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anonymous
writes: I started talking to a guy on msn through some friends we have in common. We got on well and have been out to the cinema and to lunch together. Since then(about 2 weeks ago) we have spoke on msn or text mostly everyday. He texts me to ask how my day has been or starts talking to me on msn. However there hasn't been any talk of meeting up again. I have said I'd like to see him again and he didn't really say anything back, there has been a bit of flirting. I think he's not interested and then he texts and asks how I am. I don't get it!! Do you think he's interested or just playing a game?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your replys!
I had asked him to meet up and he couldn't make it, few days later he asked if I wanted to meet up for lunch instead. That was the last time I saw him. I am quite a shy person so asking somebody out is quite a task for me! I've been hinting at things we could do and have said to him I'd like to see him again. To which he said 'why's that?' Which I thought was quite an odd response!!
Yeah I just get the feeling that he likes me but not into me that much. I have been trying to move on but he keeps texting asking how I am. I'm just being friendly and if I do see him again it will nice, but I'm not getting my hopes up!!
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reader, sappygirl +, writes (1 September 2008):
He likes you but not sooo into you where he would call or ask you again. However, he's keeping you around just in case no one is around to fill his ego. So basically he doesn't see a potential for a relationship.I say move on, and when you do, I wouldn't be surprise if he calls you like crazy. Guys this age love the chase and the game.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2008): There could be other reasons:Did you ask him to meet up or did you leave it to him ?Perhaps he is shy ?Perhaps he considers you just a friend ?
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