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Archived questions from: July, 2007 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

Recently split from my husband and now he has plastered semi-nude photos of me on the walls of the house. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6352 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - I split from my husband about six months ago and moved out of our house, hoping I could figure out why I have fallen out of love with him. I still go home to help him with the monthly finances, and just to see how he's doing, but about a month ...

She is lying, hiding phone calls and wont speak to me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6270 days ago

31 July 2007 (M) - Im 38 years married with 3 kids my wife is 33 bye November 2007. we are married for 8 years now. we live happly before. till i decided that she should go back to classroom for further studies. Since , then she has developed bad behaviours , f...

She cheated on me - but it was 20 years ago

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

31 July 2007 (M) - I've been married almost 19 years, I have two boys (15 and 17), and my marriage is decent (not bad, but not heaven). I just found out that while we were dating, my wife cheated on me with her ex-boyfriend. I know this was over 20 years ago, bu...

My husband took another woman out on our boat while I was away

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - My husband took a female friend/coworker out on our boat while I was away at a sporting event last weekend. He picked her up in her town (by water), met her at the dock of a hotel at the waters edge, took her for a ride approx 30 km north up the ...

Please can you help me get some direction in my life

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

31 July 2007 (M) - I have been married for the past 18 years and love my family very much. Recently my wife moved out of the house because we were having some finanacial problems but I think that there's more to that. I have been trying very hard to bring my family ...

We always make "a fresh start" but he ends up cheating. Should I dump him for good?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - I won't go into details, but I have been with my husband for 6 years and we have children together. Recently he started to mix with a bad crowd. He has cheated on me various times throughout our time together, but we always said it would be a fr...

We're still very much newly weds, we shouldn't be having problems like this!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - I just caught my husband who just cheated on me like 2 weeks ago in yet another lie about hiding his porn!! If you've read my last post you saw that my husband of not even 7 months yet, cheated on me (had an emotional affair and kissed his ex while ...

My wife talks to him on her cell phone every night till 3am!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

30 July 2007 (M) - My wife and I have been married for nine years and I've just found out she's been cheating, the thing is he calls her every night on her cell phone and they talk till 3am every night, I confronted her and she says she won't stop talking to him, ...

If i don't have sex with him, then i have really lost him.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6354 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - I recently wrote about my husband cheating and going back and forth undecided who he wants to be with me (his wife) or his lover. And i know its obvious that i should leave him and I'm being strong and I'm trying to move on with my life, BUT when he ...

My husbands ex is always at parties we go too.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6354 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - My husband's best friend's wife, and my husband's ex are best friends. So every time we go to my husband's best friend's parties ,his ex is there. We both talk to each other but still i feel uncomfortable and it makes me mad to think that my husband ...

He refuses counselling and marriage.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6354 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - I have been married for 9 years. Hubby sex drive very low (app 4 times in a year), refuses to go counselling nor divorce. i am very fustrated at this point. Still in marriage becoz of kids but am giving up. I have tried using tactics to keep flame ...

My friends think he is controlling, and i'm not happy either.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6354 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - hi, basically ive recently got married but we are already having problems we have a daughter together and have been together 4 years previous to getting married. my husband has threatened to leave twice but going as far as packing his packs and me ...

Do I leave my wife for another woman?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4970 days ago

30 July 2007 (M) - Hello. I could do with a bit of advice.First of all ive been with my girlfriend for 10 years since we was kids im now 27. we have 2 children girl of 5 and boy of 1. i love my children very much.Im an electrical engineer and do ok for us.Now me an...

Why did he get married if he wanted to chat to other women?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6350 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - I discovered pornographic stories, written by my husband for other men and women, on his pc. He had asked for photographs of their wives (or them if they were female). This was the third time I had cause to wonder what he was doing on the pc. The ...

I'm so lonely and I don't think he loves me anymore

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - I wanted to say hello to all on this site..I am a new one here,just found this site...I think I am going enjoy this place... Well anyway, my problem is also like one I read on here and that made me want to join... I have been married for 26...

Is it wrong of me to want a divorce after discovering other women's pictures?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - While my husband was out of the house I discovered that during the past 2 years he has been looking at and saving pictures of other women. These pictures are from a fetish site and some are pornographic. When I confronted him, he lied to me and then ...

He wants her-he wants me-now he wants her again.I am devastated. Any advice is appreciated!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6355 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - My husband of 7 years cheated on me and when i found out i told him i would forgive him and that if he wanted we can just move on and be a family with our two daughters. He said no that he wanted to be with the other woman. It did hurt but i said ...

