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Archived questions from: May, 2012 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

Husband acts bizarre when we fight. If he got help, could he change?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4579 days ago

31 May 2012 (F) - Hello, I don’t usually ask for advice to bear with me if I provide too much or irrelevant detail. I am Christian woman married to a (moderately) Muslim man. We dated about 1.5 years before getting married. I was hesitant about marrying him beca...

In Love Yet Trapped in Cyber

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

31 May 2012 (M) - Hello, I am a happily married man who truly loves his wife. That being said, something happened a few years ago that has left me in upheaval ever since. My mother suddenly died of a massive heart attack leaving my life in the throws of gr...

I'm married but involved with a 25 year Russian girl. How do I know if my feelings for her are true? How do I know if I still love my wife? Should I try having a baby with my wife to improve our marriage?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

31 May 2012 (M) - How to start...I am 44 years old and have fallen in love with a 25 year old Russian girl who I met in Moscow while working there for 2 years. I am married (for 18 years) and my wife has never been able to have children. We have recently started...

Husband's naught pictures upset me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4598 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - Hello Everyone: I just got married, my age is over 50, I've been married 4 times twice to the first one. I love my husband very much. I will have to say this up front, no man is going to be perfect, "ever" BUT, I have been with him for quite a ...

Am I right to be jealous of my wife's new 'guy friend'? It goes so far that she even does his laundry!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4598 days ago

29 May 2012 (M) - So, my wife and I have been married 12 yrs, and have always been admired for our relationship. About 6 months ago she started sharing her office with a single man, who quickly turned into her "guy friend". Since then, she's spent a lot of time ...

My husband's adult son's treat him terribly, I don't know how much more of this I can put up with!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4598 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - My husband's two adult sons treat him horrible. They're spoiled and abusive. For years I've made excuses for them because their mother committed suicide the year before I met him. I feel like I've helped them work through some of their grief but ...

My wife is pregnant, did she cheat on me and is having someone else's baby?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4598 days ago

29 May 2012 (M) - My wife and I have been using the withdrawal method of birth control. If the timing works it is about 96% effective. While there were a few occasions several months ago where the timing may have been in question, this past two months, since her last ...

My wife wants to have sex with other men. I think she wants to hurt me because I had relationships before I met her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

28 May 2012 (M) - I've been married for 17 years and the sex is great my wife was a virgin and I was her first. But I on the other hand have had 5 sexual relationships. I only told her about that 7 years ago I tried to before but could see that she didn't whan't to ...

He is a good husband but a womanizer!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

27 May 2012 (F) - about 5 years ago my husband and i had been not intimate with each other because he was busy with his married gf but the affair stopped 2 years ago. he got another young gf after that and told me three months ago she was pregnant.he is a good ...

Mutually abusive marraige--has my wife fallen out of love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

27 May 2012 (M) - Hi my wife and I are in an abusive relationship. she hits me and throws screaming fits . She also also breaks down my self image verbally.I have in the past retaliated and verbally abused her in turn. Despite this when things are good they are ...

After 21 years, wife has found someone new and will go to counselling but wants to see him too!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

26 May 2012 (M) - Today is my 21st anniversary, we have 4 kids, we have never fought, and just 3 days ago I found out that my wife met someone on a trip with friends. She has seen him one other time since then, again on a trip with these friends, they've kissed ...

I told my husband I want to end the marriage and now he's acting all pitiful

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

26 May 2012 (F) - After being married for 12 years I've told my husband I can take it no more and I want out. He's been cheating which I found out and even after that I've put up for 3 years. We have 2 kids and I have been telling him since a year that I am not happy ...

My husband wants to bring another wife into our marriage!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

25 May 2012 (F) - My husband and I have been married for 13 years and have two children. I have severe Rheumatoid Arthritis that has required 17 surgeries. Our life has been stressful, because of the disease, but I try to stay focused on my husbands needs and even ...

Should I stay in an unhappy marriage for the sake of my son?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4603 days ago

24 May 2012 (F) - Hi everyone! Lately I’ve been thru a hard time with my husband (we’re not officially married, but living together for 3 years), we’re both 32 yo, we have a son together of 2 years old. We’re from different countries and currently living in South-...

He left me for a younger woman but he still expects me to be kind to him.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4598 days ago

23 May 2012 (F) - my husband left me for a girl that is 24 years younger than him.when i found out i was crushed, i saw no problems in our marriage. we both worked long hours, spent time together when we had days off. i cooked, cleaned, did yard work, layed his ...

Since I was 5 months pregnant husband checked out emotionally

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

22 May 2012 (F) - My husband and I got married 9 months ago, I was 4 months pregnant. I'm 20 and he is 28. When we first met, we had a passionate loving relationship. Once I started showing he didn't seem interested in sex anymore, we only had sex about 5 times since ...

I fantasize about other men during sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

22 May 2012 (F) - I fantasize about sleeping with other men when Im sleeping with my husband. It makes me sick just to type that. I really love him. We have dated on and off since highschool, and after a big break up in college he got really physical with mu...

