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Archived questions from: October, 2006 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

He loves porn..he texts other women in chatrooms and he says he does it because....he's just messing about??? I feel worthless-what should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6625 days ago

31 October 2006 (F) - hi im recently married to a man i love very much and i know that he loves me to however he loves to look at porn on the net and also texts to other women through chat rooms also the women have sent him rude pics of themselves. i have confronted him ...

Who do I choose-my wonderful new man or my husband who left me for another woman?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 6109 days ago

31 October 2006 (F) - My husband left me for another woman, I was devastated but eventually tried to move on and even began seeing someone else. Now my husband has left the other woman and says he@ll do anything to get me back! I am very confused and dont want to hurt ...

I honestly want to just help her and get her away from him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6626 days ago

31 October 2006 (M) - I have a female friend who I love and care for very much. She is recently divorced ( for three months and were seperated for two years). She filed for the divorce because he had an affair and is keeping it going. She gave him numurous chances for ...

Update! He's still work obsessed! This is still stressing me out. More advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6625 days ago

31 October 2006 (F) - Hi, my name is Natasha and I'm 25 from Birmingham, West Midlands, UK, I originally wrote: ----------------------------------------------------- My name's Natasha, I'm 25 and my husband is 28. Recently he's become obsessed with work, refusing to s...

I'm jealous because he can't let go of the mothers of his children

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6240 days ago

31 October 2006 (F) - i met my partner two and a half years ago, we had an affair, he left his wife and moved in with me eighteen months ago. he has two children with the wife and another little one who lives ten minutes from us. my problem is that neither of the two ...

Started an affair with my husband's brother...

This question has 37 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

31 October 2006 (F) - I got married 2 months ago to a man I had been living with for 2 years previously. My husband is a wonderful man who I truly love but unfortunately our sex life has never been fantastic. However I thought this was not important as we get on so ...

My husband works far away and is not keen on on visiting or coming home to us. What should I do about this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6626 days ago

31 October 2006 (F) - My husband started a new job and relocated to one of the islands just one month short of a year ago. He knows I hate living by myself and I am rearing our 12 year old daughter who had to stay with me all on my own. She visits him during school ...

Husband's medication for ED still doesn't help us in the bedroom. He simply is not interested! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6626 days ago

31 October 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid: My husband was diagnosed with Ed well that was no big surprise for me at all. Our sex life is slim to none. Now that I finally got him to go to the doctor and he has a diagnosis and has medication to help him he still has no interest...

She loves another and not me! She regrets having 2 kids with me...any thoughts?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5931 days ago

30 October 2006 (M) - I have 2 kids with my girlfriend of 7 years we lived together for the last 6 years we broke up 5 months ago i lived in a differnt room in the house 3 mths ago she told me she was dating someone from church and she thinks she is going to marry him. I ...

Left our spouses, but now he doesn't know what he wants....what should I do???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6627 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - I got married August 2006 after living with my partner for 5 years, our relationship was more a convenience that anything else and I always had strong feeling for someone who worked at the same company as I did. Having been married for 8 months I ...

My husband needs to grow up and put me and our baby, on his priority list. We hardly see him! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6628 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - I've been married for 5 years and we have a baby daughter. My husband owns his own businesses and works hard to provide for us. We decided that I'd give up my career and stay home with our daughter. I loved that decision and am happy to be home. ...

My wife is HIV positive. Should I continue a relationship with her?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

29 October 2006 (M) - I meet my wife after six months we got married within another six month later, she got pregenat, and within two weeks she was diagonised for (hiv)positive. I was confused and afraid, i went for my own hiv test but as God will have his way, i was ...

I feel so rejected and abandoned by my husband right now! Can anyone help me cope?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6106 days ago

29 October 2006 (F) - Hi, its 3 months today since my husband and I split up, it was not what i wanted but he seemed to be unable to commit to the future i wanted, having a family (even though he said he wanted this too, numerous times). I am finding it very hard to get ...

I love him but get tense when he touches me! What is wrong with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6627 days ago

29 October 2006 (F) - I have two boys aged 9 and 11 years old from a previous relationship I got married last june to another man and had a baby daughter 4 months ago. I cannot get close to my husband and he is getting really fed up and has been looking at porny on the ...

My wife's sister is seducing me

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5149 days ago

28 October 2006 (M) - my wife's sister seducing me for long time now,she is older than my wife(32),more cute and very nice french body,she is visiting us regullary,and spend some nights and days with us,and her mum too.going to the beach,hotels,swimming pools with us,she ...

What do you make of my husbands 'slave girls' comment?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6629 days ago

28 October 2006 (F) - What would you make of this comment made by my husband. My husband and i were joking around and he commented that if he had some slave girls they could 'fully turn him on before I entered the room'. I didnt say much about it at the tme but cant help ...

Well, I'm no saint

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6618 days ago

27 October 2006 (M) - Subject: Almost 20 years married, no sex for almost 8 - ready to finally leave. I never thought I'd be in this dilemma. I just hope this experience will help someone. I've been married to the sweetest and kindest woman I know for almost ...

