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writes: iam looking for a girl who will be my wife.so before i marry ,how many girlfriends should i have? should i be trusting her? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2011): Perhaps in your country Dirtball but here in Ireland it's 47.
OP as many as you want. There is no rule, in fact some women would prefer if they were your first everything.
But it's all down to luck, the very first girlfriend might end up your wife or your 47th will be.
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (27 January 2011):
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reader, Illithid +, writes (27 January 2011):
 Could be 1st or 50th, just make sure she's really the right one and you aren't just settling for the first willing girl that's "good enough". Without some dating experience, it's hard to tell the difference between true lifelong love and an infatuation with someone bad for you. But if you trust her and your instinct about her, then you don't have to date some magic number of girls.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (27 January 2011):
 I didn't know there was a rule for how many girlfriends you should have before marrying. Everything is allowed, you date a girl and if the first one you date turns out to be the one you want to marry then go ahead and marry her. The only reason people date is to find a partner that matches them. If you meet the right person at your first try then consider yourself lucky. There's no need to date many others before getting married. As long as you are happy that's all that matters.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2011): It's not abut how many, it could be your first girl friend, or your 20th, its about being in love wanting to marry them and when are ready for marriage of course.
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reader, its ok  +, writes (27 January 2011):
It dosent matter how many girlfriends you have before you marry,as long as you know what you are looking for in a woman and you are ready for marriage,then go look for her-you might find that your first girlfriend indeed turns out to be right for you or it might take several tries but don't give up and remember that you go through ups and downs to make you stronger and wiser.Get to know the girl and after 2 or 3 months,if she hasn't given you any reason to doubt her,then yes it is important to trust her,relationships are difficult without trust
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