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writes:my husband went out of town officially and met an old female batchmate after years. he invited her for dinner as she wanted to meet another male friend. all three are married now. but i felt bad as i was informed only after they all met at venue. my husband had lied to me about his past, so trust sometimes dwindles. i felt bad. am i over reacting? Reply to this Question
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reader, Starlights  +, writes (14 May 2012):
 Your not over reacting.
If your husband has lied to you before and not informed you of his activities now; its no wonder your angry.
Talk to him and tell him how he makes you feel.
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reader, carebare  +, writes (14 May 2012):
Honeypie is right.
He definitely should have given you a heads up though I wonder why he felt the need to lie to you about this to begin with. Do you usually stop him from seeing female friends or get easily jealous?
Just give him a little talk about how you both need to be open with each other. Encourage him to introduce his friends to you, and maybe have them bring along their spouses too.
Once you talk and get things off your chest, try to let it go. You'll only stress yourself out if you keep thinking about it and hopefully he'll remember not to do things like this in the future.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (14 May 2012):
 I think he was inconsiderate to not let you know before hand and maybe even given YOU the opportunity to met these ladies.
Trust is easily lost and hard to regain.
I would sit him down and explain how it makes you feel and how hard it really is to trust him.
But I also think you need to try not and over-analyze his every move and thinking he MUST be doing something wrong.
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