I asked my husband to move out but he's acting in front of his visiting family like everything is just fine between us!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

22 May 2012 (F) - i have a controlling Husband trying to prove me wrong and put me down quite often - making jibes at me infront of the kids and not helping out at home generally. I work full time and look after home/ two kids. Etc. I warned him before that i had ...

I think my wife is lying about cheating on me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

22 May 2012 (M) - My wife and I maybe have sex 2 times a month and all of a sudden she feels way too loose ,so much so that i cannot stay erect and I know this is stupid but i asked her if she was using toys or if she was having sex with someone else ,her reply was ...

My husband keeps cards from his ex wife out in the open and hangs around with a psycho ex girlfriend claiming that they're "friends"! What is going on?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

22 May 2012 (F) - My husband and I have recently moved house, and we are still in the process of putting things away. Today, on a shelf in the den/study, where he had just put everything where he wanted it, there was this card in plain sight. It said,'To my husband', ...

My parents beat me, and now I try to push my husband to beat me. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4606 days ago

21 May 2012 (F) - Hi, I just need a little advice or whatever that can help me with this. I grow up in a disfunctional family. Im used to get beat from my parents physically and emotionally. Believe me its really hurt. It planted in my heart and in my soul. My eye...

My wife has guy friends and our sex life is terrible! should I give up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

21 May 2012 (M) - Hello All! Need some help with this one. My wife of 4.5 years wants to be able to spend the night at guy friends house. Heres the story, Throughout our relationship she has always had a close guy friend. Usually guys that will dote on h...

I feel unattractive compared to the women in porn my husband watches

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

20 May 2012 (F) - I love sex, especially with my husband. My husband is rarely in the mood. There is an age differance of 15 years, he is 26 and I'm 41. I would have sex everyday if I could. He likes watching porn on the internet. Which makes me feel awful, because I ...

I come home from my job and find my unemployed, porn-addicted but asexual to me, husband has done nothing but be on the computer!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4606 days ago

20 May 2012 (F) - i am married for nearly 20 years with 3 teenagers. my husband and i have grown apart. i am the breadwinner of the family as my husband is too lazy to work and refuses to help me around the house. although we have not had sex for 9 years due to his ...

Am I wrong not to buy my wife another vibrator?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4580 days ago

20 May 2012 (M) - Am I wrong not to buy my wife another vibrator? A few years ago I bought my wife a vibrator to spice things up in the bedroom. She was a bit hesitant at first but after a while she would regularly use it to finish herself off. As the months w...

I want a divorce and my wife doesn't!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4607 days ago

20 May 2012 (M) - my wife always fights with me even on small matters ....we are lived sepeart now and has a baby of 2 yr old lived with his mom...now i wants divorce but my wife does not wants it ...so what can i do now.....pls pls help me...

What game is my wife playing here?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4608 days ago

19 May 2012 (M) - After 14 years of marriage and 2 kids, my wife wanted a divorce. We have been separated for 14 months. Now after all this time she calls me and says that it takes 2 people to get a divorce, that I should have stood up to her and made us go to ...

When she watches porn it makes me feel I am not satisfying her. Is this the likely truth?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4606 days ago

19 May 2012 (M) - My wife chooses to watch a lot of porn and this upsets me, and as she knows this now she shuts screen down as soon as i come in the room. I tried to see if wants me to act like the pictures she watches,but she says no. Would her actions suggest she ...

Should I talk to his wife? Or just break with him? He has lied all the way

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

19 May 2012 (F) - I am in a relationship with a married man who is 20 years older to me. We met at work. He got transferred to our office from another branch. Initially we never really spoke much to each other, probably just say a good morning when we would pass by...

Is this fair? our relationship is over because I cheated over tens years ago!!! help!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4608 days ago

19 May 2012 (F) - How do I handle the fact of the man I have loved for 14 years wants to leave because of some things I did over 10 years ago. Even after him telling me that he love me and we were going to get through this together. Now it's I am inconsiderate, I do...

Family Feud and my husband is siding with his sister against me. What are my options?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1001 days ago

19 May 2012 (F) - I have had a very bad falling out with my sister in law. We never liked each other anyway but the last time I have seen her we had a massive disagreement. My husband sided with his sister against me which added to me being upset. Since then I have...

How would you handle a spouse that is self absorbed and not affectionate unless it directly benefits him

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

19 May 2012 (F) - My question is #1 When you love a person how do you cope with rejection and inconsideration? #2 How would you handle a spouse that is self absorbed and not affectionate unless it directly benefits him? Here is my situation I am still in love wi...

How can I get my hunny to enjoy more sexcapades with me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4606 days ago

19 May 2012 (M) - I am a 46m and me and wifey have stayed at a few swanky hotels to enjoy each other and have long awaited sex sessions due to kids at home.But when we get there it never fails I get real horny and she just wants to cuddle, WTF! So I go down stairs ...

