a couple of times and he said he felt so guilty that he couldnt do it. He knows that I am a bit boring sexually I guess, because I am more into cuddles and kissing and romantic stuff. Where-as he used to be a complete pervert.
I know he loves me, just that he has other turn on's. I dont mind as long as its just looking. I cant see what these women get out of being tortured, still each to there own eh!!!
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reader, peeved +, writes (13 August 2008):
peeved is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for that... it cheered me up.... little sado's!
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reader, TELLULAH +, writes (13 August 2008):
I think it almost certainly was.
I found my partner looking at it a while ago, and asked him what he was doing. He had the same kind of reaction. I remembered him telling a friend (long ago) his pass word. I had never heard of this site before, but I found it and put it my partners pass word. Low and behold he came up and also a picture of his penis, of course he tried to deny it was his. But as we have been together for five years, I know his winkle when I see it. We had an enormous row over it, (even though he took it of straight away) and I thought we would break up.
Anyway I told so many of our mates that he did it, and they chastised him so much, I dont think he will do it again.
Its just a little pervey side that they have aparantly, and I wouldnt understand. Also I have never wanted to put a picture of my bits on the internet, so maybe he's right and I dont understand. LOL
You have to laugh really..... the sado's
Your not alone out there XXXX
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