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writes:Hello, everyone. I need some advice. My daughter's dad and I have been in and out of a relationship for the past 5 years. He has two kids from his first marriage and we're getting ready to have a second child. I am tired, frustrated, worn out, down and out. I was just browsing the site and I came across his profile. He has a provactive picture (just his towel covering up his gential area)and the rest with his two kids and our daughter. I was very upset he would so something like that. On top of that, he's looking. My heart just dropped. So, I made up an account to see who this girl he have been in contact with. She emailed me back saying they have a child together. My heart even dropped more. So, I took my daughter and we went over to his house. When we got there, he was on the internet and talking on the phone to the girl. He didn't want to get off the phone after I asked him politely to get off because we needed to talk. Still didn't get off the phone. I really got upset and hurt. I slammed his labtop and kicked the router to his computer. He put his hand around my neck and my daughter started to cry. He said he was going to call the cops so I waited so I can report his actions to the cops. We kept going back and forth. I finally left. I am so hurt he would do something like this to me and in front of our daughter. I just need some words of encouragement and some advice. I am down and depressed, tired....
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you all for your advice.
I am just hurt by all this. I thought he changed his ways. I have to change my way of living.
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reader, cthulhuhugs +, writes (1 September 2008):
 Hunny, you need to drop that piece of shit like he's on fire. NOBODY deserves that. Don't put your kids through any more of his disgustingness. It's FAR better to raise them alone than have that worthless excuse for a human destroy their lives with his idiocy. You're a strong woman. You can do it!!!
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reader, missy me  +, writes (31 August 2008):
 men think they can just keep breading and leaving now is the time for you to just lave him he wll never change my daughters dad did the same and we havent seen him in over five year we are better off wihout him you and your daughter deserve to be happy not to be messed around my advice to you is forget he even exsists !!
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2008): leave him. he is abusive and a cheater. he pays no attention to how many lives he brings into the world. He is an absolute loser.
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