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Archived questions from: April, 2012 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

Husband putting oral sex above everything else.

This question has 44 answers - newest was posted 1509 days ago

30 April 2012 (F) - My husband and I have been married for 6 years, our sex life has always been great, but lately I feel that I am nothing more than a mouth for him. He wants oral sex everyday, and though I dont mind it, it seems that he has no emotions about it, no ...

He wants to move in asap, but no mention of marriage. If we move in now, will we still marry?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4587 days ago

30 April 2012 (F) - Hi there. My boyfriend of 2 years wants us to live together and I want to wait until we're married. I know for sure if I said let's move in together he would do it tomorrow but I have realised over the past month or two he's not exactly rushing ...

My husband's sex drive is completely different than mine. Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

30 April 2012 (F) - OK...where to begin... I'm 25 years old and newly married. My husband travels a lot with work, so we are separated for a good month at a time because he is always out of country. I can't tell you specifically what he does, but he is NOT in a posi...

I'm 22 weeks pregnant and I think he might be cheat on me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4584 days ago

29 April 2012 (F) - When I started a new job last June, I started a relationship with a man at work. Not the best timing since he was just at the beginning of ending his 12 year marriage. That being said, I guess I'm worried now. I've heard rumors of him cheating, and ...

My insecure wife constantly accuses me of looking at other women!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4158 days ago

29 April 2012 (M) - My wife and I have a problem. We have been together 8 years, we are mid 30's early 40's (I am 6 years younger), unable to have children after having multiple miscarriages. My problem is this; that every time we go out, be it the mall, supermarket, ...

Is it normal for a 28 year old man to lose interest in his wife after just 3 years?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

29 April 2012 (F) - This will be the second time that I have posted a question on this site, the last time was incredibly helpful for me! So here we go. Me and my husband have both just been discharged from the military, I was medically separated, he was honorably di...

After 18 years of marriage my husband told me about wanting a divorce through a solicitor and wont speak to me at all! How do I get through this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

27 April 2012 (F) - After 18 years of marriage and just 2 days before my 40th birthday I get an email from a solicitor to say my husband wants a divorce while I was away. We have had a rocky marriage for several years and I had gone away on a holiday, to encompass my ...

She said once we were married the sex would get better, but here I am a year later and she still does not want sex!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

27 April 2012 (M) - I've been married for about a year, and my wife only wants to have sex about once a week (if that). She has had minimal interest in sex since we first started seeing each other about three years ago. She has said she's just not that interested ...

We are not struggling financially but he threatened to divorce me over spending $10!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

27 April 2012 (F) - I've fallen ill lately, and I'm not just talking about the flu or something like that. I had a major surgery that came with the possibility of death. It's now been about a year, and I've been on bed rest for about 6 months after my surgery and now ...

I know the cheating is wrong, but I don't know how to stop

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4571 days ago

26 April 2012 (F) - i am married for almost 2 years with the man i really love and spend the rest of my life with. as time goes by, i felt rejected to him everytime i want to have sex with him. either he is tired from work and he has a habit of having a hard time to ...

My wife with another man, reality is quite different from fantasy.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

26 April 2012 (M) - Hello I am looking for some help. I had the fantasy of watching my wife having sex with someone else. I read about it, found that is not so unusual, so I talked to my wife about it. On first hand, she was extranged, since I am a very jelous man, but...

Viagra won't work without desire...any ideas for increasing my libido?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4373 days ago

26 April 2012 (M) - What could be a cause of that I dont care about sex anymore at all? I used to be very horny, and now, I dont even care for porn or any sexual contact with my wife? What could cause such a big change in me? I know,I'm asking, I should know better. ...

I am separating, but my male friend is dating someone else. Why won't he wait for me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4372 days ago

26 April 2012 (F) - Here is my story. I am in the process of separating from my husband. The separation is in the beginning stages. We are going forward with it but are in the process of selling our home. Hubby works in another city and is rarely home which makes it ...

My husband and I are not in love anymore but trying to work it out for our child, should I stay or follow my heart and be with the other man I love?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

25 April 2012 (F) - I have been married for about 6 years and am not in love with my husband anymore but am trying to work things out for our 2 year old daughter. I am in love with another man and have tried to stop communication with him but can not. The feelings take ...

Threesome gone wrong

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

25 April 2012 (F) - Hello everyone, I would really love some advice with my problem. You all have done greatly and I can not help but keep coming back here for more... So in advance thank you. Last week my husband and I came about to having a threesome. We both h...

My husband is a control freak and abusive but I love him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

24 April 2012 (F) - I have been married for two years now. My husband is a very controlling man and extremely domineering. He becomes jelous or angry at me for the most absurd reasons such as me hanging the clothes out to dry when his brother is in the backyard. (his ...

I need help to save my marriage!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

24 April 2012 (M) - Hi, I need help to save my marriage. I've been happily married for just under 4 years and with my partner for a total of 6 years and I have been terrible to her and caused her some god awful pain, pain she does not need as she is heavily pregnant...

