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Archived questions from: January, 2011 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

I think I deserve better than what I'm getting!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5069 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - So my husband and I will be married for a year in March but we have been together for four years! We have a huge age difference! He is 40 while I am 23 mind you that he does not look a day over 30! My friends thought I was absolutely crazy but I was ...

My husband has delusional thoughts of me

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - My husband has delusional thoughts of me. He asks certain questions and twists them into something totally different. He has always done this. He has always thought i am cheating on him, that i have or will. I cant stand defending myself against ...

Why do I want group sex so bad?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

31 January 2011 (M) - My wife and i have been happily married for 16 years and have 2 good kids, we tried the group thing with some friends but my wife does not want to do it again. I, on the other hand i loved it and want to try it again. I can tell the different be...

He makes me feel like I'm his mother or his household help!

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31 January 2011 (F) - I'm having a hard time with my husbandhe's 25. He's failed at so many things in his life. I've been with him for 2years but known him for 4years. Ever since after his A levels. He flunked and i was there for him. I tried applying for him at colleges ...

Am I crazy for staying?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5070 days ago

31 January 2011 (M) - My wife and I share 2 gorgeous children and we are coming up to 12 faithful years together. Over the past fortnight she has revealed to me that she has fallen for a female work colleague. My wife has had a very sordid past with many men and women. I ...

Why does he make excuses to avoid sex with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - my husband of 8 years doesnt last longer than 5 minites when we have sex,i tried talking to him but nothing works.It's like before he starts 4play hes already thinking about him cuming.his 4play will only take 2-3 minutes. I told him this is not ...

I find it hard to focus on my husband because of all mess and find myself thinking of this other man all the time....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - Hi I am a women in my late thirties with two young children, I have been married for twelve years, during this time my husband has ended our relationship twice, once as a trial separation, then for good. This was a very difficult time for me, but ...

3 years after husband walks out, I still grieve, when does it stop?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - Hi, I was with supposedly the "love of my life" for 32 years. In 2008, I found out he was having an affair. He left my son and I for 2 months, and then returned, stayed for 3 months, kept seeing the other person and then left again. I have not seen ...

Fell in love, married, had children, & struggled with monogamy. Now the wife wants to leave. Why are we doing this to our kids?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

30 January 2011 (M) - Is "male nature" setting us back again? No where in the animal kingdom do we see monogamy more prominent as we see it in human nature. Or is monogamy just something woman have come to believe as true? I, like most men, fell in love with a beautifu...

Do I end things with my husband? My son is starting to show the damage

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - Hi I have bogged before my Husband I have been together nearly three years. At the start he cheated on me was tight with money would not bother with my children as he dis not see his. My 9 year old Son saw me cry whilst pregnant and worried terribly ...

Stuck in a viscious cycle of arguing with my husband

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - I am a married mother of two toddlers, married for 6 years. My husband and I are stuck in a viscious cycle of blame and arguing. We have a multitude of problems... mostly I think it stems from lack of good communication, and stress, but I am at a ...

I'm tired of my husband acting like a teenager! Is it time to leave?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - Hello, First off, I've been married 20 years. For the most part its been a good relationship. However, there's been issues of him isolating me from my friends throughout the whole marriage. If I do go out which is probably 15 times in 20 year...

My wife's male friend told her he loved her and she ask me what to do!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

30 January 2011 (M) - My wife of 8 years with two kids asked me what she should do about her male friend who told her he love her. He said he knows she is married and she can't help him, but he can't stop thinking about her. He loves to talk the whole day with her. ...

I'm worried my husband will cheat on his business trip. How can I learn to trust him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - My husband had sex with a prostitute while on a business trip, and once he returned he confessed to me and said he is guity. However, I cannot come to terms with this yet. It's been 2 years, he has been avoiding going to business trips, but now he c...

My confusion and lack of trust had made my husband consider leaving me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - I've been with my husband for nearly 22 years, most of those perfectly happy. He changed careers which meant I saw him less (works most weekends) and he had less money which meant I took over a lot of bills. The job has made him come out of himself ...

Can I just let go and trust in our love?

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30 January 2011 (F) - So, my husband travels for work and sometimes we don't see each other up for 6 months at a time. He always has some woman he is talking to. He's not dating. Noone is having sex. But it worries and frightens me. I trust that he is physically ...

Is there such a thing as addiction to dating, chatting or adult web sites?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

30 January 2011 (M) - Can anyone tell me is there such a thing as addiction to dating,chat or adult sex sites? I will be leaving my wife tonight after finding yet another active profile of hers. This has been happening for around 4 years. Countless break ups,she always ...

