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writes: My wife had sex sometime before we were married to a guy with a very large penis and has let it slip a few times that mine does not measure up. How do I keep from letting this affect our sex life?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2010): Start letting on that your ex was tighter and she is too loose.
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reader, mrvhappy  +, writes (29 June 2010):
Hi,
You dont state how big you are erect...ave in UK is approx 5" according to the shows on TV!!!
A mate of mine has a similar problem...but he makes up for the lack of size with stamina and pleanty of experimentation.
Its what you do to yr wife that will satify her...not the size. Try making love "doggy style" that way you will be able ot penerate deeper...& remember its only the 1st 4" that women feel....thats where all the sexual sensors are.
Maybe you could try and experiment more and that way if you please her she would take any notice of the size.
Good luck and I hope this helps
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2010): I'm in the same situation except I am not married, and I know a LOT of detail about the hung ex. He was like 9". I'm 6 and thick. There are still Magnum XL's in her drawer (expired). It tortures me sometimes, but only because I let it. You may not measure up, but she married you and not him. Women want the whole package, not just the cock. But my GF loves to be filled and for me to go deep. She says she loves it deep with me, but in my mind I know I am not going as deep as she might like...because of him. I am considering teling her we can do the larger dildo/penis sleeves thing, but she seems incredibly satisfied now, so maybe not. Is your wife satisfied, or just saying she's had bigger? Again, she's with you for a reason.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2010): you divorce her..... :)
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reader, pyan  +, writes (29 June 2010):
hi
first size does not matter believe me its what we do as lovers that makes the differance. let me explain. my wife get off on the thought of a big black guy but its me that gets her to that state. we have a very large dildo that we use when she just wants big so maybe you should try and get one of these
a girl friend i had was married to a guy who was very big and she found it difficult to take him. when i was with her she loved the things i did to her that she could never do with her ex.
so my advise is so learn to make her feel good look after her. let us know how you go
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reader, tamara_r  +, writes (29 June 2010):
 Add some spice in the bedroom, try something new..you could try one of those pills but those technically dont make you larger, all they do is keep you erect longer so that in tern you are larger as oppose to how your size would be without any arousal. I find from both experience and feom what others told me certain sexual positions help such as doggy style. Foreplay definately helps make the mojo flowing for both male and female so maybe try more of that? Id could be oral sex or role playing..whatever your comfortable with as well as your partner. Also keep in mind not all larger guys know how to use it, or are sometimes just to large in general! I think your wife may bring this issue up because she thinks back to the excitement and possibly spontaneity that she had in past relationships. Its possible shes hinting for a change in routine in the bedroom and wants to see if youll finally do something about it. Also confidence as you know is key,so show her.. whos her daddy..so to speak ;)
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2010): she shouldn't be talking about some other guy's penis with you.
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