Ex-hubby wants the kids around his gf who poses naked on porn webcams! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6355 days ago

29 July 2007 (F) - Can you offer any advise about dealing with your ex husband who wants your small children to know and be around his girlfriend who shows her entire naked body on internet webcam sites (porn sites)? or other stories of people who are dealing with ...

I'm his wife, yet he loves his first fiancee more.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6249 days ago

29 July 2007 (F) - my husband and i have been married almost 2 years, together for 4 1/2. about a month ago he announced he wanted a divorce. apparently he found the "love of his life" a woman that had been his first fiance, 27 years ago. i was unaware that we were ...

Do you think that I can trust my wife with this man in our life?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6354 days ago

29 July 2007 (M) - In May 2006 my wife of eight years began having an affair with a coworker. I confronted her a few weeks later and she said that their secret relationship was over. Throughout the rest of the year I correctly suspected that their affair was ...

Is there any way for us to get marriage help without me taking a 32 week domestic violence course?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

29 July 2007 (M) - hi my wifes feeling have change for me . we keep on falling out not all the time. there has been another person involved not sexually but some one who my wife would talk to . i got jealous and over reacted. i have tried to reassure her that now i ...

My wife has health problems and is totally dependent on me..I feel trapped! Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6355 days ago

29 July 2007 (M) - ok so i'm 39 and have been married for 7 years and have a 15 year old step daughter. we've had our share of ups and downs. thing is because of health and mental health issues with my wife, she's completely dependant on me and i feel trapped and i'm ...

He spends all his time at the gym.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6355 days ago

29 July 2007 (F) - I'm 28 and have been with my husband, who's 30, for 5 years. We've got a 6-year-old son. We've been married for two years and for the last few weeks (well, 5 weeks actually), he's become obsessed with going the gym. I was pleased for him when he ...

He has not spoken to me in 4 days.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6355 days ago

29 July 2007 (F) - Hi. Am married, 38 w/3 children. Have always dealt with the finances at home..made a mess of them over and over again but husband never helps, he just gets really mad and spiteful so it's now unbearable. Hasn't spoken to me, eaten with me or even ...

Do you think it would be ok to have a relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6354 days ago

29 July 2007 (M) - hi, i need some honest impartial advice and after reading some of the replys this seems to be the place! Im a 27yrs old nurse,i have 3 children 15yr old boy(from my husbands first marriage) and 5yr old twins (girl and a boy). 2 1/2 yrs ago my husba...

She lays on her belly and tells me to hurry up.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6354 days ago

29 July 2007 (M) - I have been married for 26 years. Four years ago my wife had a hystorectomy and since then has lost all her sex drive and no longer has any desire to have sex. She no longer has an orgasim, so doesn't see the need to have sex. When we did the ...

Do i sign the papers?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6355 days ago

29 July 2007 (F) - I have been married for 35 years and we have one son 28.I am 59 and my husband is almost 61. For about 10 years we had a commuter marriage and I only saw my husband on week-ends. During that time my husband had two affairs within one year. With each ...

I would be too ashamed, but i want her.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6355 days ago

29 July 2007 (M) - The wife or the girlfriend? Well this is my question. I have been married for seven years. I got married when I was 22 and mainly because my wife was pregnant. Since then we have 3 children together. I have had 2 affairs on my wife both which she ...

my wife wanted to know my past, now she cant handle it. help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6354 days ago

28 July 2007 (M) - my wife and I are married 2 years. since the begining she has asked about my sexual past. not really feeling comfortable with this I reluctantly started to discuss my past. I am one that believes in not discussing this. my wife wants to know how ...

I'm just so scared of losing him...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6356 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - Hi this is following my question I wrote the other day. It was titled "I have developed a need to be with my husband, I miss him even when he's at work" They may not be the exact words but I posted it on the 26th July if that helps. Anyway...

I can't decide if I love my husband or if I'm just used to him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6356 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - hello everyone i have another question. i sent in a question early about marriage and 3 kids. in respnose to the answer someone gave me. It is not the problem of having time alone we have babysitters it him. i have been thinking about this for at ...

I'm craving the affection my husband doesn't give me and have been offered it from my first love; what should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6355 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - I get no affection from my husband at all. We have been married 15 years. Recently I came in contact with my first love.I want to see him really badly. I'm not sure if this is the thing I should do since I have been getting alot of effection from my ...

My husband loves me, but he is horrible at showing affection!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - So I have been with my husband for five years and we just got married last month. He is the perfect husband other then the fact that he has A HORRIBLE time showing affection. I've confronted him many times over the years about this and he will be ...

After 30 years of marriage my husband confessed to a one night stand (20 years ago).