Could I just be turned off from my wife?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

23 April 2012 (M) - Hello there. I need some opinion about my really disturbing problem. I have a ED , a few years ago. I went to the doctors, checked everything ,more than once, and Im perfectly healthy. So it does not make sense. But I never think of sex, not with ...

I found out my wife had an affair. 20 years of my marriage have been a lie

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4565 days ago

22 April 2012 (M) - Hi I need help I have been married 33 years and have just found out that the last 20 years have been a lie. 20 years ago she entered an affair whilst I was serving in the Army we had been married 11 years and have two children. I went to war and ...

Why is my husband being so secretive?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

22 April 2012 (F) - My husband and I have been together for 15 years. We have had our share of issues, as any other relationship, but nothing so serious we would consider separating. Recently, due to his work he had to move to another city while I stayed and continue...

My husband loves teen porn

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

22 April 2012 (F) - Hi, I have been married to my husband for 4 years. His a really good guy but looks at porn every day. The main issue is that it's teen porn. The girls in these sites look too young. In worried that it's a problem, especially since its everyday and ...

My husband has filed for divorce and doesn't want to work things out. Should I just accept it?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

21 April 2012 (F) - My husband of two years is in the process of divorcing me. I really don't want this to happen but he will not communicate with me any more. He said prior to him telling me that he was divorcing me that I was selfish and was always difficult putting ...

My wife says I need to calm down but sex is always on my mind!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

21 April 2012 (M) - I recently turned 46 and have had alot of sex on my mind. not only the act, but pics and videos to help me get off. My wife says Im too horny and need to calm down but I cant help it. I even watch porn with a buddy of mine to relieve the tention but ...

Should I divorce my husband? How would you feel about this?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4577 days ago

20 April 2012 (F) - Hello, I'm new to the site. I would like to see what others think of my situation. My husband does not come home to me from work. He goes to his parent's every single night for 2-3 hours after work. Yes that is Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday...

What kind of guys are likely to be interested in me? My husband wants a divorce. Feels tough right now.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

19 April 2012 (F) - Hi everyone need some positive advice. I have just turned 40 and my husband has left me and wants a divorce - we don't have any children. I am feeling numb and empty but we have had a bad marriage for a long time. However I am worried that I a...

Can you please help me understand this insecure man?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

19 April 2012 (F) - I've been with this guy 4 years and have had a child together, who's almost 3. At first he always accused me of cheating then it went away for years. Last Saturday I went to work at a fundraiser for my daughter's school to build a new play...

She wont commit to leaving her husband for me, should I keep trying or leave her once and for all?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2951 days ago

19 April 2012 (M) - Hello. For past six months I have been in affair with colleague from work. We are both married, none of us has kids but her husband is often away for couple of months. Things between us developed pretty fast and we soon realised that this is more ...

My husband doesn't like my breasts and prefers smaller ones!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

19 April 2012 (F) - My husband does not like my breasts. Whilst I am a dd cup he prefers smaller breasts. I am not prepared to undergo surgery however this is really undermining my self confidence with him as I feel self conscious. Knowing that he loves me and marr...

My parents want me to be married at age 18. How can I if I'm a lesbian?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4569 days ago

18 April 2012 (F) - i live with my family and i m only 16,my parents want me to get married wen i will be 18 but i do not want to get married! i have no choice,no where to go! if i leave the house i will have no hope to lead my life but if i get married to a boy i ca...

My wife says that I need to chose either her or my family!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

18 April 2012 (M) - My wife and I have been married for 6 years. She has 3 children from a previous marriage. I love them dearly. My wife thinks that my family hasnt shown them love. I will say my mom has told the kids that she would do things with them and it has ...

Should we swing with our friends?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

18 April 2012 (M) - A few months ago I asked for advice about me and my wife having a 3some with my best friend.The opinion was that it was a no no,so me and my wife shelved it and decided that if we do try it we will book a hotel and a pro male escort to 'test the ...

How is it possible to find out the cause of my husband's impotence?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

18 April 2012 (F) - How is it possible to find out the cause, of my husband's impotence? He is unable to maintain an erection, and he says due to this he lost his sexual desire. So now, he has erectile dysfunction, and total loss of sexual desire at the last few ...

Husband of three months is pressuring me to live somewhere I don't care to be

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

17 April 2012 (F) - i have been with my husband for 10 months and married for 3. just recently we have both lost our jobs and we are in a right mess. before i met him i was very independent, had a good job, good car and savings. now i have nothing and he has dragged me ...

I think my wife is getting too friendly with her college friend. Am I over reacting?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

17 April 2012 (M) - I don't consider it cheating, but I certainly think it's inappropriate behavior and my wife thinks otherwise. My wife and I are married for quite a few years. I (we) paid for her to go to college and when our kids started being in school all day s...

