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writes:well ive been with my boyfriend now for over a year! i love him and we have a fantastic sex life. but i slept at my friends house on saturday night, and my boyfriend added her on msn. he asked her if she was horny, he doesnt know her but she knew of him because hes my boyfriend! she shouted to me *here ****** your boyfriends askin me if im horny, hes just added me on msn* so i flipped, i was like omg! tell him you are, go along with it.. INFACT i said, give me the keyboard. i was goin along with it and he put his webcam on, we told him we didnt have one, even though we did! and he asked her if she liked what she saw.the cam was faced at his cock and he was tossin himself off!! this has really bothered me because he told me he didnt mind me stayin out and not spendin the night with him. it makes me wonder if he does this every night hes not with me?! should i let this bother me? should i confront him? i know 18 year old guys will get horny, but couldn't he wait!? how many other girls was he on cam to at the same time? do all guys do this? is it normal?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2008): Mr anonymous Jake is an idiot, very few guys do this, and it is wrong for a guy to do this when he is in a relationship. If he wants to masterbate, as Tremor said he should get a magazine or stick on a sex video, or call you, or set up a cam link with you. I'm old fashioned, but in my book, looking is different to showing, and if he's doing this type of thing, he should be doing it with you and not your friend. Dosen't he have any respect for you and your relationship. I'd be scared to ever trust him again. I wonder what else he is doing. Dump his useless ass, and leave him and his cam to have fun. If this is what young men get up to nowadays, probably it's a good thing that I am old and date older men...
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2008): all guys do that... doesnt mean he doesnt love umaybe u should try camming to see wat its likejake
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reader, troysyaussie  +, writes (12 August 2008):
 of course its not normal. i mean its normal for guys to be horny and play around with women when they are single. but this guy is supposed to be your man. he obviously has no love or respect for you to want to show what should belong to only you with other women.... hes not worth it i dont think. men that love and cherish the women they are with just dont do those things
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reader, Tremor +, writes (12 August 2008):
 You are completely right to be bothered by this. Just because it's online doesn't make it any more acceptable - would you be asking these questions if it had been in person?
I say confront him on it. Sure 18 year old guys get horny, but that is why they invented Playboy and anonymous pin-up girls - him waving his tackle at your best friend is an entirely different kettle of fish. He's betrayed your trust, and that's not on. Honesly, I'd confront him about it, and then dump him - find a man who'll stay faithful, in the real world AND online.
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reader, superrrshawna  +, writes (12 August 2008):
 this would DEFINITELY bother me if i was in your shoes. whether you want to confront him about it and stay with him or what is your choice. but your gut is telling you it isn't right and i agree! if i was you i'd have broken up with him on the spot!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2008): holy shit,umm... that is not normal dump his ass.that should bother you girl. thats wrong on so many levels!!it's fine to wack off,but he din't have to do it to ur friend.
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