Concerned about fiance's relationship with a co-worker

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

30 January 2011 (M) - I just found out that my fiancee has been more than a little friendly with a married male work colleague. I always assumed their chats were fairly innocent seeing as they didn't communicate that often. But I did some snooping and I was shocked at ...

Cheating and the Internet...A Wife's Perspective

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3531 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - Recently, I discovered that my husband had been looking at personal ads on the internet. And, not only was he looking, he was emailing responses. I’m sure you all know the ones I am talking about. The “casual encounters,” section of a popular ...

He cheated, I got pregnant, stayed for the children, and now I want out!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - My husband had a four year affair early in our marriage. By the time I had enough confidence in myself to leave him I found out I was pregnant. 15 years later, I no longer want to stay married. His family stated that I don't have the right to leave ...

Husband will not talk to me, just wants a divorce but said he saw things about me that he didn't like

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - I am married and my hb and I are separated, we talked about divorced already and that's coming soon. One month ago I sent him a email telling if there is anything that I can do to save our married, and he replayed saying not because there are a lo...

Now we only have sex once or twice for 5 minutes!

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29 January 2011 (F) - My husband and I have been together a year and 8 months and married 6 of those months...we've been going through financial problems once we got married and I've noticed the last couple of months we have started to not have as much sex, I know sex ...

Is my wife still sexually attracted to me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4136 days ago

29 January 2011 (M) - My wife and I have been married for 13 years, and I love her with all of my heart. I'm more attracked to her now than when we first got married. However, I don't think that she's all that attracked to me anymore. Our sex life sucks. I want it al...

Married 5 years, still virgins, help!

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4883 days ago

29 January 2011 (M) - This year I will celebrate my 5 year wedding anniversary. Unfortunately, my wife and I are still virgins. I love her with all of my heart. People that know us think we have the most wonderful, romantic relationship. Love letters every morning before ...

Is it wrong to try and not love him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - I've been having issues with my husband of 2years. I've been sleeping in another room for the last 3 nights. The maid had to work early today so i moved back into the bedroom i played on the computer for a bit being tired i went into our bed he just ...

Sometimes I feel as if I have a room mate and NOT a wife!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

29 January 2011 (M) - Me and my wife have been married for 4 years and I have had lost my job and we had a baby and I have noticed that lately she has lost interest in sex, she has worked a lot more hours the last few months but here lately been saying I have a headache ...

"You can tell how people will have sex by the way they dance", and my husband said I am a terrible dancer.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

28 January 2011 (F) - Recently my husband and I have been having issues. He completely ignores me and only has mean things to say to me when he speaks unless we are doing ok. He does not talk things out to work them out with me. I let him throw his fit for a few days, me ...

Should I leave, so she can find someone who will make her happier? Don't want to lose the love of my life!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

28 January 2011 (M) - I have been with my wife for 9 years, married for 3. I love her like no other and we have 3 boys together. About 4 months ago, we really had problems. I got so depressed and turned to trying to kill myself, but by the grace of god and my loving ...

My ex-wife is dating someone else....and its too hard for me to accept this

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

28 January 2011 (?) - I recently found out my ex wife is dating. We were separated for a year and the divorce was just finalized. It was amicable and mutual. I've been working on returning to a sense of myself, healing and planning for the future. I thought I had mo...

My husband gets his family involved with everything when I only want his opinion! How do I handle this situation?

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28 January 2011 (F) - i am away from my husband for my delivery since last 3 months.right now in my house.i ve a step mother. i feel lonely in the house as nobody is there for me to share something.my relatives are taunting as some are angry with some family prolems with ...

Younger husband wants to have a baby even though I am 48 with tubes tied and had major back surgery

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

28 January 2011 (F) - My husband is from another country he has just finally arrived in the U.S. about 10 months now, before we got married he said he wanted children, but I told him my tubes where tide and not sure if I wanted more, but I love him and I know he would be ...

Should I continue waiting for my married lover, or am I being taken for a ride?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

27 January 2011 (M) - Greetings All! I have worked with this person for two years and have always had a mutual great feeling. We began an active relationship last year. I was in process of a divorce, but the feelings for her were very real and true. She put forth the ...

Baring my soul here after my life changed drastically. How do I salvage my marriage?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - Hi - I'm very curious to hear people's responses please. My husband and I have been together 14 years (Im now early 30s -he's mid 30's). I realize now that I met him at a very vulnerable time in my life. I needed a lot of attention and I was just...

