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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:My husband's best friend's wife, and my husband's ex are best friends.So every time we go to my husband's best friend's parties ,his ex is there.We both talk to each other but still i feel uncomfortable and it makes me mad to think that my husband loved her.Otherwise i am in a happily married life for ten years.Plz help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2007): Honey this is your time to shine! If she keeps showing up is because she knows it upsets you, but if you turn the tables on her and show you are confident and in love she'll feel yuck and will soon start not attending those parties where the two of you are at.I know because we have mutal friends that are friends w/my husband's ex and i would make sure i looked my very best and talked to everyone at the party and was the star of the show - even if it killed me inside, i wouldn't show it. She then realized why he left her and picked me. She doesn't attend parties where she knows her ex now my husband are going to show up. HA HA HA enjoy and have fun!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2007): Sounds like it's time for you guys to make a few new friends. Maybe if you can click with another couple, your husband will have a new male best friend to run around with and your functions won't always have to involve the "ex". She probably comes partly because she knows it drives you nuts. Just remember their marriage ended and he's with you now. Hold your head up, smile and don't let her know it bugs you.
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reader, BEEN THERE DONE IT  +, writes (30 July 2007):
 Hi babes,
You said it yourself he once loved her, but did he because if he did he would still be with her wouldn't he? its you he loves and has married so don't let this make you angry breath deep breaths a wisper under your breath he married me he married me he married me....
She is an ex his past before he knew you, you have a past too so does everyone so let the past stay where it should be......
Hold your head up high show her your both very happy and be proud of him and most of all be proud of yourself he LOVES YOU XX
Good luck babes,
hope this has helped
Love Donna xx
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