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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: Okay, well, I met this guy over the internet who is just a year older than me. We met, chatted and had a laugh as friends. We talk on msn all the time and I love him as more than friend. Recently he told me he loved me but I fear his love is only platonic towards me. Nevertheless I said it back and we get along fine knwoing that we love each other but I dont think he realises how much I love him. What can I do? Is there no point to me trying to change the way he loves me?
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reader, :):):) +, writes (26 August 2008):
I've met people off the internet before and can honestly say, it is nothing like when you are chatting online. The person isnt usually how you expect them to be.It is hard to judge a charcater over msn.
If you feel strongly meet in a public place and tell a friend where you are going and who you are meeting to stay safe.
Then you can decide whether there is more than just friendship on the horizon. Don't rush into anything.
For the time being enjoy your online friendship.
xxx
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reader, superrrshawna +, writes (25 August 2008):
i am not a big fan of online relationships... is there no way you guys could meet SAFELY and see if you still feel the same way about each other in person first? before you question trying to change the way he "loves" you?
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