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6356 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - After 30 years of marriage my husband confessed to a one night stand (20 years ago). His behavior during the first 20 years of marriage was selfish (did what he wanted all the time) without regard to me and our children. His actions in those years ...

Married but had a lesbian affair! We broke up but why is it so hard to forget?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6356 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - I'm married 18 years with 3 kids. I recently had a lesbian affair with my best friend of 16 years. I confessed to my husband, who forgave me and since then we have been trying to put our marriage back together. I have always been attracted to other ...

My wife is pregnant with her lover's child!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

28 July 2007 (M) - My wife began an affair beginning in May of 2006 with a co-worker. I found out about it a couple of weeks later and confronted her. She said that she would stop seeing the guy, yet within a few weeks apparently continued the affair. I confronted her ...

Three kids and marriage and I feel the romance is dead! Help me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6357 days ago

27 July 2007 (F) - i am 26 yrs old i have been with my husband going on 8 yrs and married barely 1 yr. i don't know what is going on, i know i love him but i am not happy at all. I wish i could say i was but i can't we have 3 young children (3, 4 , 5 yrs old). we ...

His family forced him to divorce me and now he regrets it

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 6129 days ago

27 July 2007 (F) - I recently got divorced after being with my husband for 12 years and we have 2 daughters. The oldest is mine as it is not his child, we only had 1 child married. My problem and question is this.We were having problems in our marriage and just fell ...

I saw a suspicious message on my wife's phone but she swears there's nothing in it; how can I trust her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6334 days ago

27 July 2007 (M) - hi i'm having trouble with my wife, she doesnt live in the states she lives with my son currently 2thousand miles away, i saw a message on her cell phone from a guy friend of hers saying love you horney. and since then i have trouble trusting her, ...

I keep hearing the same promises from my husband, but they never follow through!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6357 days ago

27 July 2007 (F) - Ok, so I've been with my husband for 10 years; we've always had our problems like every other couple. But the last two years have been hell. Both for myself and my children. Well i've told my husband that I'm through with this relationship and am ...

I still have feelings for my husband who I'm seperated from, how can I get over him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6357 days ago

26 July 2007 (F) - hi there i am new to this my question is how do i get over my husband. we have been together for 19 years and have 2 girls. We seperated last september and he has been seeing someone for the past 8-10 weeks. He has caused problems during our ...

I love my husband but not the sex.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6341 days ago

26 July 2007 (F) - Hi i am a 32 year old woman married for 12 year to the only man i have ever been with we have 2 children. All my friends fancy him and probably think we have a excellent sex life but the truth is i think its not. I went out with some friends a couple...

We are married and both bisexual and want to pursue others.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6358 days ago

26 July 2007 (F) - I am a married bisexual woman to another bisexual man. Recently, we spent some time with a girlfriend of mine (non-sexual girlfriend); we have a few drinks, and then next thing I know, we are playing strip poker and her and I are making out. The ...

I want a baby, but my husband doesn't.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6358 days ago

26 July 2007 (F) - Hi I'm married and want a baby but my husband doesn't want it so how will i convince him to have a baby...

I'm not sure if he is cheating.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6310 days ago

25 July 2007 (F) - I have been married for a little over a year, my husband and I fight constantly. I think he is cheating but I am not sure. I found a few phone numbers but nothing that confirms he has dated or had sex with another women. He has outside children...

I want to get over my online affair.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4759 days ago

25 July 2007 (F) - How do I get over my online 'friend'? I'll try to keep a long story short. I have been with my husband for 11 years (married for 2). Two/three years after we got together I met one of his old friends. I fell for him straight away, and we sta...

Is there any way a physical and abusive husband can ever change ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6357 days ago

25 July 2007 (F) - Hi all! i would like to know if there is any possibility that a verbally wrong/abusive and psysically abusive/bully husband can become 'normal' with time? (he does not drink, no drugs). if so, how long can this 'transformation' take? how can on...

What shall i do with my husbands online cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6335 days ago

24 July 2007 (F) - My question is 'what should I do with my husband'? He was caught in December meeting women online then calling them and then actually meeting in person two of them. He did not have sexual relations, but just the same it hurt. He promised...

How can I motivate myself to make more of an effort in the bedroom?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6360 days ago

24 July 2007 (F) - I have a small problem that I need some help with. I've been married 23 years to a good man. We have a good marriage. He has always had a stronger sex drive than I do. He's not asking for sex every night but he says he finds our sex life to be ...

I want to get divorced, but I am terrrified of the wrath of G-d!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6345 days ago

24 July 2007 (F) - I want to end my 25 year marriage because my husband and I have grown apart and there is absolutely no attraction in it for me. But I have tremendous religious guilt and worry incessively that God is going to punish me for doing this horrible ...