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51-59,
*ovita88
writes:Hi.. I have a text/phone call/IM relationship going on with a guy who says he has feelings for me. Trouble, he says he works 7 days a week and long hours and don't have the time to meet. I asked him once if he could just meet me for 10 mins.. and at first he said "yes" and then made excuses that he's too tired, or its too late in the evening for us to meet? I asked him indirectly (stating that I don't like married men pretending to be single) if he was married and just playing games with me, and he got offended. Please help..
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (13 August 2008):
 Its possible that he just doesn't want a full on normal relationship that he will have to give time to. Its easier txting and chatting on msn isn't it. I would move on. If you are looking for a 'proper' adult relationship, this doesn't sound like ya man.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2008): Dear Poster
It must be terrible for you; this guy is not being fair towards you; chances are he might be marrried; (as you suspect) BUT even if he is not;
I suggest you DUMP him; he is just not that "into" you; if he was he would make time to be with you.
Please don't waste you life, time and energy on him; you DESERVE to be happy and to share life with somebody that CARES for YOU.
Ignore him and find somebody that will make time to be with you.
Best wishes and lots of SMILES.
If you really want him to "freak", suggest you will pay him a visit at work during a lunch hour! (lol)
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (13 August 2008):
 Sweetie, sounds like this is a married man.... if he was keen on you he would make some time available to meet with you. Suggest you move on and forget about him.....
Honeygirl
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2008): I don't believe for a moment that he has NO time whatsoever to meet you. He managed to find the time for phone calls and IM etc. In my eyes, it looks like this guy is not who he claims to be - maybe he's married, maybe he's older/younger/balder/whatever than he told you. Sounds like you ought to move on.
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reader, TELLULAH +, writes (13 August 2008):
 Honey, you dont have a relationship really do you?.
And if he seriously had feelings for you, he would put himself out and meet up with you.
He is either married or stupid, either way I think you are wasting your time with the guy.
You say he got offended at you questioning him about his marital status.............. Guilt springs to mind.
Move on babe, and find a man that is free and has time to spend with you.
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