My husband is hot tempered and abusive. Please give me advice!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - Please help me. I got married 5 months ago. My husband is easily angered, abuses me, and sometimes he physically beats me in the process. He can be happy when he is happy, but can be very very angry when he is not. During courtship, I didn't ...

How many girlfriends should I have before I marry?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

27 January 2011 (?) - iam looking for a girl who will be my wife.so before i marry ,how many girlfriends should i have? should i be trusting her? ...

Is it wrong of me to expect that my husband spend time with me on the few Sunday's that I'm free?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - Hi, Im. 25 yrs old and married for 2 yrs and been together for 8 yrs . Im a doctor and have a a very hectic life . My husband has always been the guy who likes his alone time , and " space " . I get about a sunday or two free in a month rest of ...

Sex has stopped after we got married, is this because I cant give him a baby? Or is he just not into me anymore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5058 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - I been having this problem for almost 3 years, its about me and my husband. We used to be sexually active when we were bf and gf but, when we got married we hardly had any sex at all. He tried getting me pregnant but with no luck. So everytime i ask ...

Marriage is falling apart. Should I start seeing someone else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - I've been with my husband for 5 years now. We've been living together for 2 years. Daily i cook, clean, take care of our daughter, study, and run a number of mini businesses. I barely have time to myself because i'm so busy with a lot of things. ...

My husband wants a quick divorce but then why does he call me every day and talk?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - my husband left me almost a month ago said he didnt love me and that he wanted to be friends after the divorce and then maybe more, i dont know about all of that but he acts as if he doesnt know if he is sure of himself or if he isnt,my mom and ...

Husband wants me to get a boyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4243 days ago

27 January 2011 (?) - Hi all, I am happily married for over 20 years, with children. My husband is great in bed, he can make me come several times a night and I have no further need for anything else. Problem is, he wants to explore the wilder side of sex, and since I...

Unfaithfulness on both our parts, Do I stay or go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - I have been to my husband for 4 1/2 married for 1 1/2 years, we were good friends for four years before we started dating. I have two children from a previous relationship who know him as there father and don't know anything else. During our four ...

Does my husband have the right to be upset about a one night stand when we were separated?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - I'm so confused and need some advice. Let me start out by saying I am married, I love my husband and I have no intention on leaving him. Basically my question right now is does my husband have the right to be mad and upset at me for having a one ...

Married to a dream man but I don't love him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

26 January 2011 (F) - I am 33 years old.I have been married to a man 7 yrs older than me for 14 yrs.We moved in together just weeks after dating because I needed a place to live.We have never had much in common and were never really friends.Now we have 3 kids and a ...

If I give my married lover an ultimatum is it likely that she will leave her impotent husband for me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

26 January 2011 (M) - I'm a 25 year old male, and have been in love for 1 yr with a married woman aged 26. She has been married for 3 years and never had sex with her husband, because her husband is impotent and even denies he has a problem, and considers not having sex ...

I have no concrete proof, but I feel he is cheating.......

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

26 January 2011 (F) - I dont know where to start. I am married for almost 5 years (in March). Early in our relationship, of all people, our dog groomer kept sending texts to my husband saying she could groom our dog but didnt want money for it (wink wink) then emailed ...

My wife now earns more than me and blame me contributing less

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

26 January 2011 (M) - We are together for 8 years(4 before and 4 after marrage). She was a student when we met. We had the most wonderful relation before marriage and until we have our daughter. Till then my income was the only financial source. Though it was not enough ...

Should I walk away and hope he finds someone on one of his dating sites?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

26 January 2011 (F) - My partner and i parted at the beginning of the year, it was i who ended it, as i felt we couldn't carry on anymore as we were. He and i have 2 kids and he now lives with his mum. There were many issues relating to us splitting. Far too many to ...

Trying to get over my wife's affairs, but every time I dream I see her with other men......

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

26 January 2011 (M) - I am 45 year male married past 21 years My wife had 2 affairs in recent times when i was away on tours One with my friend and other with some internet man She said it was emotional thing which somehow eneded on bed She say now everything closed ...

I need an outsiders prospective...Does my husband just want out of this marriage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

26 January 2011 (F) - I have been married to my husband almost 5 years, and been with him for almost 12 years. Up until 10 days ago, if anyone would have asked, I would have told them that I have a very happy marriage. But that all changed. My husband blows up on me o...

Is my wife still attracted to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

26 January 2011 (M) - Me and my wife have been married about 2 years now and we have a beautiful baby girl. However recently our sex life seems to have plummeted. Nowadays I can be romantic and seduce her, or I can come close to begging, yet she rarely ever will accept ...