He called me another name during sex,is he having an affair?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6630 days ago

27 October 2006 (F) - My husband called me by another name while we were having sex. Does this mean that he is having an affair?...

Wearing the sexy nurse's outfit didn't work--so how do I spice things up without looking like an idiot?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6631 days ago

25 October 2006 (F) - i need your help me i decided to surprise my husband and buy my self a sexy nurse outfit as my husband had dropped a few hints so i got my mum to have the kids for the night and after having a lovely meal at home i go upstairs and put the outfit on ...

My new wife ended up being a nightmare--how do I put this horrible marriage experience behind me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6631 days ago

25 October 2006 (M) - Hi everyone, well I have been here before and some very kind people have given me some very good advices. my story is very sad, it is like what it only happens in the films and I can't get over it, I think I am going mad. I married about si...

We been married for 15 years and want to spice up marriage with threesome!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5173 days ago

25 October 2006 (F) - dear cupid, my husband and i have been married for 15 years,and we are very secure in our marriage.but we need to spice it up a bit.my question to you is it cheating if we have a threesome? thanks...

I found some cross dressing, gay sites he's been on. Is my husband gay?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

25 October 2006 (F) - I dont know what to do,I found these sites:local gay personals in my city, meeting men who crossdress, ladies underwear, feminizing men on my computer . I went and questioned him he said it was either his friends or sites that just pop up when a key ...

My husband missing underwear! Should I be worried?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6632 days ago

25 October 2006 (F) - My husband came home one day without his undies on, when I knew he left with them on. I found them hidden, I asked him where are they , he said he didn't know then told me the hidding spot that I'd had already found when I confronted him. Then he ...

My friend wants to revenge cheat on her husband and I'm encouraging it! Am I wrong to do this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6633 days ago

24 October 2006 (F) - My best friend isa doctor and she works a long time everyday, she earns a lot of money and has a little daughter and a civil servant husband, Her husband is very nice and takes care of the little girl but one night he was unfaithful and passed his ...

Unsure I love my wife, but I fancy a work colleague. What do I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6350 days ago

24 October 2006 (M) - Have been married 11 years and have a son who is 9. I have recently been having feelings that I no longer love my wife or even find her attractive anymore. I have told my wife that I am unsure whether I love her or not and she pursuaded me to ...

My husband works away and he's just informed me that he is having an affair!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6629 days ago

22 October 2006 (F) - Hi my husband of 11 years has just informed me he is having an affair with a woman where he works, he works out of the country and has done for the last 2 and half years, he is away for 6 weeks at a time and only home for 2 weeks. I think the affair ...

Should i divorce and hurt my son?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6607 days ago

21 October 2006 (M) - I am married man for 18 years, i have a son of 13 ,the problem is i lost all intrest in my wife, over several years i have cheated before, just typical one night stands, now i have met a woman i work with , been sexually involved with her for ...

Married but in love with a younger woman! Having a hard time with these feelings...what can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6635 days ago

21 October 2006 (M) - Hello, I am married since 1994, one son and living quite well with my wife up to now. Some 7 months ago I got acquainted with a younger woman (10 years; 40 versus 30 years old) and as I saw her for the very first time, I got a strange sensatio...

Life's a bitch... And then I married one - help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6636 days ago

21 October 2006 (M) - Hi everyone, well I have been here before and some very kind people have given me some very good advices. my story is very sad, it is like what it only happens in the films and I can't get over it, I think I am going mad. I married about six ...

How do I make this married guy leave his wife and kids for me?

This question has 34 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

20 October 2006 (F) - i am currently "dating" a married man that i work with. i too am married. he told me that he loved me almost 6weeks into the relationship and i returned with i love you too. he has 3 kids and i have 1. we see each other maybe 2-3 times a week and ...

I think my husband is up to something or thinking about it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6637 days ago

20 October 2006 (F) - i know my husband is up to something everytime i ask him straight out he makes an excuse and has to go somewhere or hides behind the kids how do i bluff him so that he has no option but to be straight when anyone comes in he's very attentive to me ...

Everytime I want to go out with my friend he goes mad!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6637 days ago

19 October 2006 (F) - Everytime i want to go out with the females my husband gets mad and it makes me feel like he only wants me to be friend with his best friends wives what should i do.....

After lying at first, my wife admitted to having lunch with a guy from work. Should I trust her in that nothing is going on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6609 days ago

19 October 2006 (M) - One day my (attractive) wife and I planned on lunch at her work's cafeteria. She cancelled. A friend of mine at her work told me she had lunch with a bigshot in the company. He asked her out to a lavish restaurant. It was odd because she only has 30 ...

His behaviour tells me he doesn't love me anymore and I know I don't love him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6638 days ago

18 October 2006 (F) - I have been with my husband for five years and married for two. At first our relationship was great and had a lot of respect and love for eachother, but soon he started taking advantage of me financially and this year he started to act violently ...

