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Archived questions from: June, 2010 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

My wonderful wife won't indulge mild foot fetish. Any ideas why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

30 June 2010 (M) - I have a bit of a foot fetish. It's not excessive, I just like to see my wife barefoot, and enjoy it when she occasionally rubs her feet on my penis. My wife knows all of this, and isn't opposed to any of it, but she never indulges me. I've told ...

Questions about cheating and ex-wives and other things.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

30 June 2010 (M) - Maybe you can help me interpret these remarks made by my Ex-wife. It has bothered me and I know I should just leave it alone but still, I would like to know. When your Ex tells you that their new Man is the best ever (cheating partner turned new BF) ...

It seems to me that we will never change our men. Take them as they are.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

30 June 2010 (F) - I have been reading everyone’s posts and I am new to this but it has helped me already and I feel my husband is not as bad as some. I have been married for 20 years and I have a daughter with cystic fibrosis. This has caused an immense strain on our ...

Is she just using me as a comfort provider?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

30 June 2010 (M) - I am a 66 year old male married to a woman 15 years younger,our relationship is becoming more and more strenuous.The main reasons are money and our sex life when it comes to money I feel that she spends way beyond her means.For exsample $2200.00 on ...

I dreamt I kissed another man, and the same night my husband dreamt about me cheating!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

30 June 2010 (F) - i had a dream a couple of nights ago that i kissed a friend that i fancy, my husband also had a dream the same night that i might go off with someone else now i cant stop thinking about my friend, plus he lives in the same close as us. what should i ...

My husband feels more like a friend to me than a lover, and now I have met someone else....

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

30 June 2010 (F) - I am 31 and have been married for 7-years. Our relationship is good – we talk, laugh and generally get on well. The problem is that I feel we are more friends than lovers and for the last 4-years we have not had sex. 6-weeks ago, I met another man ...

My husband chooses porn over sex!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

30 June 2010 (F) - i am 24 years old and i've been with my husband for nearly 3 years. when we met i knew he liked porn, but it wasnt a problem for me at that time because we were having sex. but soon i became pregnant and the sex stopped. Even long after having my ...

I'm scared of sex and getting married soon!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

30 June 2010 (F) - Okay so I am 18 and I'm getting married soon. The problem is that I'm a virgin and I am scared to have sex. I have always thought of sex to be disgusting and I even tried to get over it by watching anime porn but I couldn't bring myself to do so. ...

Husband doesn't last long during sex and its my fault

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

30 June 2010 (F) - Hello everyone, Once before I have come to you for advice or answers. Yet again I need more. Forgive me, and thank you. Firstly my husband and I have had many problems in our sex life. He does not last long and I feel as if it is my fault. In th...

My husband wants to go down on a man.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

29 June 2010 (F) - My husband wants to go down on a man. He has never done this before, but admits he has fantasized about it and just wants to try it to see what the hype is about. He doesn't want to try anal with a man or anything like that. Also, he wants to watch ...

My new husband is not interested in sex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

29 June 2010 (F) - We got married after few months of dating and now it's been 5 months since we got married. We used to have sex but I was the one to provoke it. Even in the first month of our marriage he liked to have it just once in 1-2 weeks. I always thought ...

Why does my husband want to gangbang me with another guy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2778 days ago

29 June 2010 (F) - so, i have been with my husband for a little over a yr and we've been married for 4 months of that year. i know...we moved way too fast...but i am also 8 months pregnant... anyways, i've always known my husband has always wanted to try the whole sw...

Emotionally isolated in marriage - the husband's fate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

29 June 2010 (M) - This is a question for married women I suppose. How can ur husband express his emotions, lead a full emotional life, w/o u losing attraction for him? I live a life like many husbands. My wife has many girlfriends, at work, in the neighborhood, fr...

How do I lovingly get my introverted husband to come with me to this wedding?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5258 days ago

29 June 2010 (F) - My husband never wants to come out with my friends. I have never forced him anytime. He takes me out and all that. No issues with that. We are totally different people. One of my friends wedding is coming up. I am friends with the entire family. He ...

Tortured with the thought of my wife's sexual past

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

29 June 2010 (M) - I am dealing with the common problem of having married a woman who had a sordid (my opinion) past. By age 24 she had over 35 sexual partners varying from a 2 year relationship to blow jobs in a club parking lot with strangers. I am conservative by ...

My wife lets on that mine's not big enough

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

29 June 2010 (?) - My wife had sex sometime before we were married to a guy with a very large penis and has let it slip a few times that mine does not measure up. How do I keep from letting this affect our sex life?...

