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*amabibbit85
writes:I have been to my husband for 4 1/2 married for 1 1/2 years, we were good friends for four years before we started dating. I have two children from a previous relationship who know him as there father and don't know anything else. During our four years together we have been through a lot, we have lost a baby when he was three months old, there has been infidelity on both our parts, he joined the military and signed a six year contract without even telling me about it. I am misrible and I am unhappy in the marriage. I believe he is also but neither of us want to admit it, in fear of hurting one another. My question is do I stay and try to work things out for the kids or do I go? Is this relationship even fixable?
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reader, mamabibbit85 +, writes (27 January 2011):
mamabibbit85 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you. I am goign to looking into counseling. I think we really need it and it is our last chance. If after, there is no change at least I will know I didn't give up without trying everything possible.
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reader, HelpyMcHelperson  +, writes (27 January 2011):
I think that the only way your marriage could be considered fixable is if you act fast, I know councelling isn't an option many find appealing but it can produce some great results. The key thing you need to do, for better or worse, is communicate. If you manage to get communicating again where you should go from there will eventually become apparent.
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