I want out but he says I am taking his family away from him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6639 days ago

18 October 2006 (F) - Hi, Well I have all sorts of things going through my head. First of all I am married and I have not been for years. I have been married for 5 years and now we have two kids and I believe that I am only in it for them. I am having an affair and can ...

I'm attractive and work hard at pleasing my husband...so why is our sex life the pits?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6410 days ago

18 October 2006 (F) - My husband and I are in our late twenties. I am 27, he's 28. Married two years and I guess I have been denying many things about our marriage/relationship for too long. I dont believe i am a supermodel but I have been told by other men, male ...

How can someone you know so well...hurt you so much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6639 days ago

18 October 2006 (F) - I broke up with my husband coming up 12 weeks,ive been a complete wreck as i wasnt expecting it. I was prepared to try and work on our problems which to me were fixable but the major problem is I would like to have a family and he just isnt sure ...

I am having problems with my wife and the only thing that makes me happy is my lover!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6638 days ago

18 October 2006 (M) - Hi everyone: I (age 28) have been married for 3 years and never cheated on my wife before. 2 months ago, I kissed one of my co-workers who is 21 years old. AN unbelievable romance started with that kiss. I first started liking her and now we are ...

He asked me to get rid of all my male friends when we got married but now he is taking womens number!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6639 days ago

18 October 2006 (F) - Well I was looking in my husbands cell phone and found a female co-worker number in the phone and I asked him about it...he tells me it's just for them to keep in touch but why does he need to be friends with another women....he asked me to get rid ...

My husbad had an affair with our 17 year old babysitter!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6639 days ago

18 October 2006 (F) - my husband and i were married 2 years when he cheated on me with our 17 year old babysitter. this affair was on going 6 months before i found out. we went to marrage counciling to save our marrage. now almost 2 years later i still can not de...

We hardly ever have sex and when we do he has to drink first!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6637 days ago

18 October 2006 (F) - I have been with my partner now for almost 5 years. He was married for 23 years previously to meeting me, and says he never had this problem with her. Even from the start of our relationship (which we are married now for over a year and a half) we ...

I'm having an affair...I don't feel the same about my husband and never want to leave my lovers to go home!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6635 days ago

18 October 2006 (F) - I am married and im having an affair with a woman. we started out as friends then we became lovers. I dont know what to do our relationship started 18 months ago, i dont know if i should leave my husband. I've been married for 23 years lately i ...

His ex wife cheated on him and I'm now suffering for this!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6639 days ago

17 October 2006 (F) - been married for 1yr.no sex unless husband wants it if i do tuff know love or effection treats me like grap.all he says is its me.but hes been hurt of woman his ex wife slept with his bestmate.and i suffer for it im 33 good looking sexualy ...

I still love my wife a lot--but am afraid to tell her in case she doesn't feel the same way! Help..any advice for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6640 days ago

17 October 2006 (M) - I have been apart from my wife for 4 years. We even divorced becouse I thought it would help me "move on". We have two beautiful little girls together and have remained friends. I have had several relationships, but I still think about her every ...

I want another baby, but now my husband says no to that! What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6162 days ago

17 October 2006 (F) - My husband and I have been happily married for 10 years. our daughter is 3 and we always talked about having other children, but now my husband is adamant that he does not want another. I am gutted, but love my husband and daughter too much to ...

While hubby is in Irag, the old bf shows up on the scene and old feelings have come back. What on earth do I do now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6640 days ago

17 October 2006 (F) - Ok my storys kinda complicated... Before I got married to this guy Ive been with for four years, we were having problems and we started seeing different people. At the time my girlfriend had introduced me to her brother who is still currently i...

My marriage is over and now my online bf says our relationship is over, too! I am devastated! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6640 days ago

16 October 2006 (F) - I need some advice I have been married over 15 years, but in that time my hubby has had 3 affairs. The first when I was pregnant with our first child. Then again about 3 years ago whilst he was on a break from a 6 year affair. I now realise ...

He's 56 and in a loveless marriage. I'm 40 and he and I have had sex..am I doing the right thing?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6617 days ago

16 October 2006 (F) - I am 40 well nearly 41 is it right to date a man of 56 (old enough to be my father) he is in a loveless marriage and loves me no worships me, we meet when we can in secret of course, we make wonderful love, we have so much ic common. We live in ...

Should I go back to Jim for the sake of our child or be with Bob-who I am in love with?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6640 days ago

16 October 2006 (F) - Hi all anyones help will be great. Here is the problem I have been married for almost four years now and have a beautiful three year son. However, a year ago my husband we will call him Jim and I split and have just started talking about trying ...

If I know she really doesn't want kids and I do is that a big enough issue to think twice about our marriage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6641 days ago

16 October 2006 (M) - I know I want kids, she's not 100% sure nowadays. We've been married for 6 years now and were starting to get serious about having kids. Yes, we probably should have been on the same page before we got married, but I thought we were. She's got...