My wife is suddenly associating with her ex. I can't stand him.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

28 June 2010 (M) - All marriages have their troubles. All of a sudden, my wife has started talking to her ex again. She knows I can't stand him. She has gone out with him and his friends on several occasions lately. She claims it's always a group and she's never ...

My Husband left me 8 weeks ago and I still want him back

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

28 June 2010 (F) - We have been together for 9 years and married for 3 ,He moved out 4 weeks ago into a flat so i could move back in the house, he has suffered with depression in the past and has ups/down mood swings etc Since the beginning of this year ...

The only thing that arouses him is thinking about threesomes!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

28 June 2010 (F) - i have been together with my husband for 8 years, married for 2. we have 2 children, 1 from a previous relationship. in the first years of our relationship he suggested a threesome so i tried it, part of me enjoyed it part of me didnt, i used to ...

I have been putting up with my wife's nonsense for far too long!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

28 June 2010 (M) - I met this beautiful girl i thought i loved, adored and cherish, would do absolutely anything for her... worst decision of my life. even during our 1st years we had fights and arguments. But always thought it resulted due to her past experiences in ...

My wife has cheated and claims to be trying to change but I'm not sure how to handle this!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

28 June 2010 (M) - my wife and i have been married for 6 years, about a year ago she found out i had been lying to her about a drug add. we moved into my dad's free home to get away from area. i lost my work do to economy (contractor). she went back to work at ...

I don't mind my husband watching porn but I feel so disappointed in what I have found on our PC

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

28 June 2010 (F) - My husband of 50 resently got this sick mind of watching the music DVD of "Cameltoe" over and over everytime im at work. On our pc at home i found on the history that he was watching it just after he woke up (he was working nigh shift)at 10H25 and ...

How long does it take for a man to get over their midlife crisis?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

28 June 2010 (F) - can anyone tell me how long it takes for a man to get over a midlife crises and why do they walk out on theyre wives for a much younger uglier female than their actual wife...

My wife and I are currently separated, and I don't know who is in the wrong!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5259 days ago

28 June 2010 (M) - Ok, i need help... my wife and i are in our first seperation, and i have no clue whos right or wrong or what to do. We have been married for 2 years and we only knew each other a year before. I absolutely hate to say this but we had a shotgun ...

I don't want to share my husband

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

27 June 2010 (F) - I have been married for 24 years I love my husband and he loves me. He has become unhappy in the last three years stating he no longer wants to be in a relationship. But he still loves me as much as when we married. Recently he has developed ...

I accidentally told my husband's family that he abused me and now everythings messed up, how can I fix this?

This question has 106 answers - newest was posted 5246 days ago

27 June 2010 (F) - Hi. My husband recently has gotten a little physcally abusive, and has forced blow jobs on my a couple of times when he was drunk.. I guess I wanted to get it off my chest, but I was just going to deal with it. I already forgave him. But then las...

I want a divorce, but I know he won't accept it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

27 June 2010 (F) - Hello I want to leave my husband, i dont love him anymore (we dont have children and we're under 30) but I'm very scared of his reaction and our families, I want to know if I choose to hide for sometime will i have problems with the law? it is ilega...

Rarely care for sex since married

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

27 June 2010 (M) - I have been married for 10 years. Before marriage sex life was outstanding (with others). Now I rarely want to do it. When we do have sex, it usually ends in a failed erection. I am pretty sure a large part of my problem is mental. Is it something ...

My wife has been having an affair, I want his name and details

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

26 June 2010 (M) - My wife was caught having an affair by his wife, a couple of days later I caught her out, she admitted it and said she didn't love me anymore, she has since changed her mind but refuses to give any details about the affair, I have said as a minimum ...

My wife had sex with her cousin and wants a divorce

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

26 June 2010 (M) - My wife a couple months ago found out her cousin on the other side of the country had cancer and wanted to go see him. Well they were never close but I didnt understand why but I let her go, she came back a week later and started fighting afterwar...

I am starved of romance in my marriage

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

26 June 2010 (F) - I've dated my hubby for a really long time and got married last year.he,s perfect. Does everything a husband should do. Provides for me, helps me out as best as he can with everything and anything, he genuinely loves me I know, The problem is he is...

I'm starved of physical affection in my marriage, help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5261 days ago

How much do you have to have in common with your partner to stay married

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5262 days ago

25 June 2010 (F) - We’ve been married for almost 6 years and have been together for 9 years. I was really young(19) when we met. And now I’m realising that we are SO different and I know marriage is all about comprising and we do that as much as we can. But how much ...

