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writes:I've dated my hubby for a really long time and got married last year.he,s perfect. Does everything a husband should do. Provides for me, helps me out as best as he can with everything and anything, he genuinely loves me I know, The problem is he is not physical with me...we can go days without any physical contact and he won't notice. he won't hug or kiss (just occassionally when I fuss about it or when he randomely remembers)I'm right there and he just won't touch me. Just had a baby. My 9 months..ok maybe sex was 5-6 times. I thot oh he's being considerate or something.mbabys born n I had episiotomy and this is 7 weeks after( so ok he's been considerate again) but all these Time of consideration I'm crying on the inside for some physical attention. Some cuddles,proper kisses not pecks, some I love u,s, some romance anything.I'm so distraught. Told him 1 million times but nothing... Now everyother man who gives me as much as a handshake, gives me goosebumps..I can't live this way... Pls help. Reply to this Question
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reader, baddogbj  +, writes (26 June 2010):
 Well, in that case, he DOESN'T do everything a husband should do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2010): You husband is probably thinking he is being considerate also watching you go through all that some men can see you as a mother not his wife, he needs time to adjust, talk, without it turning into a row, to him tell him how you feeling. Most of all don't wait for him to come to you, touch him, kiss him, hug him, initiate sex, let him follow your lead.
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