Is it possible a man might be able to get an erection with one woman but never with another?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4609 days ago

18 May 2012 (F) - Hello there! I wonder ,if a man might be able to get an erection with one woman, but never with an other. I wonder,if my husband has sexual desire issues, but not really erection problems.. Does anybody here have psychological ED? Please tell me...

I agree I'm not mother of the year but what do I do now in this extremely messed up situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4609 days ago

18 May 2012 (F) - Almost three years ago I started what I would call an emotional affair with a man that I went to school with. I was 34 at the time and I am now 37. I have two children from a previous marriage and three with my current husband. We have been m...

How can my husband say he loves me when he is seeing someone else?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

17 May 2012 (F) - Here's my situation. I have been married for 13 yrs. Three out of these years my husband and I have been apart. He rented a house but still comes here and sleep at times. We have four kids. When I asked him where are we going with our lives he ...

I feel like I'm not getting a fair chance to be her husband.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

17 May 2012 (M) - My wife and I got married in No. of 2011 and recently bought our first house. Life is good. However recently Ive felt that things have changed with her. Im 31, shes 27, weve been together almost 3 years (we met in college but didnt get together till ...

How do I trust my husband to look but not touch? I'm so insecure since I gave birth to our daughter....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4611 days ago

17 May 2012 (F) - Why do I get so upset everytime my husband looks at another woman? Ever since I gave birth to our daughter I have been sensitive about how my body has changed. It has made me so depressed that I don't even want to go to the beach or anywhere in ...

Have I made the right decision to leave my cheating husband?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4609 days ago

16 May 2012 (F) - I have been married for 6 yrs and for the rest of the six yrs my husband has never be faithful. He had atleast 7 affairs just in one yr - dont ask me how he does it but yrs to an extend he was dating 4 other women at a go. He has never just once sho...

I'm sure I have many faults in this too, but it seems that I'm the only one who's making an effort to make this marriage work

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4611 days ago

16 May 2012 (F) - I'm having trouble with my marriage... My husband has been down in the dumps lately. He's not happy and neither am I. I don't exactly know where the problem lies, but there are a few issues with his job that seem the most likely. See, his job tak...

My husband can't say no to door to door salesmen and its driving me crazy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4612 days ago

16 May 2012 (F) - I am so frustrated w/my spouse. We don't agree with how to handle door-to-door salesmen. I prefer not to answer the door. It spares their feelings, and keeps them from wasting my time. My husband on the other hand cannot resist answering the do...

Do you reckon this man loves or respects me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4612 days ago

14 May 2012 (F) - We have been married for over 10 years and have 2 kids. My husband has always been very cut off from social circles and likes to keep to himself and my lifestyle has changed to match his. We both work full time and I earn more than him which he stat...

I have a great Girlfriend but still love my ex-wife

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

14 May 2012 (M) - I was married to the woman of my dreams and soul-mate for 8 years. We went through a long rough patch and she left. The rough part was a combination of; her daughter left for college, her mother died, we lost most of our savings and assets due to ...

I feel so disrespected by my husbands family.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4613 days ago

14 May 2012 (F) - I feel so disrespected by my husbands family. We went on a family vacation with them to the beach and all his mom did was point out women for my husband to look at right in front of my face. She would say, "Oh, look at her bathing suit. She's ...

Husband watches porn then lies about it!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4611 days ago

14 May 2012 (F) - What to do with husband lying about porn? Ok so..I'm married and have 2 kids. My husband has been lying to me about watching porn. Now the porn isn't really that big of a problem even though I don't care for it because it makes me feel insecure...

I feel like my wife is making more time for her mother than she is for us!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

14 May 2012 (M) - My wife and I got married in No. of 2011 and recently bought our first house. Life is good. However recently Ive felt that things have changed with her. Im 31, shes 27, weve been together almost 3 years (we met in college but didnt get together ...

I get excited by dumping women and crushing them emotionally... what can I do to fix it?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4606 days ago

14 May 2012 (M) - I'm married and I have a baby. I'm also very happy in my marriage and my wife is good looking etc. Yes, I've gone to prostitutes for a few years now, but only to get a physical release to substitute porn. Though, in recent years I've for some ...

Husband has lied in the past so am I wrong in not trusting him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4613 days ago

14 May 2012 (F) - my husband went out of town officially and met an old female batchmate after years. he invited her for dinner as she wanted to meet another male friend. all three are married now. but i felt bad as i was informed only after they all met at venue. my ...

How can I know is my husband cheating on me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4557 days ago

14 May 2012 (F) - How can I know is my husband cheating on me? Some advices, hints? I don't have money for a private investigator, though that would be the only thing that could pacify me. I feel something is going on, but he is too clever to leave the 'proofs'. What ...

What can I do to make my husband stop watching porn?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4613 days ago

13 May 2012 (F) - hi i just got marrried in feb of 2012 an i love my husband but i told many times to stop watching porn..i even cryed to him saying how much it hurts me ..i feel so derpressed now an he still dosent care..if its hurting me..an if not watching porn ...