Are they working together or working each other?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

25 June 2010 (F) - I have been married for 5 years and we have a daughter that just turned 4. I recently found out about a relationship that he has been having with another woman. He reposesses cars for a living so he is often out all night and all day long. This ...

My husband wants an open marriage, I don't

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

25 June 2010 (F) - my husband after 7 years of marriage wants and open marriage meening he wants to ahve sex with other women and i CAN HAVE SEX WITH OTHER MEN IM NOT OK WITH THAT WHAT DO i DO?...

Meeting with husband after separation, not sure how to handle it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

25 June 2010 (F) - I have been separated from y husband for 5 weeks now, due to his excess drinking. He has been working away and not been prepared to communicate. He has just called to say he has landed and we are meeting up tomorrow so i can pass on his mail etc....

I'm confused about who I am and what I want. I am angry and depressed.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

25 June 2010 (F) - I think i suffer from depression. I was bullied a lot at school, and even though it was a long time ago, i still havent got over it. I'm also not sure what i want to do for a career. I also feel weird compared to other people in my age group. ...

He trades pictures with women and masterbates too often to be intimate with me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

25 June 2010 (F) - my longtime boyfriend masterbates so often now it is getting in the way of our sex life, he is using porn to view other females and i have found pictures of him in the act on his computer, he said he did trade some with some ladies but never met any ...

In the three years since the baby she's lost all motivation

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

25 June 2010 (M) - I've been married for 3 years and we have been together for 6 years. We have 2 children together and she has 3 of her own. Here's my question. Since our daughter was born (3 years ago) my wife has no motoviation to do anything. She won't clean ...

How can I get my husband to stop being so emotional about money and our finances??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

24 June 2010 (F) - My husband gets very emotional when it comes to finances. He's not very good with handling money - he doesn't spend excessively, he just doesn't focus on how much he has and doesn't make plans or schedules. He's been this way for as long as I can ...

Amnesia stole four years of my life and what I am learning of my boyfriend now, is not promising.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

24 June 2010 (F) - right this is quite complicated and long so please bear with me i need advice. In April of this year i ended up in hospital having had a seizure, it turned out i had a small blood clot on my brain. the main side effect was that i got retro grade ...

I do not want to play second fiddle!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

24 June 2010 (F) - Hello - i am new here, i am going through a very complicated situation and i need advice. I know this seems so wrong but i really need constructive comments. We met four years ago and we always get along very well but as we do not live in the same...

My ex is blackmailing me with threats to my family.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

24 June 2010 (F) - Hi , Iam from India and recently got married it was an arranged marraige , but before marraige i had a boy friend but later part i felt that he is getting things done out of blackmiling me , (he had some photos where we were togather ) and i...

How should I handle all the cheating in my marriage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

24 June 2010 (F) - After i forund out that he was cheating i decided that i should try to work it out first b4 walking away,he suggested that we get a neutral person whom we can talk to like therapy, i agreed.The following week he gave me money and told me to go and ...

Should a blow the whistle on an affair?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

24 June 2010 (F) - I've known for a couple of months now that on of my friends is cheating on her husband, and that he is none the wiser about her adultery. Both of them are great people, and I know that neither one is truly satisfied with their marriage the way they ...

How should I feel about my husband looking at other girls?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

24 June 2010 (F) - My hubby recently told me he likes to look at other womens bodys and prettiness when he is with his friends they stare at girls and comment and when with me i see hem look at women also what should i do and how should i feel (confused here) ...

I married a much older man. How do I deal with his impotence and still get what I need from a marriage?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

24 June 2010 (F) - I married a man 18 yrs older than myself. 2 decades later and a child I'm regreting my choices but feel obligated to stay in the marriage due to religious beliefs. My husband has been impoent for years and I have never cheated on him. I was 38 ...

My husband isn't circumcized and it really turns me off!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

24 June 2010 (F) - *OP's Original Title* My husband isn't circumcized, and sometimes it turns me off. When I first met him, it wasn't really an issue, because of all the nice things that he used to do for me. But lately we have been trying to get pregnant, and Maki...

I'm having an affair with a man 3 times older than me. I am 23 and he is 53.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

24 June 2010 (F) - *OP's Original Title* I am having an affair with a man that's 3 times my age. I am 23 years old and have been married for 2 years, and he is 53 and has been married for 13 years. He actually went to school with my parents. I had sex with him the ...

My husband has to have his friend around all the time, is this normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5264 days ago

24 June 2010 (F) - What do you do when your husband is with his friends every day even when we go out as a family their with us? how do i handle this? should i get upset because it's normal or should i just let them go every where and just take my daugther and go? I ...