How do I cope with my sexless marriage?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

17 April 2012 (M) - Alright, since my last question turned into a "what are you doing?" response page...I'll add more to my question. My wife and I have two sets of twins (11 yo girls, 7 yo boys) and we nearly have a sexless mariagge. She and I met when I was ...

My wife has changed, she's become so cold hearted and to make it worse I find out she's lied about her sexual past! Am I crazy or should I feel hurt?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

17 April 2012 (M) - Please anyone give me advise ...I'm hurting more than I ever have in my life, so here's my story I'm 30 years old married 5 years and together 6 years. we have 3 kids two she had from a former marriage but the dad was a deadbeat, thug, gangster in ...

My husband is getting more and more controlling of my appearance

This question has 34 answers - newest was posted 3151 days ago

17 April 2012 (F) - First, it was the clothing: dresses, skirts, tights, blouses. I'm not allowed jeans, trainers, flipflops, T-shirts, track suits. I'm barely allowed tasteful trousers. Then, it was telling me how much jewellery I can wear. Then, it was th...

I'm tired of feeling guilty for wanting sex all the time!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 2702 days ago

17 April 2012 (M) - Wife and I are in a nearly sexless relationship. We have two sets of twins that drive her near insanity, both work full time, and, obviously I want sex way more than she does. I masturbate a lot, but it's not the same as the real thing. She has ...

My friend stares at my wife, and she tends to touch him and dress sexily when he is around, yet I know she dislikes him as a person! What should I make of all this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

16 April 2012 (M) - Hello people ! My problem is a bit complex. me and my wife are happily married for 10yrs and love each other a lot.I also have a good friend whom we both have known since childhood. Often he comes to our home with his wife and kid for dinner. But ...

What is the best way to get divorce without a lawyer?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

16 April 2012 (F) - I can’t take my husband anymore he uses my parents as a tool. Anytime he wants to hurt me he disrespects them, not in front of them. I talked to him tonight and said that I will leave he said that is fine and do whatever you want. He doesn’t think ...

I don't think my husband is cheating but we don't have sex very often - he says he is too tired from work What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

16 April 2012 (F) - I don’t think that my husband is cheating (though he has before - and so have I) but we don’t have sex very often. My husband and I are both in our middle 40's and sex began to slow down somewhat a few years ago. We usually have sex two or three...

My husband hasn't touched me in 1.5 years and I have no idea why!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

16 April 2012 (F) - Basically my husband hasn't touched me in over 1 1/2 years. . I feel like his best friend - his roommate - sometimes I have been so depressed because I constantly feel rejected. I'm scared to reach out to him because I know I'll be rejected...

Husband accusing me of cheating when he had said we were seperated and could do what we wanted!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

16 April 2012 (F) - My husband has cheated numerous times during our marriage. Most recently I became suspicious and recorded a female voice in the house while I was at work. He will not admit to having a woman in the house but he admits to previous activities. I ...

My wife has one foot out the door. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

14 April 2012 (M) - I feel my wife of 20 years has one foot out the door. Over the last year or so she has developed a lot of her own friendships, started going out a lot, and when we go out with others, she has become quite the party girl- bouncing from one person to ...

20 something guy is interested and calling my wife. How should I handle this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4602 days ago

13 April 2012 (M) - I think I need to run some marriage interference? Protection? Not sure how to put it. My wife and I are both in our late 30's. Married almost 20 years, we got married shortly after high school. We have 3 wonderful children and love each other ...

Husband of 20 years suddenly going to strip clubs. What is up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

13 April 2012 (F) - My husband of twenty years has recently started to go to strip clubs and bars while out of town for work. His work buddies have lots of stories to tell that involve the other guy doing something wrong but not them. They have each blamed the other ...

My husband cheating while I'm pregnant and wants to continue to cheat!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4585 days ago

13 April 2012 (F) - Hi to all of u. Me(23years) and my husband(40years). I am pregnant 8 moths and 1 or 2 weeks.will be giving birth soon. I am going to tell what happened. My mom came to stay with me and my husband to help me when i give birth with baby kaitlyn ...

I arranged to go away with husband but now he is hedging about me going!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4602 days ago

13 April 2012 (F) - Several months ago my husband invited me to attend an out of town meeting with him, in another city for a week. He has invited me lots of times because it's like a mini-vacation. I enjoy the hotel gym, the pool, and go shopping while he's in ...

How do I get my wife to see a dentist?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

12 April 2012 (M) - Hi, My wife has really stained teeth. I'd like her to get them looked at but don't know how to broach the subject. She could also do with flossing more but doesn't. How do I get her to a dentist?...

My husband wants a divorce almost every week!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

12 April 2012 (F) - I apoligize in advance for the length of this.. I hope to give you enough information for fair advise. I have issues with my son (17) and my husband (his stepfather).. we have been married for almost 8 years now. it's always been somewhat of a str...